Skip to main content

Post BB - Housemate Antics 2013 - Part 2

Status
Not open for further replies.
Jt193 said:
Even through all of this she has never bad mouthed him in any way (except in jest a couple of times) which shows how kind hearted she really is.
She deserves so much better and I hope she finds it.
Click to expand...

I agree. she really deserves it. And i did ask her on twitter if she could get that love back with drew and she said never say never, but i want her to find someone better than him.
 
Stephy18 said:
I agree. she really deserves it. And i did ask her on twitter if she could get that love back with drew and she said never say never, but i want her to find someone better than him.
Click to expand...
Yeah, if you love someone that much and they don't return it, then they're not worthy of it. Which doesn't mean they don't deserve love; just not yours. I hope she can see that and let go sooner than later. The worthy one is still out there.
 
littlebear said:
Yeah, if you love someone that much and they don't return it, then they're not worthy of it. Which doesn't mean they don't deserve love; just not yours. I hope she can see that and let go sooner than later. The worthy one is still out there.
Click to expand...

Exactly, i don't think Drew is to blame as stuff like that happens getting caught up in the moment, but she does need to maybe let go and not go to Melbourne for him. And in the future if they did somehow hypothetical find there way back to each other Drew would need a new attitude because i think Tully needs a man who wants more out of life than being a hipster.
 
No one has been ridiculously a big time flip flopper than myself haha, and despite being up and down with tully, I do actually like her. She might be intense at times for me and I just can't understand it at times, but it doesn't change the fact that I agree with you @littlebear, she does have a good heart. She does have a lot of love to give and deserves the same in return.
 
Jt193 said:
Even through all of this she has never bad mouthed him in any way (except in jest a couple of times) which shows how kind hearted she really is.
She deserves so much better and I hope she finds it.
Click to expand...
Do you wonder how she can remain friends with him? He has obviously hurt her a lot and impacted negatively on her life. He seemed like he was so in love with her but perhaps it was a facade? Trying to win bb as the 'nice guy '? I really hope she moves on to a guy or girl who treats her better.
 
DavidP said:
Do you wonder how she can remain friends with him? He has obviously hurt her a lot and impacted negatively on her life. He seemed like he was so in love with her but perhaps it was a facade? Trying to win bb as the 'nice guy '? I really hope she moves on to a guy or girl who treats her better.
Click to expand...

Agreed. It takes someone so good hearted to still be really close to him and still care for him after what he did. And still say there is still love there. She defiantly deserves someone maybe even Ryan from this year BB
 
DavidP said:
Do you wonder how she can remain friends with him? He has obviously hurt her a lot and impacted negatively on her life. He seemed like he was so in love with her but perhaps it was a facade? Trying to win bb as the 'nice guy '? I really hope she moves on to a guy or girl who treats her better.
Click to expand...
I don't think it's ever healthy to keep someone in your life who brings you more pain than happiness, but that's probably easier said than done. I hope he's been as kind as possible, but I have no idea. I don't think he was faking it (as much as I've been down on him lately for certain things, that would just be beyond, and I didn't see it that way at all)--it was probably a fantasy vs. reality thing, probably a little immaturity, who knows. Just the way things happen sometimes. But obviously the rejection still hurts her a lot, so yeah, I agree that she'd be much better off with some distance. Personally if not geographically.
 
littlebear said:
I don't think it's ever healthy to keep someone in your life who brings you more pain than happiness, but that's probably easier said than done. I hope he's been as kind as possible, but I have no idea. I don't think he was faking it (as much as I've been down on him lately for certain things, that would just be beyond, and I didn't see it that way at all)--it was probably a fantasy vs. reality thing, probably a little immaturity, who knows. Just the way things happen sometimes. But obviously the rejection still hurts her a lot, so yeah, I agree that she'd be much better off with some distance. Personally if not geographically.
Click to expand...
I agree that she shouldn't keep him in her life as it would make it difficult to move on. I feel in some way he has ruined her ability to find another parter...he told her he loved her many times in the house so she risked everything for him but now most potential mates would be scared off because of what went on. At the same time, I agree that maybe it wasn't his intention ( fantasy vs reality stuff). She is a gorgeous girl who has a good heart and I hope she finds true love.
 
Tully Smyth ‏@tee_smyth 4h
Had a ball shooting with the @tigermistonline babes this morning. #bts
1f334.png
1f44c.png
pic.twitter.com/vvET6OIyhw



 
littlebear said:
I don't think it's ever healthy to keep someone in your life who brings you more pain than happiness, but that's probably easier said than done. I hope he's been as kind as possible, but I have no idea. I don't think he was faking it (as much as I've been down on him lately for certain things, that would just be beyond, and I didn't see it that way at all)--it was probably a fantasy vs. reality thing, probably a little immaturity, who knows. Just the way things happen sometimes. But obviously the rejection still hurts her a lot, so yeah, I agree that she'd be much better off with some distance. Personally if not geographically.
Click to expand...
I think it is just his nature to be like he is. He apparently has left a trail of GF behind over the years. I'm not saying he does it intentionally. I think he likes the thrill of the chase, and is overawed by the initial romance, then once things settle he gets itchy feet and needs a new challenge. He is in love with the idea of love but cannot handle the pressures that come with it. He is fortunate that he is good looking and charismatic and has no problems finding a replacement love.
 
littlebear said:
@Consuela, I didn't want to say it in there because I'm afraid of making any sudden movements, but I just read your post about auditing over at the funny farm, and now "Wind Beneath My Wings" is stuck in my head.
Click to expand...

Ha! But it's a conspiracy I tell you. CONSPIRACY! THEY RIGGED IT!!!1!11one!
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Back
Top