Housemate #5 TULLY!

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grug33 said:
Could not agree more. All this "she needs to come out now" stuff is perplexing to me.

I'd like it if she stayed, but ultimately if she leaves it should be because it was decided by an unadulterated eviction process, or because she chooses to, for whatever reason.

Asking people to not save her because it's for her own good, blah blah, is bullshit imo.
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Totally agree. Bullshit it is.
 
yukikodancer said:
I don't believe I am doing this.

Mistake:
an error in action, calculation, opinion, or judgment caused by poor reasoning, carelessness, insufficient knowledge, etc.

an error in action (in my case a choice) caused by poor reasoning (I thought I would be interested, I was wrong)
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You can quote word book definitions all you want but when we are talking about cheating it's always a choice. You coming here was not a mistake either but a choice you made as it was intentional on your part.
 
Drade 2013 said:
So you think just because she already dumped her that she won't be hurting anymore and that she might have already moved on? I guess it is possible that some people can "move" on easily.
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I don't know if she's still hurting or not but I'm guessing she could still be since they dated for 2 years but why would she watch BB if it's hurting her so much, that she dumped Tully... why would she ask for singles girls to come get her, if she was hurting so much, for revenge or rebound? If Tahlia hadn't dumped Tully and was still watching BB knowing what was happening, I would feel really upset for her. I don't like Drully and can see why she dumped Tully in the first place, if she thought Tully didnt love her anymore.
 
chads said:
You can quote word book definitions all you want but when we are talking about cheating it's always a choice. You coming here was not a mistake either but a choice you made as it was intentional on your part.
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I can quote definition that back what I said. It did. My biggest mistake was not ignoring you. About to rectify that.
 
Yeah....I'm not sure ill watch if she's evicted, it's all a bit concerning.
I'm not impressed by Tully but I'd prefer if she slunk back into obscurity and learned from her mistakes.
 
I haven't read the last 15 pages or so, still wading through, just thought I'd post what I posted in the other thread. I don't think her friend has helped her at all with this. There was a good chance Tully was going home anyway without her saying anything, all this has done is give more fodder for the online bullies. Why not hand the account over to another friend or family member to manage, or just go quiet for a few days? Chucking a Melba has only fanned the flames.
 
yukikodancer said:
I can quote definition that back what I said. It did. My biggest mistake was not ignoring you. About to rectify that.
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You made a choice of coming back and you just can't stay away. Why are you so angry and hostile? Don't blame me for your bad choices.
 
keke said:
As I understand it they are arguing about Tort Law, a subject that they seem to know nothing about.
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Not a subject brought by me sorry you can't blame me for everything darling. I have actually no idea what you two are talking about and why I am being mentioned.
 
I really wish Drully didn't happen as I actually like Tully outside of that and was a big supporter and voter but with Drully getting deeper and her falling further into a hole I feel like I need her gone just so I can see the house have fun again, and get good Drew back.
 
chads said:
In real word if the employer learns about affair in the workplace many times it will result one or both of the affair partners being fired or resigning. Why? Because when they get caught it will be impossible work environment after that.
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Wow, harsh workplaces in Finland, and I thought that was a rather progressive country re private sexuality and stuff.

Nobody gets the sack here for fucking around unless it's politics - and even then, depends. Or there could be some issues when the boss is involved or whatever.
But in general - people in Australia are having friggin affairs at work, everywhere. Every place I have worked, hospitals were the worst, doctors were always sneaking off with each other.

Some people live there life that way, one of my ex friends, she almost exclusively dated/carried on with married men.
She once asked me....what would you do about blah blah leaving his wife, or some icky crap, my answer began the end of our friendship, I would never be in the position you are in...
Powerful men she was dealing with.

I was also advised in one work place by the older married women, affairs are what keep marriages going..........rather gross when I was just engaged.

People get up to all kinds of cheating crap, sex parties at lunchtime a taxi driver told me are common! He had just driven a group to one.

Do they really get fired in your country? Harsh & kind of creepy.
 
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