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This is awesome guys, lets get our dirty laundry out there, so we can get rid of the stench and get back to what we do best!
 
Jam said:
And at the time, I said that I thought @kxk was being overly theatrical! I felt that you dropped me, darling, because you couldn't be seen to agree with kxk, or me as I laughed with her, when she was being attacked by the strongest and most aggressive poster on this forum. It disappointed me because prior to that I really admired you. I still think you're adorable, but now I think you're very vulnerable as well.
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Well obviously I was vulnerable I had a family member going through cancer and that saying was absolutely revolting and when I brought that up as my issue it it was flipped off by that poster, and glossed over by the rest, I do recall someone saying to along the line of "its just an expression" well that "expression" was extremely offensive and of bad taste, and yes I felt you encouraged it, but we PM'd after that and I said its the nature of a forum to have difference of opinions and thats not a bad thing, peoples choice of words though, ARE a choice

May I add I did leave the forum after that for an extended period of time, so yeah our relationship on here was effected by it
 
mutleyp said:
Well obviously I was vulnerable I had a family member going through cancer and that saying was absolutely revolting and when I brought that up as my issue it it was flipped off by that poster, and glossed over by the rest, I do recall someone saying to along the line of "its just an expression" well that "expression" was extremely offensive and of bad taste, and yes I felt you encouraged it, but we PM'd after that and I said its the nature of a forum to have difference of opinions and thats not a bad thing, peoples choice of words though, ARE a choice
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I don't recall cancer being mentioned in that incident, although 'death' certainly was! We all have our moments of vulnerability, Muts. None of us know what our fellow posters are going through when they post the things they do! I still believe that we should be kind and forgive and forget the momentary missteps we all make. I do take fault, though, with the relentless nastiness and victimization of some posters and the group mentality of exclusion that it seems to encourage.
 
Jam said:
I don't recall cancer being mentioned in that incident, although 'death' certainly was! We all have our moments of vulnerability, Muts. None of us know what our fellow posters are going through when they post the things they do! I still believe that we should be kind and forgive and forget the momentary missteps we all make. I do take fault, though, with the relentless nastiness and victimization of some posters and the group mentality of exclusion that it seems to encourage.
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I don't doubt that, and I agree, I have said and done some things on here Im not proud of, and if I could turn back time I would, that poster you are referring to has a history of such comments, so I felt when I brought it up with her with my point, her and her old school posse, as well as yourself completely made me feel invalidated and how dare I be offended by a disgusting comment, as I said I left not long after, I also have no power over anyone but myself and vice versa with anyone, so group mentality I was un aware of
 
Jam said:
I don't recall cancer being mentioned in that incident, although 'death' certainly was! We all have our moments of vulnerability, Muts. None of us know what our fellow posters are going through when they post the things they do! I still believe that we should be kind and forgive and forget the momentary missteps we all make. I do take fault, though, with the relentless nastiness and victimization of some posters and the group mentality of exclusion that it seems to encourage.
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In saying that, I apologise if I made you feel that way, or made it seem I was making anyone else exclude you, that wasn't my intention, I just didn't want to interact with you very much after that at the time personally
 
Jam said:
.... I felt that you dropped me, darling, because you couldn't be seen to agree with kxk, or me as I laughed with her, when she was being attacked by the strongest and most aggressive poster on this forum....
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I know! That fucking @el'coopo! She is like a pitbull!

And for the record I think the most aggressive poster on this forum has to go to the man who threatened to beat me, my partner, Miiike, iJake, Mutley, Bleachy, Kingston and a gaggle of others on a second nightly basis.

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mutleyp said:
I don't doubt that, and I agree, I have said and done some things on here Im not proud of, and if I could turn back time I would, that poster you are referring to has a history of such comments, so I felt when I brought it up with her with my point, her and her old school posse, as well as yourself completely made me feel invalidated and how dare I be offended by a disgusting comment, as I said I left not long after, I also have no power over anyone but myself and vice versa with anyone, so group mentality I was un aware of
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Well, Muts, I'm very glad that you can own your actions. That is a very good thing. I also own my own actions but I can see the actions of others as well; some of those actions I can understand, some I don't.
 
Trala said:
I know! That fucking @el'coopo! She is like a pitbull!

And for the record I think the most aggressive poster on this forum has to go to the man who threatened to beat me, my partner, Miiike, iJake, Mutley, Bleachy, Kingston and a gaggle of others on a second nightly basis.

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Indeed. Let's all band together and agree on the vileness and unworthiness of the most vulnerable among us. Well said.
 
Jam said:
Well, Muts, I'm very glad that you can own your actions. That is a very good thing. I also own my own actions but I can see the actions of others as well; some of those actions I can understand, some I don't.
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I own my actions, as to the most vulnerable amongst us, you have no idea what happened between he and I behind the scenes, how much I had tried to help him, then for them to call me vile names regarding who I am, I blocked him for months, until it went to far, and I own that too, you can only help those who want to help themselves
 
Trala said:
And for the record I think the most aggressive poster on this forum has to go to the man who threatened to beat me, my partner, Miiike, iJake, Mutley, Bleachy, Kingston and a gaggle of others on a second nightly basis.

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:o - who did that? I must of missed something..[DOUBLEPOST=1426920699][/DOUBLEPOST]
Witty Banter said:
Can we establish who the cliques are? I'm actively recruiting. I am only 9/10 on JordanS's loathe scale, so we are aligned.
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Far from aligned...
 
Jam said:
Indeed. Let's all band together and agree on the vileness and unworthiness of the most vulnerable among us. Well said.
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That would have meant so much more had you showed me kindness in those awful moments where I was being abused, threatened and had my partner was being abused and threatened, but instead you bopped to your toons providing your own form of victimization of a poster and group mentality of exclusion. Only difference when the target has a loud voice and a strong nature that behaviour is deemed okay.

That situation hurt and unsettled me more than you can imagine. You would need to be abused and threatened on a third daily basis for months for no other reason than publicly disagreeing with a poster to understand. While I can agree I am a strong opinionated pain in the arse, words on a screen can hurt me just like they hurt you.
 
So um haiii...

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mutleyp said:
I own my actions, as to the most vulnerable amongst us, you have no idea what happened between he and I behind the scenes, how much I had tried to help him, then for them to call me vile names regarding who I am, I blocked him for months, until it went to far, and I own that too, you can only help those who want to help themselves
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Respect, Muts. You are a good man.
 
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