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sarahjaneisapain
Guest
I know this was a long time ago, but does anyone think it's weird that Tahan makes out with other female housemates? I guess her boyfriend is ok with it. :/
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Cass0907
Well-Known Member
A lot of straight females do that. The boyfriends don't seem to mind because they:
A - find it attractive
And/or
B - don't feel threatened.
It's just fun without the emotions. I guess it's double standards because if she kissed boys it'd probably be different.
My friend kissed her bridesmaid on the lips at her wedding reception. Just a long peck. No one batted an eye. It's just become kinda normal.
A - find it attractive
And/or
B - don't feel threatened.
It's just fun without the emotions. I guess it's double standards because if she kissed boys it'd probably be different.
My friend kissed her bridesmaid on the lips at her wedding reception. Just a long peck. No one batted an eye. It's just become kinda normal.
Oh I thought this was another conspiracy thread. Surprise! It wasn't.
I don't see it as cheating just a drunk game of Spash™. Her BF would have no doubt seen it as a bit of fun too. Had it been a guy things may have been different but he seems pretty confident in their relationship.
Spash = Spa Pash a new game I have just trademarked.
I don't see it as cheating just a drunk game of Spash™. Her BF would have no doubt seen it as a bit of fun too. Had it been a guy things may have been different but he seems pretty confident in their relationship.
Spash = Spa Pash a new game I have just trademarked.
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stephx
Guest
Yeah I guess it's all in the name of fun.
You never know, they might have an understanding between the two of them
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stephx
Guest
So did I at first hahah
ASSASSIN
New Member
WTF when did that happen ?
yukikodancer
Active Member
Late night feasts. A few of them actually. You don't remember the three way with Tully, Jade and Tahan?
Cass0907
Well-Known Member
Earlier on. During one of the late night feasts. She kissed Tully and also had a 3 way kiss with Tully and another female. I can't remember who.
Edit: ah thanks [MENTION=11078]yukikodancer[/MENTION]. I couldn't remember if it was Jade or not.
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Sweet_Geek
Guest
That's fine that you think it is viewed as cheating, but that's a cheap shot to say that maybe it was discussed as it wouldn't hurt the voting.
Angel
Active Member
I dont view that as a cheap shot at all. The conversation was brought up that some guys like it and are ok with the girls doing it, so why wouldn't those watching also like it? Its not a cheap shot, I think your being way over sensitive.
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Sweet_Geek
Guest
"maybe it was discussed as it wouldn't hurt the voting"
I think it was a cheap shot as to suggest that tahan would be this way to lure in votes.
I have no issue with talking about whether it is considered cheating or whether some guys are ok with it or not. But the hidden message to insinuate that it was done to perhaps gain votes is low IMO. It's like marking a woman as slut who sells herself just to get money, but in this case tahan kissing girls to get votes. Not being sensitive at all. Just calling it as I see it
Angel
Active Member
Maybe they spoke about it before the show and figured it wouldn't hurt the voting.
Is what I said. As in "Maybe they spoke about it before the show" and then "and figured it wouldn't hurt the voting."
Maybe I should have been extra clear as to not be misunderstood. What I MEANT was, maybe they spoke about it before the show, as a couple would about what is ok and what is not ok in the house. Clearly they decided that it was fine or she would not have done it. And I am sure they would have known that it would not have been something frowned down upon (like Drew and Tully) so they would have known it was not going to cause them to lose votes from it, which would be something you would worry about before entering. I sont know many people who go in with the plan to do things to lose votes...
Try to spin it as you like but the way I meant it, regardless of how you took it was not a cheap shot, or any shot at all.
Is what I said. As in "Maybe they spoke about it before the show" and then "and figured it wouldn't hurt the voting."
Maybe I should have been extra clear as to not be misunderstood. What I MEANT was, maybe they spoke about it before the show, as a couple would about what is ok and what is not ok in the house. Clearly they decided that it was fine or she would not have done it. And I am sure they would have known that it would not have been something frowned down upon (like Drew and Tully) so they would have known it was not going to cause them to lose votes from it, which would be something you would worry about before entering. I sont know many people who go in with the plan to do things to lose votes...
Try to spin it as you like but the way I meant it, regardless of how you took it was not a cheap shot, or any shot at all.
Cass0907
Well-Known Member
Exactly.
Also - what about a straight girl kissing a lesbian. I mean - Tully did that. If she didn't get with Drew would Tully have been in trouble but not Tahan? I don't know
I guess put it this way: What if it was a guy kissing other guys but then decided to kiss Tully. Would that have been different?
It's a weird world we live in.
I personally don't get why people do it though [MENTION=35199]Angel[/MENTION]. I've never done it and don't intend to either.
Peverell
Not so well known Member
society these days, eh?
Angel
Active Member
Exactly.
Also - what about a straight girl kissing a lesbian. I mean - Tully did that. If she didn't get with Drew would Tully have been in trouble but not Tahan? I don't know
I guess put it this way: What if it was a guy kissing other guys but then decided to kiss Tully. Would that have been different?
It's a weird world we live in.
I personally don't get why people do it though [MENTION=35199]Angel[/MENTION]. I've never done it and don't intend to either.
Yep, I agree. And I have asked the hubby in the past and he said that he doesnt care who it is, male or female, I am not to kiss anyone that's not him lol. Fair enough, I wouldn't want him locking lips with a guy or a girl either haha
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Sweet_Geek
Guest
You can explain it all you want, but knowing that you are not a fan of tahan, I do think you were taking a shot, that's my opinion on it anyways.
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Sweet_Geek
Guest
I think generally it is viewed when two girls kiss as fun without the emotions. And like this post:
It depends on whether a connection is there.
With tahan there was no romantic connection in her kissing.