the thing about tonights show is that no one really did anything wrong deliberately.
- sam and priya thought they were having a bit of fun, hey Aisha is the easy going chick that doesn't seem to get bothered by much and they were both sorry and sad that she was sad.
- Aisha had a shit experience and she didn't speak up at the time. She felt like shit afterwards, and blamed herself for not speaking up and didn't want to upset sam and priya because she knew their intentions were not dark, but something wasn't sitting right, she needed some time and a good cry to sort out her feelings.
- everyone validated her feelings and tried to help, sam and priya felt bad. Priya went straight to Aisha, sam waited and in the interim trav approached him to recommend he apologise. Sam probably wanted to anyway, but this seemed like Trav was butting in, caused negative feelings, unintentional on travs behalf, but probs made things more difficult.
- trav wanted to look after Aisha but wanted to respect that she can look after herself. Inserted himself with good intentions but probably made sam feel like he was being chastised.
In then end I don't think anyone did anything with malice.
I actually like Aisha more.....yes in my eyes she over reacted over a bit of buffoonery that wasn't intended to upset her, but she is allowed to feel whatever she feels, and I think she handled it well and did not want to cause anyone any problems. She was upset and is allowed to be. Other people getting involved made the waters murky, but they did so out of good places, so they didn't do anything wrong either.
It was a lot to take in but at the end of the day I can't take sides because no one was trying to hurt anyone else, things just got "magnified" as they say, in the big brother house.