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v-tone
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According to research, there is no such thing as a classic "bully target". Strong, capable and cordial does not make you immune. A friend who is all of that was bullied by two co-workers in what she says was a concerted attack.
Well there goes that argument about empowering your kids.
In any case, someone who on a sensitivity scale of 0 to 100 rates a firm 0 is probably least qualified to say anything insightul about bullying.
Well there goes that argument about empowering your kids.
In any case, someone who on a sensitivity scale of 0 to 100 rates a firm 0 is probably least qualified to say anything insightul about bullying.
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adam12
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haha no I hope not, but I really just drop in for in season gossip so after the show I am inlikely to see your wit and intelligence.
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Call me Zoe
I have a bit of a forum crush on youxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Call me Zoe
Oh. Sweet. Jesus. Run Tra!!
It is good to know that we get to come back and do it all again next year, when the show returns.
Well the fact I am laying here naked and covered in chocolate sauce is probably going to turn your innocent crush into a fully fledged obsession!!
(unless you are lactose intolerant)
Ha!
Good point.
We are all susceptible to being treated nastily or poorly by people or groups of people, look no further than a forum to see proof of that.
However, I still believe the best defence to true bullying is all in the way you respond to it.
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v-tone
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True - and Estelle has responded in exemplary fashion!
What adds to the appeal of the prospect of her winning is knowing how infuriated most of her ex housemates will be. Up yours, a*holes, we nutters will cry in unison. There's nothing like a good victim-turned-hero story to get the juices pumping!
I am not a fan of Estelle and I really hope, as I have done from Day 1, that Ben wins. However I completely agree with you regarding how she has conducted herself in the face of adversity. Her loved ones must be so proud of her. I think she is a great role model to anyone who sits just left of centre.
For some reason devout Estelle fans find the need to turn her into a victimised little soul who has been bullied to the brink of breakdown, and this simply is not the case. The house is an extraordinary environment. You are stuck with each other 24/7 with no escape. At times Estelle's idiosyncrasies drove the housemates bonkers, and that's okay, as people that happens. From what I have seen, the housemates really seem to like her and they all seem to get on really well as a whole.
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la`cat
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I do believe that is how I am..........I want to truely see them pissed off and, some of them, the true losers they really are in the life they lead.
It would be nice to see Estelle win.........but it would be fucking wonderful to see the arseholes miss out LOL
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la`cat
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The housemates see the show as all about THEM The are the mice in the tank, bb supplies food, toys, conditions.......and it is all about us , the viewer. It is a show to entertain or educate us.
The housemates are paid players in a game.
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v-tone
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I don't entirely agree with your last point; certain types of people (insecure ones) seem to need someone to hate, and, to quote Michael, Estelle drew the short straw on account of her individuality. OK, the extent of that hatred isn't as intense as some may perceive it, but, to use your word, she has certainly had plenty of adversity to overcome.
Part of the whole BB concept (other than to make money for the networks) is the social experiment aspect. I think from that point of view this series has been a big success. That's in large part down to the Estelle storyline, and, admittedly, plenty of colourful contributions from Ben along the way! It would be fitting if it's those two left on the couch on the final night.
What a horrible (badly articulated) attitude to have.
I'm not sure what you point is exactly?
shadow2
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Lol. love it Trala...ESTELLE was not bullied, she was disliked, by most of her Hms.... because she was a pain in the arse, and annoying
I agree with you, only time she has ever been really upset was the Sarah conversation, after being nominated (thats not bullying its part of the game, Sara-Mare, Camilla all had worse) and hearing Michael nominating her, which cant of effected her to much since she is now spending most nights kissing him.
If I were Estelle and read half the stuff on here about me as this poor little victim I would be horrified. Estelle believes herself to be a strong independent girl who can stand up for what she believes and is happy with who she is, I think she would be embarrassed that people see her as a perpetual victim that needs protection.
And even people like Angie who struggled with her most in the house said she didnt hate her, she struggled to live in a confined space 24/7 with her which most people would with anyone. Fact of life is you wont get along with everyone, people will not always like you, and if you are on a game show based on personality you have to expect that. I'll be interested when Estelle is evicted to see what she thinks about being thought of as a victim I imagine she will struggle with that more than she would anything thats happened in the house.
Go take a walk through the Estelle Apricaciaan Thread or a Ben Love In.
You will see both sides of BoNkERs.
The devout Estelle Extremist has to hate either Ben or Michael, and the devout Ben Extremist has to hate Estelle.
The irony is, both sides fight and name call in a spit filled vitriolic frenzy, in the never ending crusade against all that is bullying and nastiness.
It is enough to make me laugh out loud at times.
Connoisseur
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Agree with everything you said. Don't let the haters discourage you la cat, I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. It won't be long until the evil ben disintegrates along with his horde of flying monkeys.
Big enthusiastic thumbs up. I posted something similar elsewhere at some point. If she's a "survivor" she's going to be devoed that she was heralded as the poster girl for anti-bullying campaigns.