chiclet
Well-Known Member
Tim = Ted Bundy
Sorry not seeing it.
Wonder if I'm a psychopath - I've called people idiots before.
By its own logic my response to that opening post has made a psychopath out of me.
Tim = Ted Bundy
Sorry not seeing it.
Wonder if I'm a psychopath - I've called people idiots before.
Like youd take notice of nathan....what a joke he was
If by different you mean boring and dull, I agree.I think the most interesting thing that could happen on BB now, is Tim getting evicted. That's when we'd get to see a completely different household. I'd like to see who gets along with whom after he's gone. And let's see what his posse do when there's no one to "follow".
No they wouldn't... you only think that because it's been the Tim Show lately, and is going to stay that way so long as he's in there.
Life goes on after you remove the charismatic manipulator from any kind of group... even if their followers spend a little while feeling like they have had a limb removed.
With Tim gone, housemates who feel oppressed around him would get their second wind and really start to have fun again.
Drew, Boog and Tahan already have fun every day. Ed has never had fun. Jade stopped having fun when she flung herself on Ed and mik stopped having fun when she attached herself as a third wheel. If you want the fun level to go up get rid of the fun black hole Ed.
To say Tim is a psycopath/sociopath is incredibly ignorant. We know he's capable of empathy - even his haters must admit that. In saying that - without sounding like an amateur psychologist here - I do wonder whether he has some undiagnosed and/or pre-existing mental illness. I love the guy but after spending my boring weekend reading the live updates thread to see what I missed in the first few weeks of the show (I came in late), it's clear to me that he's "more" than just eccentric. It's like his brain actually works differently from most people.
There was also a couple of really interesting videos that I came across where he inferred - well, inferred is probably the wrong word - but seemed to indicate something wasn't quite right.
There was one video where he told the HM's about an ex GF who he can't get over. He explained that he does a lot of "good" things in life to try and show her he's not "totally fucked in the head" and is capable of "caring about people". He then went on to say that he lives in a different reality from everyone else - his world is totally different because he lives in his own fantasy. He then admitted that his ex HATED that world he created though conceded that perhaps a tiny part of her liked it because of the ""risk factor".
I've always thought he was eccentric but I never really considered the idea that he had some "problem". In the above video it seemed clear that he's got his fair share of emotional issues.
Then there was another video where Ben and him are talking about the differences between them. He started hassling Ben about not being adventurous enough until Ben came back with his own analysis in which he hypothesised that while he (Ben) is bad at taking huge chances in life, he's fantastic at organising the small, mundane stuff. He likes a controlled existence while Tim is drawn to total chaos. Tim agreed and then admitted that he freaked out about opening mail. He can't really deal with normal mundane tasks in day to day life. He then admitted that a few months earlier he actually started crying when he had to open a superanuation letter, ultimately handing it over to his dad and saying "I can't deal with this!".
I think the contrast between him and Ben is fascinating. They're so different but they ultimately seem to understand and relate to each others issues. I miss their conversations
Anyway, I'm not going to dare to attempt a diagnosis but just from the above videos (and a few other things) I'd think it quite likely there probably is some problem there. This doesn't make him a bad person and is certainly not a judgement - if anything I find the topic fascinating. People are so complicated.
I should ask actually (if anyone knows) whether they let people who have any sort of severe mental illness into the house? Not to be descriminatory (and I hope I haven't offended anyone with that question!) but it seems rather cruel to inflict that sort of mental strain and torture on someone who already has a bunch of if issues.
We all have issues. In tims case he appears to be adhd with hyperactive traits. Highly creative and always moving. Its what will keep him working in creative arts. The guys never gonna be buttoned down. Is it a severe disorder? Probably not. The house magnifies this.
Ususally I would agree (and honestly, I figured he was ADHD from the first episode I saw him) and before now I had just assumed the house was probably making him a little more over the top than he probably is in real life.
The reason the two videos that I described above caught my attention is that in both of them he's actually talking about issues he has in real life. Not being able to cope with mundane tasks like opening your mail just doesn't seem too healthy to me. The fact that he's so drawn to chaos and insists in living in his own fantasy world...
Once again, this isn't a judgement. The guy is my favourite HM and I actually feel a bit bad about scrutinizing him in this way. I just think he's really fascinating.
Tim said, "If I can't manipulate people, they are dead to me."
He sets out deliberately to make others feel bad by using insults and malicious gossip.
He steals food.
He cannot form empathetic relationships with women. He can only use them.
He has lied on multiple occasions.
He's a medium-level psychopath and extreme narcissist.
[MENTION=2181]Poxy[/MENTION] isn't saying that Tim = Ted Bundy at all. There are far more psychopaths in the world than there are serial killers. We all encounter psychopaths I'm afraid... whether it be in our workplaces, sporting clubs, neighbourhoods, our own families etc. We don't all necessarily encounter serial killers on a daily basis.