Who'd you message!! Or did you realise just in the nick of time?

Who'd you message!! Or did you realise just in the nick of time?
One of the mysteries of the ages.why are long weekends always so short?
can't say I've watched either so I have no clue...why is that every time 'The Fifth Element' with Bruce Willis and Milla Jovovich comes on I sit down and watch it?... Fox has probably played about 6 times in the last week and I automatically get glued to the TV and watch it yet again... it's on now as I type... it's the same as with 'True Lies' with Arnie and Jamie Lee Curtis... they have some sort of hold on me... weird!... cheers.
Dial M for Murder, In and Out, Love Actually, Ocean's Eleven, spring to mind.can't say I've watched either so I have no cluebut its funny how some movies you can watch multiple times and still enjoy
some people have a hide like a rhinoceros!!!Well the nerve of some people..... many many years ago when I was young and stupid, I lent my boyfriend at the time $4,000 for a car, and well soon after that, he left me.... like I said young and stupid, anyway, also at that time I shared a house with a guy that was a Clerk of the courts and he helped me to get back $1000, through garnishing his wages but was only able to get back $1000. Anyway today I get a friend request from him on Face book!!!!
yep 22C today ... but the water must have been pretty cold?
Well the nerve of some people..... many many years ago when I was young and stupid, I lent my boyfriend at the time $4,000 for a car, and well soon after that, he left me.... like I said young and stupid, anyway, also at that time I shared a house with a guy that was a Clerk of the courts and he helped me to get back $1000, through garnishing his wages but was only able to get back $1000. Anyway today I get a friend request from him on Face book!!!!
Not sure how I should respond to this.
Some things are more easier to forgive than others......
Like what @reepbot?
Of course. I tend to forgive but not forget and I don't hold grudges, but maybe I'm lucky in that I've never been truly screwed over by someone or experienced something completely unforgivable.
I actually think it's important to not forget, you need to be aware of what people are capable of so that you can stop it happening again. At the same time though, it's not always fair to hold one thing against a person as they can definitely be isolated incidents and don't always reflect that persons character, especially as circumstances change.
So true..im a forgiving person, and unfortunately I have been walked over by some people, I think I will accept his friends request but not yet, wait a few days and maybe think about it. When I had the courts getting money from his wages after awhile he decided to become unemployed so I couldn't get any more money out of him.. To me that's a low act, one that is hard to forgive. I certainly learnt a valuable lesson though... Never lend money to anyone. If I know someone that's having a hard time financially, I will help them out, but I won't lend money and esp not large amountsOf course. I tend to forgive but not forget and I don't hold grudges, but maybe I'm lucky in that I've never been truly screwed over by someone or experienced something completely unforgivable.
I actually think it's important to not forget, you need to be aware of what people are capable of so that you can stop it happening again. At the same time though, it's not always fair to hold one thing against a person as they can definitely be isolated incidents and don't always reflect that persons character, especially as circumstances change.