General O/T Chit Chat Thread

[Tee]

Hey me and the 20 other people who run this account would like to wish everyone a happy Wednesday night... Especially @iJake and @Trala (wherever you are)....

How strange of you, but I guess this is just another layer of the elusive Inigo.

Since you made this public, I will respond publicly. First and foremost, what an unnecessary thing for you to do, and for what? To make iJake uncomfortable for confiding in what he thought was a friend? To make me feel uncomfortable for sharing an opinion (that you think to be mine) that has come to you third hand? I had no idea what this comment meant, I went to Jake's profile where you call him a "pussy bitch" and was further baffled, so I PM'ed Jake and was able to get some context to this comment, and now I want to clear up your obvious misconceptions.

I absolutely do not think 20 people run your account. But I do think you are a persona. I have seen you swing from suicidal mental patient to forum hard arse in the blink of an eye. The only consistency of your online persona, is a constant flow of inconsistencies

While I see you have a firm following of friends in here, I am sure real life is a completely different story. I think it is ironic, of all the different personas you have shared, I have never found one even remotely likable.

The fact you used Reepbot's obvious social awkwardness to gain information that was shared privately between he and iJake, then use it against Jake and I in an attempt to publicly shame us for daring to share an opinion about you is revolting. My understanding is Jake was supporting what he thought was a friend, based on the information Reepbot privately shared with him. Reepbot asked direct questions and Jake responded how he felt.

And @reepbot Jake was a friend to you, fuck knows why, but he was a friend. He supported you through out your very public tardish heartbreak, he defended you, he cared for you and advised you, and you repay that by breaching his trust and sharing private conversation content causing this fall out. In case you are wondering, this is dysfunctional behaviour at it's worst. You betrayed Jake and you deliberately flamed an already flaming situation. You know there is no love lost between Inigo and I so you deliberately take words that you know will further upset and hurt Inigo and you tell her anyway. That is not how a true friend behaves. Hopefully you got the outcome you wanted. You got to upset Inigo, upset iJake and seriously fuck me off.

I swear, you and your fair weathered catfish mate deserve each other.

Happy menstruating.

 

[Tee]

This place is fucking mental.

 

[Witty Banter]

This place is fucking mental.

Nup. I'm a boring, steady ship in turbulent waters. Come to the nerdy side.

 

[David's beard]

Hi all. Just popping in to say hi. Hope you're all well, etc

 

[mutleyp]

How strange of you, but I guess this is just another layer of the elusive Inigo.

Since you made this public, I will respond publicly. First and foremost, what an unnecessary thing for you to do, and for what? To make iJake uncomfortable for confiding in what he thought was a friend? To make me feel uncomfortable for sharing an opinion (that you think to be mine) that has come to you third hand? I had no idea what this comment meant, I went to Jake's profile where you call him a "pussy bitch" and was further baffled, so I PM'ed Jake and was able to get some context to this comment, and now I want to clear up your obvious misconceptions.

I absolutely do not think 20 people run your account. But I do think you are a persona. I have seen you swing from suicidal mental patient to forum hard arse in the blink of an eye. The only consistency of your online persona, is a constant flow of inconsistencies

While I see you have a firm following of friends in here, I am sure real life is a completely different story. I think it is ironic, of all the different personas you have shared, I have never found one even remotely likable.

The fact you used Reepbot's obvious social awkwardness to gain information that was shared privately between he and iJake, then use it against Jake and I in an attempt to publicly shame us for daring to share an opinion about you is revolting. My understanding is Jake was supporting what he thought was a friend, based on the information Reepbot privately shared with him. Reepbot asked direct questions and Jake responded how he felt.

And @reepbot Jake was a friend to you, fuck knows why, but he was a friend. He supported you through out your very public tardish heartbreak, he defended you, he cared for you and advised you, and you repay that by breaching his trust and sharing private conversation content causing this fall out. In case you are wondering, this is dysfunctional behaviour at it's worst. You betrayed Jake and you deliberately flamed an already flaming situation. You know there is no love lost between Inigo and I so you deliberately take words that you know will further upset and hurt Inigo and you tell her anyway. That is not how a true friend behaves. Hopefully you got the outcome you wanted. You got to upset Inigo, upset iJake and seriously fuck me off.

