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Is Jades behaviour disturbing?

Sorceress said:
No...that would be extremely awkward for me...I hug mates for greetings and goodbyes and when they're upset.
I also wouldn't, under any circumstances cuddle someone that had unrequited feelings for me.
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Ok, thats you. The girl i had this issue with was fine with having cuddles. It didnt lead to anything more.
Of course 20 years later im regretting not going there...but i was young and stupid

I do agree that Ed needs to be tougher on Jade.
He needs to clearly say NO and ask her to back off.
However, i can see what will happen. He can stand up for himself but then all the girlies who adore jade will be against him and he gets voted out. So by doing what needs to be done he gets punished by the public.

Drew needs to step and and tell Jade that her behaviour needs to stop and that she is looking desperate.
Matt needs to step in and tell Ed to set Jade right and tell her straight that No means No.
Maybe she is the type of girl who cant be just friends with a guy that she becomes obsessed with. I cant understand people like that, but they exist.

I really would like to see what would happen if it was a man that was pursuing a woman the same way.
 
psykologist said:
I feel sad that Jade clearly has such low self-esteem that she feels she has to latch on to a guy to have value. She is also not letting go & having fun - everything I see her in she looks like she is just standing aside in her own little world too self-conscious to jump in.
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Not everyone needs to be the loudest monkey in the zoo you know. Sometimes people don't feel the need to jump in and make sure their opinion is the loudest heard and talk over everyone else. Shows she's not the attention-seeker some people are trying to portray. She still seems to have as much fun as everyone else! Would much prefer that to seeing Heidi dry-humping a palm tree for instance..
 
She hasn't done anything too serious. She just likes talking about him and looking at him.

With his consent, they kiss. Remember that.

Oh, Jade is also more touchy with Drew -- she knows Ed doesn't want her touching him, so she doesn't.

What's more disturbing, as mentioned, is the fact that Tully is getting too close to Drew when she has a PARTNER HERSELF!

I really would like to see what would happen if it was a man that was pursuing a woman the same way.
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Trust me, if it was that people would love him. Just like Drew, when he was rejected by Jade. They will hate on the girl and be like "aw, what a stupid bitch rejecting him all the time". People somehow like it when a man makes a move on a woman, but when a woman does it she's disturbed or very desperate.

However, when it comes to sexual assaults I can see them siding with women. Say if the 'turkey slap' in 06 involved Camilla rather, shoving her naked breasts on the guys - I don't think they would've evicted her. But if a guy were to do something sexual to a girl, he is a monster.

You see, there's a difference between a guy being in love (what people like) and a guy being sexual (what people hate). Also, a girl being desperate for guy is seen negatively in society, whilst a guy chasing a girl is seen as heroic and 'adorable'.

Just my 2 cents...
 
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The10thDoctor said:
Ok, thats you. The girl i had this issue with was fine with having cuddles. It didnt lead to anything more.
Of course 20 years later im regretting not going there...but i was young and stupid

I do agree that Ed needs to be tougher on Jade.
He needs to clearly say NO and ask her to back off.
However, i can see what will happen. He can stand up for himself but then all the girlies who adore jade will be against him and he gets voted out. So by doing what needs to be done he gets punished by the public.

Drew needs to step and and tell Jade that her behaviour needs to stop and that she is looking desperate.
Matt needs to step in and tell Ed to set Jade right and tell her straight that No means No.
Maybe she is the type of girl who cant be just friends with a guy that she becomes obsessed with. I cant understand people like that, but they exist.

I really would like to see what would happen if it was a man that was pursuing a woman the same way.
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No offence mate but you usually don't cuddle with someone that likes you, that's really weird.

I don't care about Ed, he offers nothing, he's only on there for appearance (something you'll roast the women for but, as it seems, not the men).
kenn said:
Jade is her own worst enemy.
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Exactly.
 
The10thDoctor said:
Ok, thats you. The girl i had this issue with was fine with having cuddles. It didnt lead to anything more.
Of course 20 years later im regretting not going there...but i was young and stupid

I do agree that Ed needs to be tougher on Jade.
He needs to clearly say NO and ask her to back off.
However, i can see what will happen. He can stand up for himself but then all the girlies who adore jade will be against him and he gets voted out. So by doing what needs to be done he gets punished by the public.

Drew needs to step and and tell Jade that her behaviour needs to stop and that she is looking desperate.
Matt needs to step in and tell Ed to set Jade right and tell her straight that No means No.
Maybe she is the type of girl who cant be just friends with a guy that she becomes obsessed with. I cant understand people like that, but they exist.

