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I don't like it
I think that you and I are definitely from different planets, @Connoisseur. I am completely baffled by your arguments here. I really don't recognize myself, my friends or my colleagues in your descriptions. I've never met a 'gold digger' and I'm not sure what 'promiscuous' means if it's only ever aimed at women. It's interesting, you know, about what women are called. Did you know that female dogs were called 'sluts' in the 19th century because it was considered more seemly than 'bitch'? There are plenty of pejorative terms for women who are sexually active (or who knock back a male overture) but very few for men. Society changes slowly and I hope my children, grandchildren and great grandchildren have greater equality when it comes to enjoying sex. But, *shrugs*, it's only words after all. They might be used to hurt, but they don't have to hit the mark if you know you have done no wrong.