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littlebear said:
Can I just throw something out there, after the weekend and Emo Tully's return? I know it's not a popular subject to question anything about Drew, but one of the reasons I'm finding their friendship/whatever so puzzling now is his complete silence. On the one hand, I fully respect and even like the fact that he doesn't want to play that game and seems to want to keep his private life private, but on the other, when she cops a lot of flak on the subject or he doesn't react to anything she posts, it sort of makes it look like he doesn't give a shit and it's one-sided on her part. Like I honestly can't tell which it is sometimes, if that makes sense. Not that I expect his side of the story, or that we "deserve" it--it's just weird speculating without having it at all. Anyway. Rambling.
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No, I understand what you are saying completely
 
littlebear said:
Ha, I think we only know that they seemed to be hanging/going out at one point, and he seems to still have her t-shirt, and Drew and Tully both wore it, and that made Tully a slut, and Jazz needed to get her face waxed. You know, the old boy-meets-girl story.
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I'm sure needing your face waxed is a new twist in an old tale ;)
 
littlebear said:
Can I just throw something out there, after the weekend and Emo Tully's return? I know it's not a popular subject to question anything about Drew, but one of the reasons I'm finding their friendship/whatever so puzzling now is his complete silence. On the one hand, I fully respect and even like the fact that he doesn't want to play that game and seems to want to keep his private life private, but on the other, when she cops a lot of flak on the subject or he doesn't react to anything she posts, it sort of makes it look like he doesn't give a shit and it's one-sided on her part. Like I honestly can't tell which it is sometimes, if that makes sense. Not that I expect his side of the story, or that we "deserve" it--it's just weird speculating without having it at all. Anyway. Rambling.
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I'm a bit like you - I can't quite work out how Drew feels and that was why at one point I posted here that I thought it was Drew who hurt Tully rather than the other way around - but I retracted that.
Here are things that I have noted
1. Drew seemed go silent on SM as far as Tully was concerned when the Ok article was released where Tully spoke of the break up.
2. Tully has now had three visits go Melbourne in the last month and each time has seemed happy - extremely so to be honest.
3. Each of those visits appears to have been spent with Drew - I would think that if he didn't care, she would not keep going back for more
4. A picture speaks a thousand words and that photo of them together before the event on Saturday spoke volumes to me.
5. Quite a few people have commented on their closeness and chemistry when together over the last week end.
I don't know what their relationship is, but when they have been together lately they seem to be happy in each other's company - whether it be as friends, friends with benefits, or something else. What ever it is they both seem comfortable with it. Tully will always be unhappy when she leaves him- it has been that way ever since they left the house. He has never been one to share his feelings publicly. Now I'm rambling too. Anyway the whole relationship thing keeps us with something to talk about in here at least.
 
Jt193 said:
I'm a bit like you - I can't quite work out how Drew feels and that was why at one point I posted here that I thought it was Drew who hurt Tully rather than the other way around - but I retracted that.
Here are things that I have noted
1. Drew seemed go silent on SM as far as Tully was concerned when the Ok article was released where Tully spoke of the break up.
2. Tully has now had three visits go Melbourne in the last month and each time has seemed happy - extremely so to be honest.
3. Each of those visits appears to have been spent with Drew - I would think that if he didn't care, she would not keep going back for more
4. A picture speaks a thousand words and that photo of them together before the event on Saturday spoke volumes to me.
5. Quite a few people have commented on their closeness and chemistry when together over the last week end.
I don't know what their relationship is, but when they have been together lately they seem to be happy in each other's company - whether it be as friends, friends with benefits, or something else. What ever it is they both seem comfortable with it. Tully will always be unhappy when she leaves him- it has been that way ever since they left the house. He has never been one to share his feelings publicly. Now I'm rambling too. Anyway the whole relationship thing keeps us with something to talk about in here at least.
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Yes x5. When it comes down to it I do think it's mainly a privacy thing. There are just times when I feel like even a friend would do better at not making her deal with it all, but if that's how it needs to be, that's how it needs to be. It is her thing. Just adds to the confusion a bit, ya know?
 