I really would like to see what would happen if it was a man that was pursuing a woman the same way.
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If a stalker (as you are suggesting of Jade), is sexually harassing a victim (as you have called Ed) to the point it needs some sort of reprimand or professional psychological input (as you have also suggested) it's doesn't take a brainiac to realise the Victim should not cuddle under the blankets with the person who is sexually harassing him.

''Don't get into bed with your stalker'' is surely not that far down the list of How To Manage Stalkers from ''Make sure you CLEARLY tell your stalker that you do not want them to make advances on you''
 
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Waaaait a minute...

So Ed pashes her, agrees to share a bed, changes his mind, pashes her again on Feast Night, doesn't want to pash her again and keeps twirling her while dancing so she can't kiss him, then ends up entwined in bed with her.

Why does Ed get to make all the rules? Is Jade just some plaything ? A light switch he can turn on and off when it suits? She's a human being with emotions and she feels more for him than he does for her. Fine - Ed needs to stop pashing her and NOT entwine himself in bed in his underwear with her.

Seriously - Ed is the problem here. Jade has made her intentions clear from the time the fake marriage dissolved. She likes Ed and will take anything she can get. If he doesn't want her getting attached/upset/groping then DO NOT TOUCH HER WHATSOEVER. Why should the man make all the rules???

Also - so Ed said he wouldn't get into a relationship in the house? What WILL he do in the house? I'd like to see something besides working out, and drinking peanut butter protein shakes in the kitchen. Seriously - he and Matt are a complete waste of space in the house. Jade may look pathetic but she's at least providing some story in the house.
 
Cade said:
Waaaait a minute...

So Ed pashes her, agrees to share a bed, changes his mind, pashes her again on Feast Night, doesn't want to pash her again and keeps twirling her while dancing so she can't kiss him, then ends up entwined in bed with her.

Why does Ed get to make all the rules? Is Jade just some plaything ? A light switch he can turn on and off when it suits? She's a human being with emotions and she feels more for him than he does for her. Fine - Ed needs to stop pashing her and NOT entwine himself in his underwear with her.

Seriously - Ed is the problem here. Jade has made her intentions clear from the time the fake marriage dissolved. She likes Ed and will take anything she can get. If he doesn't want her getting attached/upset/groping then DO NOT TOUCH HER WHATSOEVER. Why should the man make all the rules???
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AGREE! Jade is being desperate and silly but Ed is being a prick! I think he loves the fact everyone knows she is lusting after him. There are many conversations he could have to make things clear to her without it being nasty or mean. What he is doing now is mean especially knowing how everyone else in the house thinks about it. I do wish Jade would get over her infatuation tho. There is nothing special about him.
 
Chump said:
If a stalker (as you are suggesting of Jade), is sexually harassing a victim (as you have called Ed) to the point it needs some sort of reprimand or professional psychological input (as you have also suggested) it's doesn't take a brainiac to realise the Victim should not cuddle under the blankets with the person who is sexually harassing him.

''Don't get into bed with your stalker'' is surely not that far down the list of How To Manage Stalkers from ''Make sure you CLEARLY tell your stalker that you do not want them to make advances on you''
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And there you have it. Post. Of. The. Thread.
 
Cade said:
Waaaait a minute...

So Ed pashes her, agrees to share a bed, changes his mind, pashes her again on Feast Night, doesn't want to pash her again and keeps twirling her while dancing so she can't kiss him, then ends up entwined in bed with her.

Why does Ed get to make all the rules? Is Jade just some plaything ? A light switch he can turn on and off when it suits? She's a human being with emotions and she feels more for him than he does for her. Fine - Ed needs to stop pashing her and NOT entwine himself in bed in his underwear with her.

Seriously - Ed is the problem here. Jade has made her intentions clear from the time the fake marriage dissolved. She likes Ed and will take anything she can get. If he doesn't want her getting attached/upset/groping then DO NOT TOUCH HER WHATSOEVER. Why should the man make all the rules???

Also - so Ed said he wouldn't get into a relationship in the house? What WILL he do in the house? I'd like to see something besides working out, and drinking peanut butter protein shakes in the kitchen. Seriously - he and Matt are a complete waste of space in the house. Jade may look pathetic but she's at least providing some story in the house.
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Have to give this post credit too though, hit the nail on the head perfectly.
 
Cade said:
Waaaait a minute...

So Ed pashes her, agrees to share a bed, changes his mind, pashes her again on Feast Night, doesn't want to pash her again and keeps twirling her while dancing so she can't kiss him, then ends up entwined in bed with her.

