the only relationship i have with inigo is a very confused memory. and by confused i mean by the "why" not the "what". the "what" has always been easy to see. but when certain behaviours can make you question the "what" it leaves the "why" all the more confusing.
and if i had seen those certain behaviours towards other posters then the "why" would not be confusing at all but just a part of her personality. but it wasn't.