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Something needs to be done about tahan, it has gone past petty bitchiness and progressed to bullying we should not accept this especially on national television. When did bullying become entertainment ?
 
Hear hear! What we're seeing of Tahan on the show is nothing short of bullying. Why would the voting public support this when all we're seeing is a bully.

There's probably more to her but we are definitely not seeing it.
 
Huh? It is the other girls who have banded together in a force to attack and bitch all day about one single person.

From the first week the Sugars have been calling her a bitch to Australia - 'She is just a mean girl' 'yeah' ' and we're not mean girls' 'Noooo' 'And if she could just be nice, like us, then we would be friends with her.' This is from the first confrontation. We are not bitches, but Tahan is such a mean girl for talking about people behind their backs. We never do that. Don't tell Tahan we said this.

Tahan is undoubtably a bitch. But can you say Mikkayla doesn't bitch abouh her as much? Jade, the sisters and Mikkayla bitch about her all the time, have ostracised her too. She asked for it, but so has Tim, so has Tully. Bullying? She points out their genuine flaws in a bitchy way.

It is a fair fight, at least. Not bullying.
 
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I didn't claim that the other girls were not being bitchy, there is bitching and there is bullying, yes the girls talk about her and so forth but bullying is an entirely different thing. Tahan has done this from the start and yes the girls wouldn't have a problem with her if she wasn't so damn nasty especially to make personal attacks to a group of people for a laugh its disgusting and shouldn't be tolerated
 
Xen N Katie said:
I didn't claim that the other girls were not being bitchy, there is bitching and there is bullying, yes the girls talk about her and so forth but bullying is an entirely different thing. Tahan has done this from the start and yes the girls wouldn't have a problem with her if she wasn't so damn nasty especially to make personal attacks to a group of people for a laugh its disgusting and shouldn't be tolerated
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To be fair, I find Mikkayla's laugh bloody annoying and I only have to watch her through a TV screen, rather than actually having to live with her.
 
Oh of course I should apologize for the ignorance of others, if you can not see the difference between bitchy and bully or you accept the behavior of a bully then this post clearly is not for you. Nobody deserves to be made to feel insecure or unaccepted for the way they are. This is exactly what is happening and I for one think its disgusting you can have your opinion and I'll stick to mine
 
I don't think it's bullying. It's just immature rude & thoughtless behaviour. Not nice, but not bullying - she's not getting much support from the other HMs for the stuff she does when she crosses the line, so perhaps she'll learn that it's not ALWAYS best to just speak your mind before thinking of the consequences.
 
They supported Ben last year when he was bullying Estelle... sadly people seem to get enjoyment out of disgusting behaviour.
 
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They supported Ben last year when he was bullying Estelle... sadly people seem to get enjoyment out of disgusting behaviour.
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Yeah but what's going on in the house this year isn't the same at all. Last year was clearly and deliberately bullying.


People getting shitty at each other, as what's happening this year. Isn't bullying. It's just people getting shitty.

Some people need to realise just because someone is mean or upset at someone else, that doesn't automatically constitute bullying.
 
Maybe Tim should just sticky the definition of the word bullying somewhere so we don't have to keep going through this every time someone misuses the word yet again.

bullying present participle of bul·ly
Verb
Use superior strength or influence to intimidate (someone), typically to force him or her to do what one wants.

And from the NSW Schools website: Bullying is repeated verbal, physical, social or psychological behaviour that is harmful and involves the misuse of power by an individual or group towards one or more persons.
 
Okay so if your child was at school in a group and one person gathered others and maliciously attacks the way they look or eat or behave and has everyone pulling the piss it would not be classified bullying.???
 
Xen N Katie said:
Okay so if your child was at school in a group and one person gathered others and maliciously attacks the way they look or eat or behave and has everyone pulling the piss it would not be classified bullying.???
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Yes it would be. Did that happen in the BB house? Did a group of people all "maliciously attack" Mikkayla about eating and how she behaves? Or was it one person attacking her while she attacked back and then that same person imitating her eating while no one laughed and everyone sat there in silence? Mikkayla has never even seen Tahan imitate her eating! She had to be told by Jade the next day.

Again, just because someone's being a bitch doesn't mean they're a bully.
 
I'm so sick of people crying bullying every time someone says something bitchy or they have a fight. Ffs!!
 
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