Define “deal with”? If you get a brain tumor for example, does the surgeon need to be hot? Would you still love your Mum if she had a face like a kicked in bucket? Would you shop at a more expensive supermarket because the checkout person is attractive? Prettiness is not only subjective, it’s also more often irrelevant than not. If it takes precedence in your life over and above other qualities, then you need to take a close look at yourself. Judging everyone on whether you personally want to fuck them or not should only be applicable about 5% of the time at best. But yes, “pretty” privilege is real because there are a lot of superficial people around.