No problem, didn't take offense. I agreed neither way is very nice, just than one does provoke more animosity than the other.
I recently have lost my father, my mother in law and an uncle, all in the last 12 months, so I know where you are coming from, but I also think that jades comment was said in frustration at something that had recently taken place with Tahan (although I don't remember exactly what now), and therefore I myself kind of excused it, however I found Mikkayla's comment about kicking dirt much nastier because at the time it came out of the blue, she had not recently had a confrontation with Tahan, although they had had a stormy relationship up until then. I guess in life we would all be guilty of saying things in the heat of the moment that we regret later and I think this would be one of those!