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Yeah I agree, I'm not sure how well Drew would go with it also, especially with her. I think it'd be a big disaster all around.

I realise I'm most likely living in Lonely Town, Population: 1 with this thought, but I believe the long distance thing actually really helps them right now and that's probably a big reason why I never see an issue with them being apart/her going off with her friends when she's in town/the length of time between trips. That much intensity in a relationship - mainly on her part but he seems somewhat similar as well - gets to be too much after awhile, sometimes quickly, and things burn out because one or both people just end up feeling so drained. Even when things are going well because it just sucks the life out of you. Especially when one or both people are so emotional. This way they get to be together and have all that intensity for a period of time but then they're apart and they (he more than her I think) gets the chance to recharge and just chill. Then they meet again and it's all go go go and the cycle repeats. I think them being together constantly right now or even weekly would do them more harm than good. At least until they both get a sense of routine and normalcy back into their lives. Something that grounds them other than being essentially unemployed and nothing else to focus on but each other if they were in the same place.

Make that Lonely Town: Population 5.

I do really think that the distance will help them make this something maybe longer and more substantial instead of it burning out too fast.
 
Yeah I agree, I'm not sure how well Drew would go with it also, especially with her. I think it'd be a big disaster all around.

I realise I'm most likely living in Lonely Town, Population: 1 with this thought, but I believe the long distance thing actually really helps them right now and that's probably a big reason why I never see an issue with them being apart/her going off with her friends when she's in town/the length of time between trips. That much intensity in a relationship - mainly on her part but he seems somewhat similar as well - gets to be too much after awhile, sometimes quickly, and things burn out because one or both people just end up feeling so drained. Even when things are going well because it just sucks the life out of you. Especially when one or both people are so emotional. This way they get to be together and have all that intensity for a period of time but then they're apart and they (he more than her I think) gets the chance to recharge and just chill. Then they meet again and it's all go go go and the cycle repeats. I think them being together constantly right now or even weekly would do them more harm than good. At least until they both get a sense of routine and normalcy back into their lives. Something that grounds them other than being essentially unemployed and nothing else to focus on but each other if they were in the same place.

increase the population by 1 because I'm nodding away reading this.
 
Just goes to show how much we weren't shown. I really do believe that the show made some of the characters seem one dimensional in their characteristics. It's a damn shame that they didn't show tahan talk about her aboriginal side, I think it would have been fascinating. Justynn talked about some of the stories of the aboriginal community which was quite interesting. Tahan seemed to get involved with events for the indigenous after bb, so I'd say she would have represented it well if they had shown her talk about it.

its a lost opportunity - but they do tend to steer clear of anything that might be controversial UNLESS it will stir up extra ratings points (relationships etc)
 
its a lost opportunity - but they do tend to steer clear of anything that might be controversial UNLESS it will stir up extra ratings points (relationships etc)

It's def a lost opportunity, but to quote that YouTube video and what hugh jackman says, 'it's an opportunity to learn". It doesn't have to be controversial, but if it garners positive thought, it's worth showing.
 
It's def a lost opportunity, but to quote that YouTube video and what hugh jackman says, 'it's an opportunity to learn". It doesn't have to be controversial, but if it garners positive thought, it's worth showing.

just think the BB producers want the easy get ... no effort required on their part ... hence we got the BBMumbaiHQ edit ...
 
You don't want the viewers to be thinking of anything other than the BB contestants. So you can't show them talking about issues or other things that might take the viewer away from the BB experience.

Don't be silly, what are you all thinking?
 
You don't want the viewers to be thinking of anything other than the BB contestants. So you can't show them talking about issues or other things that might take the viewer away from the BB experience.

Don't be silly, what are you all thinking?
You're right, how incredibly obtuse of me to think otherwise :eek:
 
It's def a lost opportunity, but to quote that YouTube video and what hugh jackman says, 'it's an opportunity to learn". It doesn't have to be controversial, but if it garners positive thought, it's worth showing.
Race in Australia is always controversial unfortunately.
 
increase the population by 1 because I'm nodding away reading this.

And believe it or not, I agree as well. My doubting Thomasina-ness has never been about the distance/time apart so much as how they (esp. she, obviously) seemed to be dealing with it, and whether the time between visits was to do with normal life reasons as opposed to lack of effort or weirdly restrictive dog custody. But (if they are still solid), it does seem like a healthy thing for the time being. Not easy, surely, but good.
 
Race in Australia is always controversial unfortunately.

