General O/T Chit Chat Thread

[Tee]

I swear you must lay in wait, then go in for the kill when you see any posts Trala regardless of the content. I really hoped you would of grown out of this

And when you say "go in for the kill" you mean come off looking like a deluded Stage 10 Clinger, yes?

He is obsessed with me and this thread. OBSESSED.

Reepbot isn't even this clingy when it comes to ykw!

 

[Witty Banter]

I swear you must lay in wait, then go in for the kill when you see any posts Trala regardless of the content. I really hoped you would of grown out of this

Not half as much as I hoped you would mentally grow and learn the correct English alternative "would have". Moral condemnation from beneath: deflected.

 

[Witty Banter]

And when you say "go in for the kill" you mean come off looking like a deluded Stage 10 Clinger, yes?

He is obsessed with me and this thread. OBSESSED.

Reepbot isn't even this clingy when it comes to ykw!

Posted minutes after providing your Witty/Reepbot/Fuzz interaction lurker report.

 

[Tee]

It is difficult working with people like that, I think if they can move on too that's great, but from your description of this other person, they might find it difficult to move on. We all come across lots of personalities in the work force, and for some reason their are loads of them in Nursing! It is good that you are wanting to resolve it, and it must be awful for you to have to deal with it on a day to day.

To be honest, it's just her. Usually it doesn't bother me, but for three consecutive days my shift started with her roaring at me because of things she didn't realise at the time she had missed/mistook/and not handed over.

She makes all sorts of mistakes all the time, and instead of simply being accountable, and reviewing the situation and realising "my mistake" she has a knee jerk reaction, gets on that low limping pony, makes a huge deal about it, then ends up looking like a fuckhead when she realises the mistake is hers, and the anger and resentment festers in her (sound familiar).

I feel much better today. I just needed to step off for a day.

How are you anyway. How is that broken heart of yours?

 

[Tee]

Posted minutes after providing your Witty/Reepbot/Fuzz interaction lurker report.

Posted minutes after proving your clinger status is still set to DANGEROUSLY HIGH.

 

[camera_shy_2]

And when you say "go in for the kill" you mean come off looking like a deluded Stage 10 Clinger, yes?

He is obsessed with me and this thread. OBSESSED.

Reepbot isn't even this clingy when it comes to ykw!

Yes. When Trala played her bully victim trump card, my immediate thought was all the flashbacks of Trala dispensing anti victim advice herself and the tear in the logical and consistent universe continuum. We also know Trala haaaates validation pity parties like the plague, so I'm obliging her there. As for me not being 'normal', ain't plural societies grand ?! Celebrate diversity (except for Trala's backflippy hypocritical diveristy of dispensed advice versus that actually practised.)

Now, moving on...!

I was convinced i was reading a thread and posts from 7 months ago.
I am.
You two are saying the same things with same emphasis and same spite and same merry-go-round as June/July
After Witty spanks a few spurts out over the Mario Kart crew before lunch I am confident her can micro-search each and every post similar to ones quoted above; yet with different date stamps
Everything old is new again.
Trala you do not look nearly 50,,,unless of course you are referring to kilograms weighed - You look ultra slim
Witty you do not act 50...unless of course you are referring to your Intelligence Quota, which, if it is 51+ will see you correct one word in this post, quick sticks.
And that word is LUST for one another.
You cannot truly hate/despise someone unless you have the opposite and equal feelings for them,,,,or had them at some stage....or accept that you are capable of having one day.
Just go behind the lunch shed and do the deed already so we can go back to bashing reepbot.
Ta

 

[Witty Banter]

Throughout my career, I had two formal workplace complaints made about me. Same guy who turned out to be a serial workcover con artist. First was that I turned an air conditioner that was blowing directly in my face down without adequate group consultation. Rather than say something, he logged it in his unsafe workplace diary. Second was he asked if his PC network card had been installed and I answered not unless you installed it. Straight in the workcover unsafe workplace diary. He tried a workcover claim and got laughed at.

 

[camera_shy_2]

Is this the first and only occasion where a group stood by and directly blew over your face ?
Are you in the habit of having other males install their network card inside you, with or without your approval?

Comment:

 

[Witty Banter]

Is this the first and only occasion where a group stood by and directly blew over your face ?
Are you in the habit of having other males install their network card inside you, with or without your approval?

Comment:

Nup. I'm well studied in defensive chasitity poses at both ends, thanks.

 

[mutleyp]

Good Moanin OT thread!!!

I am about to embark on a well deserved day off, and quite frankly I need it! I have been under some stress at work. I know the word has lost some of its power due to constantly being misused, but I think I am being bullied by a nurse at work. The reason I am thinking it is actually bullying is because her constant targeting of me actually left me crying alone in the work toilets, and that is never an appropriate response to work interactions.

