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I'm taking my rose coloured glasses off as well ( I have been wearing them as far as Drew is concerned) It seems like he has made no effort at all - so much for his statements about love. I don't think it's a money issue - doesn't stop him going to nightclubs and that's not cheap. Mind you Tully is no better - the dog selfies drive me crazy - I love dogs but that is obsessive. Seems like neither of them thinks their relationship is/ was worth the effort to go that extra mile.
There had my rant. Will put my rose coloured glasses back on and go and sit in the corner again.

IMO The serious portion of their relationship is over, they both could have made time to be with each other. Tully is super needy and quite impulsive, so if she was serious about being in a relationship they would have been together much more often. Instead she has been hanging out on the lesbian scene (and flashing lesbian gang signs today) it certainly looks to me like she has chosen to resume her old lifestyle and remain friends with Drew at a distance.
 
One of the major red flags for me that the romantic relationship is over is the fact that he hasn't been to Sydney in so long. I know, it costs money, but she has obligations that keep her in her city, too, and...I don't know. It's like there's a little bit of a lack of effort, if there's anything more than friendship still there.

(Please don't yell at me!)

I agree
 

Thanks. This is the last thing I'll say on the subject for now, but while I completely get the logic of the counterargument, for lack of a better word, I'm genuinely flummoxed as to how people can be seeing the situation otherwise. I could be proven wrong, but no joke, I just don't see it.
 
Thanks. This is the last thing I'll say on the subject for now, but while I completely get the logic of the counterargument, for lack of a better word, I'm genuinely flummoxed as to how people can be seeing the situation otherwise. I could be proven wrong, but no joke, I just don't see it.
I think it probably comes down to what you perceive as 'normal' in a relationship. Obviously we don't all see that the same way. I'm equally flummoxed that you and TLD can be so pessimistic.
 
Doubting Thomasinas in here: It hasn't even been 4 weeks since they were last together. During that time Drew's had his best mates in from overseas (and seems like they're leaving now if I understand the above pic correctly), it was the holidays and they both spent it with their families (ignoring Tully's family situation, it still wouldn't be unusual for a couple who hadn't even been together for 2 months LOL), Tully has Luna every 2nd week and she also had The Today Show. If it's this time next month and they still haven't seen each other then maybe start to panic.

Just curious though, how often are people honestly expecting them to see each other? Every week, every fortnight, every month?

how many weeks in a row did they shuttle back and forth between the two cities together all of the time ? and from that to 1or2 days twice in 6 weeks

the obligations thing is overplayed she traveled for NYE, he is free to travel (for the most part) the dog is with tah every other week and they have mutual friends with dogs that could help if necessary, her mother is in some sort of a care home and Tully can visit her often and still carve out more time for Drew (like she did in the beginning).

The Today show is the only formal work either one of them seem to have and she does that no more than once a week

Tully is a person that needs a lot of attention and she likely wants it most from her partner so if she isn't getting it from Drew then maybe she is getting it from one of her GF's (maybe the one she is next to in the lesbian gang signs pic today, that girl went to the movie premier with her(not Byrdie the other one), was at NYE with her, got together with her around Christmas Eve).
 
Shall I start a poll: Dougal vs. Luna

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Dougal
 
What. The. Fuck. is wrong with this dog? Holy hell.
you'd look pissy if you had a haircut like that too!!! Seriously she's looked like she's in a foul mood ever since she was shaved (and personally I don't blame her!) It's not cute - its ridiculous!
 
I would want to see my partner as much as possible too but I sure as heck wouldn't choose a 2 month long relationship over spending Xmas with my family. And I wouldn't leave town and see that new partner when my best mates who I hadn't seen in 6 months+ are in town for a few weeks. Then again even if it was say March instead of during the holidays, I can't really see me flying anywhere when I'm unemployed. The guy is 99% more than likely on the dole as are a few other HMs. I just think people need to step back and realise that Ch 9 isn't paying them to fly back and forth for appearances anymore. If they were both working full time and had been together much longer than 10 or so weeks, then yeah I could understand the expectation they fly back and forth constantly. It's not the case and probably won't be for quite some time.

Of course people could offer to pay for Drew's flights if they're so concerned. Any takers on that one?
someone found them cheap flights
how much do you reckon Tully spends each time she goes out clubbing ? or to a bar/restaurant with her friends?
 
Um it wasn't addressed to you? Unless you're TLD lol

oh, i thought it was, ha. TLD has been pretty consistant with all their views so far so i accept them, that is how they feel

on the other hand i have been fickle, even at one stage i was hoping that Jade or Boogan would win BB. yes the peas were a trigger with Boogan, but in the end i just didn't like her game plan at all. with Jade, i cant even remember, something to do with the mind f_ck editing, but that was temporary. i honestly don't believe she is as sweet as some. that's how i feel
 
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