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Jade. The elephant in the room. Let's talk.

spygirl99 said:
You know, you have a point. If some guy was jumping into bed with a girl, and kissing her all over her neck/back/shoulders, without an invite then it would be technically seen as sexual harassment. Jade needs to back off. Ed has made it VERY clear that he isn't interested in her. But she won't take no for an answer. She is chasing him, proving to herself that she can have him. It's funny but also sad to watch.
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Have you been watching the same show I am? Especially after the events of last night (not going to spoil it for those who don't watch the live feed vids). Either that or you and I have a very different definition of what "VERY clear" means.

I posted this the other day when another Jade hater started a thread saying she was sexually harassing Ed and that was before the events of last night which further proves my point: "If anyone thinks this is sexual harassment then that clearly says to me you've never been sexually harassed. I have in a workplace and there is NO FUCKING WAY I'd share a bed (desk) with him, let alone snuggle (sit on his lap in his chair) with him, let alone make out with him, let alone be all happy and chatty and choose to sit/lay next to him under any circumstance. Confined space (ie a conference room) or not.
 
Sexual harassment? If it really bothered Ed he could either leave the bed or ask Jade to leave it. Oh hang on, Ed's too much of a Prince Charming to be that up front, he'll just make fun of her behind her back like any real gentleman would.

And Mikkayla advised her to open up to Ed and talk to him, not throw herself at him.
 
I've been an "adorer"... and sadly, it was actually reciprocated after about 18 months. Yep; I was "always there"; like a shadow, like a stalker... but acknowledged. Even welcomed.

After "time", he called me aside, said "yeah, let's give this a go" (love last options); it lasted all of 6 weeks. A wonderful fucking 6 weeks. Dreamland. Sensational stuff. It was the cumulation of all that time, all those hopes. They were realised. And then there was nothing more. Nada. Cold. Horrible.

We both knew we'd miffed it. 5-6 years later, met at my father's funeral. Hell, it was brave of him to show; but he did. I didn't disparage him for it; actually walked up to him, and we cried together. A-la-Tully.

He'd known my dad before he'd known me; and before I decided that "he was the one". It was my "fault" that he'd, well, probably weakened, and decided to "date" me... I'd always been there.

I'm now incredibly happily married to someone else; he's now (apparently - haven't seen him since dad's funeral 10 years ago) happy with another bird. And, I'm happy he's happy.

Long story, made longer; now coming short.

Drew: fork her or fork her off. Jade. Just fork off.
 
oddjob said:
Sexual harassment? If it really bothered Ed he could either leave the bed or ask Jade to leave it. Oh hang on, Ed's too much of a Prince Charming to be that up front, he'll just make fun of her behind her back like any real gentleman would.
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This! You're absolutely right. A true "gentleman" would never behave the way Ed does.
Always whining about having Jade on his back, but quite happy to stick his tongue down her throat when he feels like it!
 
candysugars said:
This! You're absolutely right. A true "gentleman" would never behave the way Ed does.
Always whining about having Jade on his back, but quite happy to stick his tongue down her throat when he feels like it!
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Exactly! If you don't want anything to happen, don't kiss her all the time and snuggle with her!
 
oddjob said:
Sexual harassment? If it really bothered Ed he could either leave the bed or ask Jade to leave it. Oh hang on, Ed's too much of a Prince Charming to be that up front, he'll just make fun of her behind her back like any real gentleman would.

And Mikkayla advised her to open up to Ed and talk to him, not throw herself at him.
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Which is why he's single, gutless wuss.
 
In a few months time, Jade will probably find a nice boyfriend and look back on her time in the house with a bit of embarrassment. I'm not a fan of hers at the moment, but I do hope she does find someone nice who genuinely loves her back once she's out of that environment. I think she should give up on Ed, and Drew also, and any hot intruders they may add lol. Just enjoy her time in the house.
 
