Housemate #5 TULLY!

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To be fair to Tully lesbians masquerading as guys will never compete with the real deal so I can understand why she's backslidden. :cool:
 
Lets say Drew was gay and Tully was straight. would there even be an issue? double standards..

Only if Tully was an actual bona fide lesbian would there be some sort of comparison, she is not as stated out of her own mouth.

Look at Stacey and Ben (a confirmed gay man, not a 'might be gay') last year - no inappropriateness at all. Compare those two to Tully & Drew and there are red flags all over the place.

@ Conn - is that a STICKER or just a pic from somewhere?
 
[MENTION=936]CaspersMum[/MENTION] I think some contestants (Ray in particular in this case) go into BB hoping to achieve notoriety and "fans". He was happy to hear from me, and some other people I know too. That's why I really don't think many of them would be suprised to find that their whole lives are in the spotlight, including partners, jobs, etc I think social media these days makes it possible for fans to have fairly direct communication with people in the public eye, that's why I doubt anyone who went into the BB house would be suprised if their privacy is somewhat invaded. It's par for the course.
 
We haven't even seen anything to prove cheating. Surely if there was kissing/shenanigans under the blanket they would have shown us. This cheating business is all a storm in a teacup imo.
 
@ GalPal - do you have a boyfriend / gf / hubby / wife / partner?

If so you would be happy for them to carry on on national tv like this?

I have a de facto (14 years) and I would be livid, mortified, humiliated, angry, sad, shocked, disgusted etc etc if I was to be subjected to the behaviours Tully has displayed.
 
i think shes emotionally cheating on tahlia. which imo is worse. if someone let their hormones get the better of them thats one thing, but to maintain and strengthen a relationship with someone where you're literally relying on that one person to support you and no one else. and you act like you dont even have a gf... it's really sad to her.
 
Only if Tully was an actual bona fide lesbian would there be some sort of comparison, she is not as stated out of her own mouth.

Look at Stacey and Ben (a confirmed gay man, not a 'might be gay') last year - no inappropriateness at all. Compare those two to Tully & Drew and there are red flags all over the place.

@ Conn - is that a STICKER or just a pic from somewhere?

No idea, just nicked it from Google images. lol
 
@ GalPal - do you have a boyfriend / gf / hubby / wife / partner?

If so you would be happy for them to carry on on national tv like this?

I have a de facto (14 years) and I would be livid, mortified, humiliated, angry, sad, shocked, disgusted etc etc if I was to be subjected to the behaviours Tully has displayed.

Yes I am happily married. We have discussed the Tully n Drew situation and don't see that they are doing anything wrong. We see Drew and Tully has having a great friendship and support system going on. Other HMs don't understand their bond, as they obviously are stronger emotionally.

Tully has said that she is emotional and affectionate, her gf agreed and commented she was surprised that she hadn't been more affectionate in the house or spooned anyone.

Like I said, if they were cheating we would be shown it. We have been shown nothing. Save your emotion for something that is actually cheating. If you trust your partner, you have nothing to be worried about, especially from a highly edited reality tv show which is edited to be misleading......hence no live streaming.
 
Yes I am happily married. We have discussed the Tully n Drew situation and don't see that they are doing anything wrong. We see Drew and Tully has having a great friendship and support system going on. Other HMs don't understand their bond, as they obviously are stronger emotionally.

Tully has said that she is emotional and affectionate, her gf agreed and commented she was surprised that she hadn't been more affectionate in the house or spooned anyone.

Like I said, if they were cheating we would be shown it. We have been shown nothing. Save your emotion for something that is actually cheating. If you trust your partner, you have nothing to be worried about, especially from a highly edited reality tv show which is edited to be misleading......hence no live streaming.

Very good post, well explained
 
^^As Tahlia has left Tully, SHE must have thought Tully was cheating to some capacity.
Of course, all couples have different boundaries. In this case though, I think we can confidently surmise that Tully has cheated and broken her (ex) girlfriends trust.
 
^^As Tahlia has left Tully, SHE must have thought Tully was cheating to some capacity.
Of course, all couples have different boundaries. In this case though, I think we can confidently surmise that Tully has cheated and broken her (ex) girlfriends trust.

Maybe Tahlia doesn't want to face the hostile public.
 
Yes I am happily married. We have discussed the Tully n Drew situation and don't see that they are doing anything wrong. We see Drew and Tully has having a great friendship and support system going on. Other HMs don't understand their bond, as they obviously are stronger emotionally.

Tully has said that she is emotional and affectionate, her gf agreed and commented she was surprised that she hadn't been more affectionate in the house or spooned anyone.

Like I said, if they were cheating we would be shown it. We have been shown nothing. Save your emotion for something that is actually cheating. If you trust your partner, you have nothing to be worried about, especially from a highly edited reality tv show which is edited to be misleading......hence no live streaming.

They haven't cheated in a physical sense. Emotionally, it's a definite grey area.

From the scraps we have been given on BBOS and the shows, we have seen a fairly unhealthy codependent relationship emerge between Drew and Tully - even the other housemates have noticed it, and Matt went as far as labelling it cheating while others agreed with him. These are people who are spending 24/7 with them so you can't just dismiss what they are saying. On top of the fact that Drully share a bed and we have seen footage of them caressing each other. Also, what about the video of Drew massaging Tully's butt (and inner thigh)? ummmm, uncomfortable much. I know if I saw my boyfriend letting another girl have her hands all over him I would not be okay with that. There's also the fact that Tully has been questioning whether she's even 100% lesbian.... bit of a coincidence that she is closest to Drew and has stated in her BB profile that her type for a guy is tall, long hair.

Look, some would say it's pretty black and white that Tully is emotionally cheating, others will disagree. You can't know 100% either way, but there is evidence for both sides.

Oh, and Tully's gf Tahlia is now calling herself single? So that pretty much goes to show how her gf feels about the whole situation.
 
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