Jt193 said:
I'm a bit like you - I can't quite work out how Drew feels and that was why at one point I posted here that I thought it was Drew who hurt Tully rather than the other way around - but I retracted that.
Here are things that I have noted
1. Drew seemed go silent on SM as far as Tully was concerned when the Ok article was released where Tully spoke of the break up.
2. Tully has now had three visits go Melbourne in the last month and each time has seemed happy - extremely so to be honest.
3. Each of those visits appears to have been spent with Drew - I would think that if he didn't care, she would not keep going back for more
4. A picture speaks a thousand words and that photo of them together before the event on Saturday spoke volumes to me.
5. Quite a few people have commented on their closeness and chemistry when together over the last week end.
I don't know what their relationship is, but when they have been together lately they seem to be happy in each other's company - whether it be as friends, friends with benefits, or something else. What ever it is they both seem comfortable with it. Tully will always be unhappy when she leaves him- it has been that way ever since they left the house. He has never been one to share his feelings publicly. Now I'm rambling too. Anyway the whole relationship thing keeps us with something to talk about in here at least.
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I got what you meant when you said that. I don't think you and [MENTION=34018]littlebear[/MENTION] are rambling at all :)
 
littlebear said:
Thank you. Unrelated: I'm usually on the forum on my phone, but I'm on a laptop now and it turns out your avi is looking RIGHT AT ME.
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Yeah, Eduardo has stuck around as my avi far longer than I expected. Not really feeling inspired at the moment, but Games of Thrones is a few weeks away, so fingers crossed for Jon Snow inspiration
 
Just putting it out there that if Melb Tully surfaced more often - regardless of the state of what her and Drew are now - I suspect a good chunk of the followers she's lost on SM might reappear. There's obviously a marked difference between her behaviour in both places lately and whatever's going on/or not with Drew or if it's something to do with Tahlia, being in vacation mode, whatever... it's having a marked effect on what she presents to the public. Melb Tully I can tolerate and even start to cheer for again maybe... Sydney Tully nope.
 
delcan said:
Yeah, Eduardo has stuck around as my avi far longer than I expected. Not really feeling inspired at the moment, but Games of Thrones is a few weeks away, so fingers crossed for Jon Snow inspiration
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If you replace your avi photo of Eduardo with something else it had better be good - perhaps the one of Nic Ayler would be a good choice;)
 
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Mrs Butterface said:
Just putting it out there that if Melb Tully surfaced more often - regardless of the state of what her and Drew are now - I suspect a good chunk of the followers she's lost on SM might reappear. There's obviously a marked difference between her behaviour in both places lately and whatever's going on/or not with Drew or if it's something to do with Tahlia, being in vacation mode, whatever... it's having a marked effect on what she presents to the public. Melb Tully I can tolerate and even start to cheer for again maybe... Sydney Tully nope.
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I'm with you on that one. I get filled with dread when Sydney Tully surfaces.
 
Mrs Butterface said:
Just putting it out there that if Melb Tully surfaced more often - regardless of the state of what her and Drew are now - I suspect a good chunk of the followers she's lost on SM might reappear. There's obviously a marked difference between her behaviour in both places lately and whatever's going on/or not with Drew or if it's something to do with Tahlia, being in vacation mode, whatever... it's having a marked effect on what she presents to the public. Melb Tully I can tolerate and even start to cheer for again maybe... Sydney Tully nope.
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Yeah, it's like night and day. She doesn't only come across as more lighthearted--which could well be a vacation mode thing--but also more genuine there, somehow. Like even in posed photos she seems more at ease and natural. I know there are some legit things keeping her in Sydney, but she should take a look at the difference in herself. And not just for her public profile, obviously.
 
