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Consuela said:
So um haiii...

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Join in, we shall end with a group rendition of kumbaya
 
Hmmm I am at the cross roads.

Do I keep doing this, or do I go and have a glass of wine and sit and talk to someone who loves me, flaws and all....?
 
Trala said:
Hmmm I am at the cross roads.

Do I keep doing this, or do I go and have a glass of wine and sit and talk to someone who loves me, flaws and all....?
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Do what makes you happiest! I personally like getting the aired cleared, its refreshing
 
Trala said:
That would have meant so much more had you showed me kindness in those awful moments where I was being abused, threatened and had my partner was being abused and threatened, but instead you bopped to your toons providing your own form of victimization of a poster and group mentality of exclusion. Only difference when the target has a loud voice and a strong nature that behaviour is deemed okay.

That situation hurt and unsettled me more than you can imagine. You would need to be abused and threatened on a third daily basis for months for no other reason than publicly disagreeing with a poster to understand. While I can agree I am a strong opinionated pain in the arse, words on a screen can hurt me just like they hurt you.
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Well, I missed out on the whole shebang, I'm afraid, because I was overseas and had a life that I was living. I'm sorry that you had to go through a war of words that was disagreeable to you, but I don't regret having my own friendships, although I might disagree with some of my friends words. (I haven't forgotten an apostrophe there, either, because I do have more than one friend.) I'll keep bopping to my tunes and everyone and anyone is welcome to join me.

And I'm so sorry that this thread has gone to shit and become so boring.
 
Trala said:
Hmmm I am at the cross roads.

Do I keep doing this, or do I go and have a glass of wine and sit and talk to someone who loves me, flaws and all....?
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Oh, have a glass of wine with your beloved, Trala. That's what I do. And Jesus probs would, too!
 
Jam said:
Well, I missed out on the whole shebang, I'm afraid, because I was overseas and had a life that I was living. I'm sorry that you had to go through a war of words that was disagreeable to you, but I don't regret having my own friendships, although I might disagree with some of my friends words. (I haven't forgotten an apostrophe there, either, because I do have more than one friend.) I'll keep bopping to my tunes and everyone and anyone is welcome to join me.

And I'm so sorry that this thread has gone to shit and become so boring.
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While I respect that you are friends with him, if you did indeed miss the whole shebang, well coming in on the end of it and claiming he is a victim is completely ill informed, it wasn't a war of words, it was threats of violence and death to a female and her partner, threats of trying to destroy a career, and anyone who stepped in his path got the same, anyone dared find it unacceptable that threats of violence against anyone let alone a female was a dog, we are all fags, poofters, kunts, who will get theirs, mind you the majority of these threats happened when we were all asleep, like a true coward would, it was vile behaviour, and one HE doesn't own himself, so the fact you didn't actually see it happening, maybe should inform yourself
 
mutleyp said:
While I respect that you are friends with him, if you did indeed miss the whole shebang, well coming in on the end of it and claiming he is a victim is completely ill informed, it wasn't a war of words, it was threats of violence and death to a female and her partner, threats of trying to destroy a career, and anyone who stepped in his path got the same, anyone dared find it unacceptable that threats of violence against anyone let alone a female was a dog, we are all fags, poofters, kunts, who will get theirs, mind you the majority of these threats happened when we were all asleep, like a true coward would, it was vile behaviour, and one HE doesn't own himself, so the fact you didn't actually see it happening, maybe should inform yourself
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I don't condone violence, or threats of violence, in any form! I'm sorry that this happened to you all. But as I've said before, he has only ever been kind and generous to me; which doesn't, of course, excuse antisocial behaviour in any way.

However, that is a very extreme example. There is still a culture on this forum, and particularly this thread, where 'uncool' posters are belittled, mocked or ignored because some posters think they are boring. Way to be inclusive.
 
Jam said:
I don't condone violence, or threats of violence, in any form! I'm sorry that this happened to you all. But as I've said before, he has only ever been kind and generous to me; which doesn't, of course, excuse antisocial behaviour in any way.

However, that is a very extreme example. There is still a culture on this forum, and particularly this thread, where 'uncool' posters are belittled, mocked or ignored because some posters think they are boring. Way to be inclusive.
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I have never thought anyone was uncool personally, really, we hang out on a big brother forum, how cool can we really be? but forums, like life, you get along better with some people than you do others, just like you choose to take your interaction with him your way, I take my interaction with him my way, such is life
 
mutleyp said:
I have never thought anyone was uncool personally, really, we hang out on a big brother forum, how cool can we really be? but forums, like life, you get along better with some people than you do others, just like you choose to take your interaction with him your way, I take my interaction with him my way, such is life
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True. But there's a line between not getting along with someone and treating them like shit. Not that I'm saying you do, Muts; but some do.
 
Who are the 'uncool' people on here? Me? Who else? I would rather be uncool than cool. I wouldn't know how to be cool. But i don't think I care enough to try and be cool.
 
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