Sorry ijake, not being gay, I guess I didn't really take that into consideration. You are right. A lot of meatheads profess to not liking gay people and you would know what you are talking about more than me. But in lot of cases (not all, and maybe not most) but "meatheads" that I would know (and yes, I know quite a few....,my son's mates mainly), in a group they may bluster on in a derogatory manner. But a lot of that is bravado and stupidity, when in reality they are not anti- gay, just very unaware. A lot of them don't even know an openly gay person and in the one case I do know of where one of they're friends eventually came out, I was pleasantly surprised to see the love and support shown him by his so called "meathead" mates. Everyone is different, everyone feels differently, so we probs shouldn't lump everyone into a group of meatheads, opposed to gays, opposed to nerds, opposed to emo's. etc etc etc. Maybe just stay away from drunk people in general, that's when most groups change and not always for the better. (did any of that make sense... I dunno..)

lets live and let live....PS just be really careful of the Leo's of this world.....look out for bullshit!!!!!