No you didn't actually. What you said was:-
Well of course you're not! Sort of goes without saying doesn't it? I do find it interesting that you feel you need to remind us of it, so often and underlined and in bold though...
See you don't get to decide that Saint Lara. Meanness is subjective as well as objective. While you may not feel yourself you are behaving in a nasty fashion, the person on the receiving end of your words may not feel that way. While it may have looked "funny" to you to highlight the fact you have a person on block, it may well have hurt this vulgar person you speak of, which would be mean.
Again, not that I am criticizing that, I am just concerned you are starting to believe your own bullshit.
Think what you like, I know who I am.
In the first sentence I didn't express myself well, I never meant that I wasn't mean at all.
I had to bold it for you, so you would notice what I say.