I know, I know! But they had no issue with advertising the Italian language (which I loved- that scene where bb and jade spoke Italian was exquisite), they also showed mikkaylas issues with the way she looked due to her Asian background, plus they had theme nights such as Mexican or Japanese. I'd say that the indigenous community deserved a representation of some sort too if they were going to do these theme nights. Anyways, I do understand that they want to perhaps avoid it because it is a sensitive topic amongst many and I can see how it can move away from the bb concept. But just as my opinion, I think it does suck.
 
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Love @RealHughJackman even more: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cbEiWnbmu5w … I had talked about this in the [MENTION=34005]bbau[/MENTION]9 house!! Not too sure if it made air or not! Xx

I wish bb did air what tahan had to say, I find it really disappointing that this side of Aboriginal communities isnt given coverage or being taught in Australia. Being back in nz i've realised how lucky we are to have a great relationship with maori people, although it's not perfect, there's still a lot of respect towards them and their land.
I almost said this last night when I was speculating on what Tully and Drew's financial situation now but I'd rambled enough so I chopped it all out... but I really do think out of all the HMs Tahan had the best plan going into the house (keeping her 9 to 5 job instead of quitting and hoping/expecting something would fall in their laps as others did) and now has the most stable and 'normal' life coming out of it. She comes across as a very well-grounded girl and from all accounts from those who've met her they feel the same. She didn't need BB to give her a good life as she already had a full one before going on it and anything that's come out of it now is just a bonus. None of that talk about how she has nothing to go back to on the outside like a few of the others, very strong ties to her family and her boyfriend, etc. I didn't agree with her retweeting negative things about others when she initially got out of the house but I'm willing to give her a pass on that and assume she was still caught up in the BB bubble as that's stopped now. Even going through the effort to send, and in some cases re-send, gifts to her fans really impressed me. She'd be a great ambassador for the Aboriginal community and I was so happy to see her do some work with them after coming out and I'm positive that will continue long after we've moved on to the next round of BB contestants. And thanks for posting the vid Layla! I probably would've missed it otherwise and I'm so glad I didn't but also sad/frustrated like the rest of you that we live in an age where her conversations wouldn't be deemed worthy of making it to air.
 
increase the population by 1 because I'm nodding away reading this.

well i need a new town to live in going by all this, we obviously don't have matching tatts on our upper arms

sound like what some are saying is that they need space from each other, and that it's good to separate for periods to chill, but i don't agree with that. sounds too easy

anyway, the first stage has to be commitment so if they have that then hopefully that is all both of them need. 25 and 26, hard call
 
well i need a new town to live in going by all this, we obviously don't have matching tatts on our upper arms

sound like what some are saying is that they need space from each other, and that it's good to separate for periods to chill, but i don't agree with that. sounds too easy

anyway, the first stage has to be commitment so if they have that then hopefully that is all both of them need. 25 and 26, hard call
I think it's more about keeping your identity and perhaps for both, understanding that being a couple doesn't mean living in one another's pockets.
 
I think it's more about keeping your identity and perhaps for both, understanding that being a couple doesn't mean living in one another's pockets.

Living in one another's pocket -- which I think is how they do&did relationships. So very very full on.
 
I think it's more about keeping your identity and perhaps for both, understanding that being a couple doesn't mean living in one another's pockets.

i understand that but it's at the stage people want part-time relationships to keep their identity, but i also see the growing number of dysfunctional families. for some, where is home anymore? there has to be a stable place for people to connect if they want to call it a relationship. that's me and my emotional thoughts on this
 
Living in one another's pocket -- which I think is how they do&did relationships. So very very full on.

love is full on, and you do share everything. you can still have independence, it's just in a different form. i think i am slightly one-eyed on this topic
 
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i understand that but it's at the stage people want part-time relationships to keep their identity, but i also see the growing number of dysfunctional families. for some, where is home anymore? there has to be a stable place for people to connect if they want to call it a relationship. that's me and my emotional thoughts on this
I think that first you need to be stable within yourself though, so I see all this as a positive for Tully. that said, I understand what you're saying.
 
well i need a new town to live in going by all this, we obviously don't have matching tatts on our upper arms

sound like what some are saying is that they need space from each other, and that it's good to separate for periods to chill, but i don't agree with that. sounds too easy

anyway, the first stage has to be commitment so if they have that then hopefully that is all both of them need. 25 and 26, hard call

Couples who work and don't work together are apart 8+ hours a day and have other things and people to focus on. That's not where they are right now. I don't think anyone is saying that long distance would be best long term if this relationship lasts. But if it works okay for now, it does seem like a potentially good learning experience for both of them.
 
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