None of those people - including myself - that you first quoted are "flammers" nor were they "just out stretching their muscles". It has already been explained to you why people in here reacted the way they did. And for the record, it was the same way Tully initially reacted and it's the same way I'd react if I was in a custody arrangement with my son's father about our child or even our dog. It had nothing to do with the fact of Luna needing to have her hair clipped back or say for example, my son needing his head shaved if he picked up lice at school when he was at his dad's for the week. It was the non-consultation with the other party and letting someone who has no clue what they're doing butcher Luna's/my son's hair. Sure the next day I'd be ok with it because it needed to be done and there's really not much I could do other than tell my husband to take him to a proper hairdresser/dog groomer to get it fixed but I sure as hell would be pissed on the night. Especially if my husband didn't have the decency to tell me and I found out about it on a third party's Instagram account. That's all it was. Hope that makes sense now.