Here is the thing, I do like tully, at times. There is a but. Just like some relate to her on some level, I relate to her in that she brings back feelings of someone that reminded me of tully and to be frank, not great memories. Tully is an emotional person and her feelings and her pain and her hurt and her misery seems to come before anyone else's. Even the other persons struggles become her own selfish way of distraught behaviour. As a child watching an adult carry on that way was in one word damaging. I've had to push my own heartbreak aside to always fulfil the other persons struggle, because at the end of the day, their misery was always worse. That's what tully reminds me every time she makes it about herself. Obviously, I'm not saying tully is that person, but her traits are just too close to home for me at times.
 
littlebear said:
Yeah, it's like night and day. She doesn't only come across as more lighthearted--which could well be a vacation mode thing--but also more genuine there, somehow. Like even in posed photos she seems more at ease and natural. I know there are some legit things keeping her in Sydney, but she should take a look at the difference in herself. And not just for her public profile, obviously.
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Yes she so much more relaxed and happy in Melbourne. Whether it is because of the people she is with or the people she is away from, I'm not sure - but she is a different person.
Unfortunately though there are a couple of things that hold her back - not least of all, dare I say it but Luna custody. Until that is resolved, she will never be happy. I thought it poignant that Tahlia posted about Luna while Tully was in Melbourne - and got a reaction. It's almost like she was reminding Tully not to get too comfortable in Melbourne - using Luna as a draw card. It's an arrangement that will never work.
 
littlebear said:
Yeah, it's like night and day. She doesn't only come across as more lighthearted--which could well be a vacation mode thing--but also more genuine there, somehow. Like even in posed photos she seems more at ease and natural. I know there are some legit things keeping her in Sydney, but she should take a look at the difference in herself. And not just for her public profile, obviously.
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I had initially included the suggestion that she should seriously consider giving Melbourne a trial run but then deleted it as even if she perfectly worked out the logistics with her mum and Luna, I'm not sure she'd still make the move. Sometimes I get the impression that she feeds off the angst and maybe she even needs it for whatever reason. Thinking back to some of the inside scoop Jessy has given us over the months about their Sydney friendship circle I do think the people she hangs out with plays into it a lot. Such a big contrast between the two groups even when the Melb BB crew aren't doing official things. Her Melbourne mates, even the ones who weren't HMs, seem a lot less hard or something. I'm probably reading way too much into it but the contrast is just so glaringly different in how she comes across that after a few times I don't think it can be chalked up as a coincidence.
 
littlebear said:
Yeah, it's like night and day. She doesn't only come across as more lighthearted--which could well be a vacation mode thing--but also more genuine there, somehow. Like even in posed photos she seems more at ease and natural. I know there are some legit things keeping her in Sydney, but she should take a look at the difference in herself. And not just for her public profile, obviously.
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After tonight when she didn't even get out of Melbourne before she caught the sads, I thought that Tully would might be well served to take a look at the way her social media 'personality' changes depending on what she's doing/where she is/ who she's with, and then maybe think about making some changes in her life.

As you said, the difference in the vibe she gives off is night and day, and that can't be a coincidence.
 
Jt193 said:
Yes she so much more relaxed and happy in Melbourne. Whether it is because of the people she is with or the people she is away from, I'm not sure - but she is a different person.
Unfortunately though there are a couple of things that hold her back - not least of all, dare I say it but Luna custody. Until that is resolved, she will never be happy. I thought it poignant that Tahlia posted about Luna while Tully was in Melbourne - and got a reaction. It's almost like she was reminding Tully not to get too comfortable in Melbourne - using Luna as a draw card. It's an arrangement that will never work.
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Both Tully and Tahlia post about Luna about 10 times a day when she is with them. I don't think Tahlia posting photos of Luna is manipulative - I just think Tahlia thinks Luna is cute.
 
Hmm, looks like one of the mags covered the Tully/Tahlia thing - perhaps saying or alluding that they were back on by the caption? Looks like just a small piece.

Unfortunately if it is in one of the mags there isn't anything written about it in any of the contents sections of them so I don't know which one.

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Big news, Harry and I are back on. #bae

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