I'll admit first and foremost that I don't really know what's been said about Tully here...especially in more recent times. I have zero interest in what she's doing either positively or negatively and I don't follow her on SM so when I'm catching up on this thread and I see posts about her I usually skim over them. This was even back when the Antics Thread was primarily dedicated to following her and Drew's relationship post-show. I did make a comment the other day after seeing one of her pics that she looked like she was wearing too much fake tan so if that's offended anyone I'm sorry. Other than that I'm not sure what the general vibe has been about her or what comments have been made.
I can see it from both angles here. I don't think anyone here means any of the HMs any malice and I say that based purely on the fact that when I've made a comment here myself it's never been done with any intention of hoping said HM reads it and gets hurt. Honestly that thought has never crossed my mind. I know there are a couple of people here who have taken it further and started attacking HMs directly on SM but I think in general people that post here do so with only the other BBB posters in mind. That's probably a bit careless given we know that some HMs do read and post here, but deep down I don't think 99% of the people here mean any harm. I know for myself personally my care factor for what the majority of the HMs are doing once they leave the house is zero but I still come on here and post sometimes because I enjoy interacting with the people here.
Saying that though I can also acknowledge that reading some of the comments would be hurtful for the past HMs. I cringe sometimes when some of the HMs I like post something that I know is going to ignite a negative reaction in here because I think sometimes the level of criticism and mockery on here goes well above and beyond what is justified based on what the HM posted or said. It's little secret I don't like and have become defensive when I've seen the barrage of mockery levelled at someone like Jade here and I assume it would be the same for posters who were fans of Tully, Tahan, Tim, Skye, or any of the other past HMs that are the most often criticised here.
You can probably take what we feel seeing that and times it by a hundred and you might get close to what the HMs themselves would feel reading it.
At the end of the day I can see why Tully would be upset but I also know that most people here don't mean any harm and Tully probably needs to understand a bit that if you create a certain image over SM that's how people are going to see you.
I probably shouldn't comment about Priya's tweets on the matter.
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