i don't care for jade that much but i don't like that he is now bitching about her to tully (and others but it irks me more with tully). And it's quite mean. She has no idea he's doing it.
his friendship with tully show's him in a bad light, he looks weak, whipped, stupid. But it's his behavior, the gossiping and meanness of it that has disappointed me most. I didn't think ol' mr sensitive would be mean...
This sounds like a wise move. Maybe in a few days one of your theories will be proved true... I hope we all will hear of it.I have multiple theories on this, I am struggling to figure out if any of them are actually correct though.
Suffice to say, Drew is not the man I thought he was. Regardless of the 'why'... his behaviour does NOT become him. Therefore I will not waste any more energy on extrapolating and throw myself into JADE SUPPORTING instead![]()
To be fair candy I think that move was a little bit self-serving on jade's part. I don't think it's just the other hms who are irked by drew spending so much time with tully, jade also resents losing one of her pets to tully.One thing that impressed me about Jade was that she took the time, as Drew's friend, to talk to him directly about his friendship with Tully and how others were reacting to it in the house. She obviously cares about him and wanted him to be aware of the negative impact it was having.
To be fair candy I think that move was a little bit self-serving on jade's part. I don't think it's just the other hms who are irked by drew spending so much time with tully, jade also resents losing one of her pets to tully.
One thing that impressed me about Jade was that she took the time, as Drew's friend, to talk to him directly about his friendship with Tully and how others were reacting to it in the house. She obviously cares about him and wanted him to be aware of the negative impact it was having.
In comparison, I'm very disappointed that Drew hasn't taken the time to pull Jade aside privately and have a word with her about how her behaviour with Ed is making people in the house perceive her as a "snake" and someone with no self respect. Instead, he's privy to conversations others are having about her and even joining in.
She seems to value the friendship and be true to it, far more than Drew does. It's very disappointing.
To be fair candy I think that move was a little bit self-serving on jade's part. I don't think it's just the other hms who are irked by drew spending so much time with tully, jade also resents losing one of her pets to tully.
of course she is upset. She's not even allowed to talk to drew without tully cracking the shits and demanding to know what's going on...it's obvious and of course she can sense the tension. But jade talked to drew once....tully sidled up to him at every opportunity to tell him how it would look to other people, over and over and over...until she got him. And honestly the tully business is far worse and pathetic than the jade business.
Absolutely, there could have been some self serving motivation going on on Jades part, but I don't believe this was her only intention for telling him. I think Jade does have definate genuine feelings of friendship towards Drew. But I do see your point.To be fair candy I think that move was a little bit self-serving on jade's part. I don't think it's just the other hms who are irked by drew spending so much time with tully, jade also resents losing one of her pets to tully.
of course she is upset. She's not even allowed to talk to drew without tully cracking the shits and demanding to know what's going on...it's obvious and of course she can sense the tension. But jade talked to drew once....tully sidled up to him at every opportunity to tell him how it would look to other people, over and over and over...until she got him. And honestly the tully business is far worse and pathetic than the jade business.
When she stormed into the bedroom immediately announcing.... Drew and Jade are out there all cuddled up or words to that effect. Why Why Why did Tim not say back to her..... " AND ???? Whats your problem ??? A single man and single woman who are best friends are having a moment. Why is a lesbian in a relationship having any issue with this " THATS what should have been said to her..... instead Tim says..... " I know... I don't know why he does that " !!!!!!! insinuating that its WRONG for Jade and Drew to be having a close moment. He just plays whoever happens to be in the room with him at the time and fans the flames accordingly.
I'm starting to think the Drew we're seeing now is the real one. He has said in the Diary Room a few times that he felt out of place and uneasy when he first entered the house because of the fake marriage and entering after the other HMs. Now that he's comfortable he's showing his true colours. He clung to Jade when they first entered, partly out of necessity to keep up the ruse and because she was his life preserver. Now he doesn't need her any more and he's taken to bitching about her, not giving her a heads up re what the other HMs are saying or Tim's plan for her, etc. We can keep making excuses for him and blaming it 100% on Tully but a person can't be controlled unless they allow themselves to be. He's jumped in to the Tully thing feet first and from all accounts is loving it.
When someone shows you who they are, you have to believe them. Saddens me to say it guys but Drade is done.
I guess... just like I can't understand why Jade likes Ed, I don't understand why Drew likes Tully.
I think it's sad though that Drew hasn't been as good of a friend as I thought he'd be. Be interesting to know the thought process.