Housemate #5 TULLY!

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^^Yet, I'm pretty sure if Tully had been a loyal and respectful GF during her time in the house, Tahlia would stand by her woman and be there none the less.
 
candysugars said:
^^Yet, I'm pretty sure if Tully had been a loyal and respectful GF during her time in the house, Tahlia would stand by her woman and be there none the less.
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Well she has been imo. If Tahlia doesn't stand by her, it just means that the relationship wasn't strong enough to last and obviously trust wasn't there.
 
GalPal said:
Well she has been imo. If Tahlia doesn't stand by her, it just means that the relationship wasn't strong enough to last and obviously trust wasn't there.
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Really?...... Are you being for real?
 
There's a difference between trust and seeing something play out in front of your eyes. Specially with comments about always loving someone more than they love you.
 
I was undecided about whether what Tully was doing was wrong or not, but now that Tahlia has basically confirmed that it's not ok, I've decided that it's wrong. I was waiting for some indication of whether Tahlia thinks it's normal behaviour or not, based on the boundaries of their relationship.
 
candysugars said:
Well, I'd say it's more likely that she isn't going to the eviction because she has left Tully.
But you may be right.
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Agreed ^^^^


mslat92 said:
They haven't cheated in a physical sense. Emotionally, it's a definite grey area.

From the scraps we have been given on BBOS and the shows, we have seen a fairly unhealthy codependent relationship emerge between Drew and Tully - even the other housemates have noticed it, and Matt went as far as labelling it cheating while others agreed with him. These are people who are spending 24/7 with them so you can't just dismiss what they are saying. On top of the fact that Drully share a bed and we have seen footage of them caressing each other. Also, what about the video of Drew massaging Tully's butt (and inner thigh)? ummmm, uncomfortable much. I know if I saw my boyfriend letting another girl have her hands all over him I would not be okay with that. There's also the fact that Tully has been questioning whether she's even 100% lesbian.... bit of a coincidence that she is closest to Drew and has stated in her BB profile that her type for a guy is tall, long hair.

Look, some would say it's pretty black and white that Tully is emotionally cheating, others will disagree. You can't know 100% either way, but there is evidence for both sides.

Oh, and Tully's gf Tahlia is now calling herself single? So that pretty much goes to show how her gf feels about the whole situation.
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And agreed ^^^
 
GalPal said:
Dead serious :)
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Interesting....... I have really been interested in the whole drew and Tully saga and hearing people's opinions. I think it's also interesting that people obviously have different definitions on what is considered cheating. Does innapropriate behaviour fall into the category of cheating? To me it's a grey area but that doesn't mean Tully is in Innocent either. I personally think Tahlia has every right to end the relationship and has no obligation to stand by her partly because of the way Tully has been behaving. But I also think Tully should have a chance to explain herself to Tahlia afterwards.
 
I firmly believe that emotional cheating is just as big a deal as anything physical. In fact, I think its worse. Most females I know would agree. Obviously males would think anything physical is a deal breaker, whereas most females (allow me to generalise here) would probably feel more betrayed by their partner harbouring feelings for someone and forming a deep, emotional connection with someone else.

We don't have any evidence of physical cheating, but we do have hard evidence of an emotional affair. The boundaries are set by the people in the relationship, and obviously Tahlia feels like a line has been crossed. It makes me feel sad, to be honest. How horrible to be forced to watch this play out.

Connoisseur said:
Isn't short for something a bit longer?
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No, her name is just Tully. I think it is technically a guys name, but yeah it is her real name, not short for anything. Her brothers are named Scott & Tom so they have normal names.
 
GalPal said:
Yes I am happily married. We have discussed the Tully n Drew situation and don't see that they are doing anything wrong. We see Drew and Tully has having a great friendship and support system going on. Other HMs don't understand their bond, as they obviously are stronger emotionally.

Tully has said that she is emotional and affectionate, her gf agreed and commented she was surprised that she hadn't been more affectionate in the house or spooned anyone.

Like I said, if they were cheating we would be shown it. We have been shown nothing. Save your emotion for something that is actually cheating. If you trust your partner, you have nothing to be worried about, especially from a highly edited reality tv show which is edited to be misleading......hence no live streaming.
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first i highly doubt you are married unless you frequent "swingers are us" because no married woman or man would see this as ok.

second, it's nice to know that if your significant other goes to work every day and has a close and loving relationship with a work mate that you would be supportive of him/her spooning them in their lunch break...such a beautiful thing.
 
Jo-bot said:
first i highly doubt you are married unless you frequent "swingers are us" because no married woman or man would see this as ok.

second, it's nice to know that if your significant other goes to work every day and has a close and loving relationship with a work mate that you would be supportive of him/her spooning them in their lunch break...such a beautiful thing.
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We are talking about an edited reality tv show where emotions are heightened and pushed to the limit. Yes, I can just picture my hubby spooning a woman whilst operating a crane. Maybe a better line next time, completely off track lol

I don't need to prove to u that I am married......how ridiculous. Since when do u speak on behalf of all married couples. Oh I forgot in your perfect little world we're all robots who all think and act the same way.

Obviously u r a fool bringing swinging into this conversation. You have a lot of growing up to do and a lot to learn about loving, healthy relationships based on mutual trust and respect......it really is a beautiful thing when u have it. Poor u.
 
GalPal said:
We are talking about an edited reality tv show where emotions are heightened and pushed to the limit. Yes, I can just picture my hubby spooning a woman whilst operating a crane. Maybe a better line next time, completely off track lol

I don't need to prove to u that I am married......how ridiculous. Since when do u speak on behalf of all married couples. Oh I forgot in your perfect little world we're all robots who all think and act the same way.

Obviously u r a fool bringing swinging into this conversation. You have a lot of growing up to do and a lot to learn about loving, healthy relationships based on mutual trust and respect......it really is a beautiful thing when u have it. Poor u.
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your pedestal is a little shaky there....what you just described has nothing to do with what you are condoning. You talk of mutual trust and respect and then become an apologist for the opposite. L.A.R.A called, she want's her "holier than thou" attitude back.


oh and edit. I didn't ask you to prove anything, i don't care about you or your fake marriage.
 
Tahlia will get random love offers out of this, I gaurantee it. Even though they know nothing about her.
 
Jo-bot said:
your pedestal is a little shaky there....what you just described has nothing to do with what you are condoning. You talk of mutual trust and respect and then become an apologist for the opposite. L.A.R.A called, she want's her "holier than thou" attitude back.


oh and edit. I didn't ask you to prove anything, i don't care about you or your fake marriage.
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Sure u don't lmao And my pedestal is damn fine thank you very much lol
 
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