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deadstar55 said:
I agree with most of your post, but why is it so wrong to express those feelings . If she is unhappy in Sydney, why hide and supress these feelings just to make us happy.
She gets so much grief from here for being emotional. That's life. It sure beats being bland and boring, haha although most here find her extremely boring.
She's an interesting and complex person. And yes way to emotional for her own good, but that's Tully!!
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I don't think it is bad to show her feelings, it does get tedious for us that follow her on SM. My point is that maybe she should sit back and evaluate how different social situations elicit different outlooks on life from her and maybe consider making some kind of a positive change. It seems to me Tully has to try really hard to fit in with the Sydney crowd, she feels that she has to be emo Tully to fit in.
 
Mikkayla Mossop. [MENTION=22781]Mik[/MENTION]kaylaMossop 5m
I don't like to overshare but feel it's necessary to confirm that Matt & I have amicably parted ways & are no longer in a relationship xoxo
 
littlebear said:
Mikkayla Mossop. [MENTION=22781]Mik[/MENTION]kaylaMossop 5m
I don't like to overshare but feel it's necessary to confirm that Matt & I have amicably parted ways & are no longer in a relationship xoxo
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That's sad for Mikk. They were living together prior to her radio gig, weren't they? I remember her talking more than once about the desire to get engaged. I wonder what happened there. Based on pretty much every season ever, a lot of relationships don't seem to survive BB.
 
deadstar55 said:
I agree with most of your post, but why is it so wrong to express those feelings . If she is unhappy in Sydney, why hide and supress these feelings just to make us happy.
She gets so much grief from here for being emotional. That's life. It sure beats being bland and boring, haha although most here find her extremely boring.
She's an interesting and complex person. And yes way to emotional for her own good, but that's Tully!!
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Personally I have no problem with her expressing her emotions--it just makes me sad for her when she's sad so much of the time. And it's confusing when she shifts so suddenly. Obviously she can't change everything about her life that makes her feel that way, but I wish she'd figure out some steps to take to make things better for herself. And it may seem like she doesn't have many supporters here, but I think most people do think she has positive things to offer and just wish she could sort things out a bit and be what she's capable of being.
 
littlebear said:
Personally I have no problem with her expressing her emotions--it just makes me sad for her when she's sad so much of the time. And it's confusing when she shifts so suddenly. Obviously she can't change everything about her life that makes her feel that way, but I wish she'd figure out some steps to take to make things better for herself. And it may seem like she doesn't have many supporters here, but I think most people do think she has positive things to offer and just wish she could sort things out a bit and be what she's capable of being.
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I agree with all of that. I also come from a generation that still view living all your life out loud (including your feelings) as slightly déclassé. It's just not done ;)
 
TullyLovesDrew said:
I think Tully feels (either consciously or sub-consciously) that she has to adopt and embrace this persona in order to be accepted in the Sydney lesbian scene and in turn by Tahlia. It is really quite sad, she usually has happy and upbeat posts when she is in Melb. and just the opposite in Sydney (the only more upbeat Sydney posts are the drunk ones).
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Considering I just had two Goddamn water buffalo come at me on the corner of King St (Newtown) this morning it would probably be in Tully's best interest to get out for a while. New scenery and all that.
 
I don't think it matters if Tully is in Melbourne or Sydney. Her problem I think, is that she can't stand being alone. Where some people adore it, she can't cope. I think she doesn't like being alone with her thoughts. She needs to be constantly surrounded by people and getting attention.
My thoughts anyway
 
Well somebody (from here I think) had something to say over twitter and she favourited these two

@ allis_020: @ roger_rourke @ tee_smyth her fault dude? what makes you think @ drewanthony88 even cares - he doesn't act like it.

@ allis_020: @ roger_rourke @ tee_smyth @ drewanthony88 hi tully, his loss. hope you find a guy or girl who appreciates what they have.
 
Favouriting tweets can be a bad idea. It doesn't mean you agree 100% with what's being said but it certainly makes it seem like you do.

She could just want to show appreciation to the person defending her, but favouriting that first one in particular could be seen as a pretty huge slam on Drew.
 
Favouriting those tweets is pretty telling, even if she just wants to show appreciation for those that defend her. She knows what she is reading and how it can be seen, so I'm inclined to think there is more to this than I thought and perhaps drew has just as much baggage in this so called relationship.
 
Definitely not me. If I want to say something to a HM or even one of you guys, it comes from this name only. Even though my big yap sometimes gets me into trouble, I have no problem owning it.

I think the difference with Tully say vs Jade and Ed when they were going through their relationship drama is that those 2 never vague-posted so while we were guessing for awhile, they didn't add fuel to the fire either intentionally or not. I guess that's why I have no issue with commenting positively or negatively on what Tully shows us on any given day. I've said the same thing to real-life friends: If you don't want people to judge or jump to their own conclusions then either explain the context when posting on SM or privately direct the quotes/random comments to the person you're talking about. Tully's definitely not alone in this phenomenon. Would love to see a reaction from Drew now although I won't hold my breath.
 
chinnii said:
Yes. When i saw that she favorited it earlier, i thought it's quite an answer to your post last night about Drew being quiet of it all...
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Right? Between social media and serving as a source for high-class journalists, I'm afraid we create a lot of monsters here.
 
littlebear said:
Yeah, it's not like she doesn't get nice or admiring tweets and comments. These are pretty specific.
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The only reason I'd consider give her the benefit of the doubt in this case is that the tweets were a response to someone suggesting that she is choosing her friends over Drew. Roger O'Rourke has tweeted this sort of stuff to her before too. She could just be frustrated that she cops all the blame for her and Drew not working out when, as you said last night, Drew gives no indication of caring on social media at all.

But yeah, it's not a great look, whatever she's thinking.
 
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