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reepbot said:
Well I'm sure you will be back to your usual self in no time!
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reepbot said:
Very young. I think he was signed by Usher at 13? But good on him for wanting to improve himself. We all have things we need to work on. I for one could be better at being a friend.
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Yeah around that age. I agree with you, we all have things we need to work on. I think it's important you don't let choices that were not so good define you though, you just gotta brush them off and work on being the best you can be, faults and all.
 
Sweetgeek said:
Yeah around that age. I agree with you, we all have things we need to work on. I think it's important you don't let choices that were not so good define you though, you just gotta brush them off and work on being the best you can be, faults and all.
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I agree. But the problem is that sometimes other people define you by the bad choices you make.
 
reepbot said:
I agree. But the problem is that sometimes other people define you by the bad choices you make.
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don't let them make you define yourself that way too. Make peace with what happened and accept what happened and just learn from it :) Think of this like a see-saw. Normally balanced but it will go up and down often with people jumping on and off it. It never stays in the same position because people cannot help themselves and jump on and off. Everyone will have their say and define how they want, some peoples thoughts will be up and some will be down in your point of view- You just have to go with it sometimes and find your own balance.

edit: In simpler terms, what LUCAS said lol
 
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Sweetgeek said:
don't let them make you define yourself that way too. Make peace with what happened and accept what happened and just learn from it :) Think of this like a see-saw. Normally balanced but it will go up and down often with people jumping on and off it. It never stays in the same position because people cannot help themselves and jump on and off. Everyone will have their say and define how they want, some peoples thoughts will be up and some will be down in your point of view- You just have to go with it sometimes and find your own balance.

edit: In simpler terms, what Jordan said lol
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What did I say? Ha ha.
 
Lucas said:
That's their problem. All you can do is try and learn from your mistakes and try to become a better person from it.
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I guess you are right. Although sometimes I understand fully what mistakes I have made, other times I don't because it was never properly explained to me the mistakes I made to make that person so upset.
 
Sweetgeek said:
don't let them make you define yourself that way too. Make peace with what happened and accept what happened and just learn from it :) Think of this like a see-saw. Normally balanced but it will go up and down often with people jumping on and off it. It never stays in the same position because people cannot help themselves and jump on and off. Everyone will have their say and define how they want, some peoples thoughts will be up and some will be down in your point of view- You just have to go with it sometimes and find your own balance.

edit: In simpler terms, what LUCAS said lol
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My Poppy always used to say 'You got to have a balance.'. He said that a lot. Mainly I think because he had dementia so he often would say the same things over and over again. Still, it was good advice.
 
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