Why does Ed get to make all the rules? Is Jade just some plaything ? A light switch he can turn on and off when it suits? She's a human being with emotions and she feels more for him than he does for her. Fine - Ed needs to stop pashing her and NOT entwine himself in bed in his underwear with her.

Seriously - Ed is the problem here. Jade has made her intentions clear from the time the fake marriage dissolved. She likes Ed and will take anything she can get. If he doesn't want her getting attached/upset/groping then DO NOT TOUCH HER WHATSOEVER. Why should the man make all the rules???

Also - so Ed said he wouldn't get into a relationship in the house? What WILL he do in the house? I'd like to see something besides working out, and drinking peanut butter protein shakes in the kitchen. Seriously - he and Matt are a complete waste of space in the house. Jade may look pathetic but she's at least providing some story in the house.
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2nd Post. Of. The. thread. ;)
 
Sorceress said:
Have to give this post credit too though, hit the nail on the head perfectly.
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Yep agreed. Just read Cade's as well. Both [MENTION=34873]Chump[/MENTION] and [MENTION=95]Cade[/MENTION] have hit it right on the head.

If you are uncomfortable with someone's advances the last thing you do is put yourself in situations that encourage those advances.
 
Hope4Rain said:
man, I need to get my eyes checked!!!
At first, I thought the title of this TOP POSTED thread read
" Is Tully a Dirty Whore for cheating on her Girlfriend?"
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LOL
doesn't excuse any bad behaviour be Ed or Jade (if there is any, as alleged by the OP), but it does put in perspective the alleged bad behaviour.

HippyGirl said:
Ed says to jade that he is not interested and doesn't want to to go further
Ed kisses jade
Ed and jade share a bed

Jade gets mixed messages (and confused) and is encouraged by other housemates to make her move

Jade is portrayed as the one chasing Ed and that it's all one sided

I don't believe that for a minute. He is sending her mixed messages and she doesn't know how to respond.
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So much this. If the sexes were reversed, Ed would be a cocktease and Jade would be a heartbroken young man.


Cade said:
So Ed pashes her, agrees to share a bed, changes his mind, pashes her again on Feast Night, doesn't want to pash her again and keeps twirling her while dancing so she can't kiss him, then ends up entwined in bed with her.

Why does Ed get to make all the rules? Is Jade just some plaything ? A light switch he can turn on and off when it suits? She's a human being with emotions and she feels more for him than he does for her. Fine - Ed needs to stop pashing her and NOT entwine himself in bed in his underwear with her.

Seriously - Ed is the problem here. Jade has made her intentions clear from the time the fake marriage dissolved. She likes Ed and will take anything she can get. If he doesn't want her getting attached/upset/groping then DO NOT TOUCH HER WHATSOEVER. Why should the man make all the rules???
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bravo
 
Maybe the point is then why are we all so desperate for all the single people to hookup? And then when they do hookup everyone starts bitching about how boring it is that all they do is sit around cuddling and kissing? I think if these people have gone in there looking for the love of their lives, they signed up for the wrong reality show. The Bachelor is right around the corner. (there is no way I would ever watch that show - ewww)
 
Chump said:
If a stalker (as you are suggesting of Jade), is sexually harassing a victim (as you have called Ed) to the point it needs some sort of reprimand or professional psychological input (as you have also suggested) it's doesn't take a brainiac to realise the Victim should not cuddle under the blankets with the person who is sexually harassing him.

''Don't get into bed with your stalker'' is surely not that far down the list of How To Manage Stalkers from ''Make sure you CLEARLY tell your stalker that you do not want them to make advances on you''
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Cracker of a post there girlfriend!

Well done.
 
Chump said:
If a stalker (as you are suggesting of Jade), is sexually harassing a victim (as you have called Ed) to the point it needs some sort of reprimand or professional psychological input (as you have also suggested) it's doesn't take a brainiac to realise the Victim should not cuddle under the blankets with the person who is sexually harassing him.

''Don't get into bed with your stalker'' is surely not that far down the list of How To Manage Stalkers from ''Make sure you CLEARLY tell your stalker that you do not want them to make advances on you''
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This is perfection.
 
Elspie said:
Maybe the point is then why are we all so desperate for all the single people to hookup? And then when they do hookup everyone starts bitching about how boring it is that all they do is sit around cuddling and kissing? I think if these people have gone in there looking for the love of their lives, they signed up for the wrong reality show. The Bachelor is right around the corner. (there is no way I would ever watch that show - ewww)
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I'm certainly not. Showmances are eclipsed by absolutely everything except comparing the smelliness of each other's belly buttons in watchability for me.
 
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