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Affable said:
I think the only fail is you failing to recognise you putting ideas into reepbot's head.
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He just doesn't want to admit the truth. He will keep deflecting the issue, but he knows, he knows deep inside himself the truth. It will always be there, flickering away in his soul.
 
Affable said:
I think the only fail is you failing to recognise you putting ideas into reepbot's head.
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My notion that reepbot should do himself a favour and find some other foulmouth banshee never got further than his ears.[DOUBLEPOST=1450143683][/DOUBLEPOST]
reepbot said:
He just doesn't want to admit the truth. He will keep deflecting the issue, but he knows, he knows deep inside himself the truth. It will always be there, flickering away in his soul.
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Spell it out.
 
If you think about it. My feelings towards inigo, although true, are partly based on laziness. By that i mean by still having feelings for her i don't have to bother with finding someone more real. Someone who doesn't give mixed messages, someone who actually likes me for me.
 
reepbot said:
If you think about it. My feelings towards inigo, although true, are partly based on laziness. By that i mean by still having feelings for her i don't have to bother with finding someone more real. Someone who doesn't give mixed messages, someone who actually likes me for me.
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People are trying not to think about it :p. I just don't think a cyber relationship that had more breakups than days during the 'good' times is a captivating romance for all time.
 
reepbot said:
Or just basically saying my upbringing probably contributed to my attraction to inig.
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I think not being exposed to rejection earlier makes you obsessive now. It would have been good if you could learn rejection 10 years ago so you could have perspective now.
 
I was fine with being romantically rejected by her. Infact i remember emailing her that i would be more than happy to be friends with her but i would still be attracted to her. Because attraction just doesn't go away.

Being rejected as a friend will always hurt more. Especially if you wonder if it was a set up. Or if anything was actually true.
 
reepbot said:
I was fine with being romantically rejected by her. Infact i remember emailing her that i would be more than happy to be friends with her but i would still be attracted to her. Because attraction just doesn't go away.

Being rejected as a friend will always hurt more. Especially if you wonder if it was a set up. Or if anything was actually true.
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Continuing the friendship is like asking Jehovah's Witnesses or Amway salespeople inside for a chat.
 
I wonder if i will always seek out negative people towards me due to me associating anger and arguing with signs of love. Because i hate it when i get complimented.
 
reepbot said:
Toastmasters

Board game nights.
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You'd have to be sicker than me to be a negative person and go to board game nights. I would sneak in two Get out of Jail Free cards and non-conducting Operation tweezers. I wouldn't cheat, but I'd set other people up to look like they had.
 
Having real life friends seems expensive to me. Forum friends is easier on the budget.

I mean maybe i could take up drinking to increase social skills and gain new friends. But i think drinking is way too expensive for me.

It is strange, but even though i am at the opposite spectrum of a night club person i am starting to strongly regret not going to nightclubs when i was younger.

I think a friend should make you feel both good and bad about yourself. They should not boost you with false sincerity. They should criticise not enable unwelcome behavior. People who enable are no true friends.
 
reepbot said:
Having real life friends seems expensive to me. Forum friends is easier on the budget.

I mean maybe i could take up drinking to increase social skills and gain new friends. But i think drinking is way too expensive for me.

It is strange, but even though i am at the opposite spectrum of a night club person i am starting to strongly regret not going to nightclubs when i was younger.

I think a friend should make you feel both good and bad about yourself. They should not boost you with false sincerity. They should criticise not enable unwelcome behavior. People who enable are no true friends.
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Don't worry. I think the boardgamers will be frugal ;)
 
It is strange but i never really had any yearning to belong anywhere. Not even with my family.

I feel i should model any future friendships on friendships around here. Any suggestions?
 
There are two main reasons why i think this second chance thing is bullshit.

1. The implication that friendship is nothing more than a game show. That people are human sometimes and make mistakes.

2. That if you are going to do the two chances thing it should be for something big not for something small. Telling your friend something that you heard about them in a pm due to a conversation with that friend about their popularity on this board (where do you think the clique meme comes from? ) may be all sorts of wrong but i hardly think it is worth the two chances thing. Stealing money or something illegal like that which affects the friendship seems more logical to me.
 
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