I feel bad for her. I hate that no one is telling her what's really going on but instead encouraging it and then laughing behind her back. If I could have a second in the house with her I would give her a hug and tell her that she deserves much better and to trust me that none of the guys in the house are worth your time. (used to be a Drade fan, not sure what I think of that any more)
 
Grillzz said:
In a few months time, Jade will probably find a nice boyfriend and look back on her time in the house with a bit of embarrassment. I'm not a fan of hers at the moment, but I do hope she does find someone nice who genuinely loves her back once she's out of that environment. I think she should give up on Ed, and Drew also, and any hot intruders they may add lol. Just enjoy her time in the house.
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True but I wouldn't mind if they sent in a hot intruder and she hit it off with him and it was Bye Bye Ed and Drew haha. I also wouldn't mind some new eye candy, haha. In the same way, probably wouldn't mind a new single girl being sent in there too to knock some sense into Drew. Anyway, I think it's nearly time for some intruders to spice things up please.
 
kitty1 said:
True but I wouldn't mind if they sent in a hot intruder and she hit it off with him and it was Bye Bye Ed and Drew haha. I also wouldn't mind some new eye candy, haha. In the same way, probably wouldn't mind a new single girl being sent in there too to knock some sense into Drew. Anyway, I think it's nearly time for some intruders to spice things up please.
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I so wish it was me.
 
Grillzz said:
In a few months time, Jade will probably find a nice boyfriend and look back on her time in the house with a bit of embarrassment. I'm not a fan of hers at the moment, but I do hope she does find someone nice who genuinely loves her back once she's out of that environment. I think she should give up on Ed, and Drew also, and any hot intruders they may add lol. Just enjoy her time in the house.
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Why shouldn't she get with any hot intruders?
 
as I have said before Jade is her own worse enemy, she is a lovely girl, let the boys chase her if she stops chasing them they may start.
 
rachael92 said:
I so wish it was me.
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HAHA my thoughts exactly :P I wouldn't even mind if they sent both of us in and you got him. I can just watch and be happy interacting with him and being his friend hahaha. But seriously, he needs a nice, normal girl who will see that he's the best one out of the guys in there. Seriously, I can't see how those girls don't see it.
 
kitty1 said:
HAHA my thoughts exactly :P I wouldn't even mind if they sent both of us in and you got him. I can just watch and be happy interacting with him and being his friend hahaha. But seriously, he needs a nice, normal girl who will see that he's the best one out of the guys in there. Seriously, I can't see how those girls don't see it.
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I may fail at the 'normal' part :P
 
I like Jade, I find her so interesting. We get attractive one dimensional HM's like Matt but Jade has a huge element of insecurity and she's obviously playing by her heart. Whatever went down in Italy affected her really badly and she's kind of judging her self worth by that and since it's still fresh for her all the repercussions are playing out inside the house in front of cameras and I find it very human. She also seems relatively harmless and nice but has some personality there that viewers find interesting as well as endearing. I'd like to see her stay a little longer and see her build herself up a bit more without Drew or Ed.
 
Grillzz said:
Well I suppose if he was the one chasing her (or it was definitely mutual) it'd be ok.
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Don't know if she'd take an interest, she's too focused on Ed.
When people say Jade hits on all the guys it's a myth IMO, the two guys she likes are the two most attractive in the house.
 
soniaheartsbb said:
I like Jade, I find her so interesting. We get attractive one dimensional HM's like Matt but Jade has a huge element of insecurity and she's obviously playing by her heart. Whatever went down in Italy affected her really badly and she's kind of judging her self worth by that and since it's still fresh for her all the repercussions are playing out inside the house in front of cameras and I find it very human. She also seems relatively harmless and nice but has some personality there that viewers find interesting as well as endearing. I'd like to see her stay a little longer and see her build herself up a bit more without Drew or Ed.
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Totally agree. Unfortunately unless she stays past both of them I don't think we will ever see it happen. Which wouldn't bother me at all if they both left.
 
I hope Ed leaves CaspersMum so we can see her get over that stupid infatuation and grow a little!
 
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