It has been going on for two years and it started when she didn't report a patient falling. When a patient has an unwitnessed fall, there is a time consuming process that must be followed, and it starts with 15 min neuro obs, millions of forms and a PRIME. The patient told the AIN, and the AIN told me, and after speaking to the patient and his wife, I was left with no choice but to update the CNC to follow it up, and the grudge was born.

On Monday her nastiness towards me got to the point it made me cry with sadness, and Tuesday morning I decided enough was enough. Now I have to work out the most effective way to try and build a bridge and move forward.

If you speak to her about it make sure there is a 3rd person present, I have worked with many of those types, they have a way of twisting things

 

[camera_shy_2]

........

Nup. I'm well studied in defensive chasitity poses at both ends, thanks.

......yes, but only to fit in as 'foreplay' / 'hard to get' / 'no means yes' / safe word = its only blood

 

[mutleyp]

Well I think the most successful non-winner of a singing show would be Ricki-Lee. But I am pretty biased there.
I guess Mauboy!

Morning show, recently on a reality show. Hmmm that one's harder. I need to think more. Australian reality show or US? Trala said it is her fave yank!

Maybe

 

[mutleyp]

Good Moanin OT thread!!

Given that I am nudging closer and closer towards 50, I have had to begrudgingly accept in order for me to see patients buzzers clearly, and to see medication orders, I need two sets of glasses, so bifocals it is.

I look like Harry Potters nan

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Gurlllll

 

[Witty Banter]

when you get the reaction you're absolutely counting on, you revert to victim mode and sob "bully stalker" and squeal things like "LEAVE ME ALONE!!".

In life you don't get to scream "STALKER!" or "BULLY!" merely because you are faced with an opinion or response you don't like.

Nor is it accectable to use the word bully to manipulate yourself to be the victim. Just because someone disagrees with you, or challenges your opinion in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable doesn't mean they are a bully.

#victimfail4

 

[shadow2]

Oh good grief

 

[shadow2]

Not half as much as I hoped you would mentally grow and learn the correct English alternative "would have". Moral condemnation from beneath: deflected.

Gosh thanks for picking up on my error.

 

[shadow2]

To be honest, it's just her. Usually it doesn't bother me, but for three consecutive days my shift started with her roaring at me because of things she didn't realise at the time she had missed/mistook/and not handed over.

She makes all sorts of mistakes all the time, and instead of simply being accountable, and reviewing the situation and realising "my mistake" she has a knee jerk reaction, gets on that low limping pony, makes a huge deal about it, then ends up looking like a fuckhead when she realises the mistake is hers, and the anger and resentment festers in her (sound familiar).

I feel much better today. I just needed to step off for a day.

How are you anyway. How is that broken heart of yours?

The broken heart is still there. Mending slowly, though I feel it won't be the same. The grief comes in waves, some days I'm great, but then I might think of something that reminds me of my dad, and I am overwhelmed with sadness. I understand others have gone through losing someone that they loved, and it isn't about me, I feel for my poor mum who is on her own after 52 years. Just miss him. But you have to keep moving.

 

[Tee]

If you speak to her about it make sure there is a 3rd person present, I have worked with many of those types, they have a way of twisting things

I am actually leaning towards doing it one on one but keeping the conversation non twistable, light and non accusatory. Sort of, I feel we need to clear the air in order to work together in a healthy manner, I am sorry if my actions have upset or irritated you in the past, can we put that behind us and move forward as a team?

While I have definitively worked with people I haven't preferred, I have never ever had any sort of formal work complaints made against me in my life. And while I have discussed the issue with my NUM, I told her that I wanted to think for a couple of days in regards to making my complaint formal. Now I have calmed down, I am really leaning towards calm one on one conversation. I much prefer to try and sort the situation out myself first.

 

[Tee]

Oh good grief

Imagine if they banned him from the search function?! He would implode!

My favourite searched and found post of so far was an absolute clanger from 2013. I must say, of the posts he has fossicked so far, even all this time later, I still stand behind every word.

I guess while he is unhealthily clinging to me he is leaving the kids on Mario Cart alone

 

[Tee]

The broken heart is still there. Mending slowly, though I feel it won't be the same. The grief comes in waves, some days I'm great, but then I might think of something that reminds me of my dad, and I am overwhelmed with sadness. I understand others have gone through losing someone that they loved, and it isn't about me, I feel for my poor mum who is on her own after 52 years. Just miss him. But you have to keep moving.

Do you see him in your dreams?