I swear, you and your fair weathered catfish mate deserve each other.

Happy menstruating.

Hmm Im not sure what happened, Im sorry both you and @iJake have been singled out for whatever reason. As you said there is no love lost between you and inigo, but Im totally shocked at reepbot and iJake, I mean iJake is one of the nicest, wittiest, sensitive (in the best way) posters on here, and the way he engaged and encouraged reepbot with their comment interest of writing was great to see, especially since most didn't engage, iJake seemed to have you under his wing... this breaks my heart. @Trala you know what I think of you, with the support you have given me, but Jake I have never had the opportunity to support or thank you for being such a wonderful engaging poster, funny and bright, not afraid to beat his own drum, but can slip into a established conversation with maturity and dignity, you deserve better mate, Im sorry to hear things not been going well for you!

This place has gone to shit, so many cliques, backstabbing and backbiting, lots of valued posters have left. I used to enjoy reading this place in the morning to see the funny repartee which happened over night which made me wish I didn't goto bed, but to still be able to join in, to share our lives one way or another, to laugh at our snide sisters or a witty gif, these days have gone, all about forming a posse and talking shit behind their back, for what purpose? Thinking of you @Trala and @iJake

 

[shadow2]

Hmm Im not sure what happened, Im sorry both you and @iJake have been singled out for whatever reason. As you said there is no love lost between you and inigo, but Im totally shocked at reepbot and iJake, I mean iJake is one of the nicest, wittiest, sensitive (in the best way) posters on here, and the way he engaged and encouraged reepbot with their comment interest of writing was great to see, especially since most didn't engage, iJake seemed to have you under his wing... this breaks my heart. @Trala you know what I think of you, with the support you have given me, but Jake I have never had the opportunity to support or thank you for being such a wonderful engaging poster, funny and bright, not afraid to beat his own drum, but can slip into a established conversation with maturity and dignity, you deserve better mate, Im sorry to hear things not been going well for you!

This place has gone to shit, so many cliques, backstabbing and backbiting, lots of valued posters have left. I used to enjoy reading this place in the morning to see the funny repartee which happened over night which made me wish I didn't goto bed, but to still be able to join in, to share our lives one way or another, to laugh at our snide sisters or a witty gif, these days have gone, all about forming a posse and talking shit behind their back, for what purpose? Thinking of you @Trala and @iJake

I was going to post something, but you pretty much summed up what I feel, I have tried to stay neutral in all this, as I love most posters here, but I do find a divide. Yes OT chat isn't the same, lets try to bring it back to how it was. A lot of bull shit posting from some people which just isnt necessary. Im more of a lurker and reader than a poster, but if something interests me I will post. I dont know whats going on behind the scenes, but sounds pretty messed up. Cheers to you all, and hope you are doing ok @Trala , @iJake and others affected by this bs

 

[Affable]

I am not taking sides but you all need to grow up and move on....

From what I have read, you have all acted immature in some way. No one is right in this situation but this is unecessary non-sense.

 

[David's beard]

Oh dear, seems like I've missed a lot! This place hasn't changed at all, it's sad really :/

 

[iJake]

Thinking of you @Trala and @iJake

Cheers to you all, and hope you are doing ok @Trala , @iJake

Thanks, guys. I appreciate it. I'm always very trusting and honest, and willing to help people, and though in this case it hasn't worked out, I don't have any desire to change. It's not a character flaw. Taking advantage of someone for no real discernible reason is a huge flaw, and anyone encouraging that sort of behaviour are flawed themselves.

But yes, I agree with you @shadow2, and @JordanS. Time to move on hopefully breathe some quality of life back into this thread.

 

[Columbo]

Hi all. Just popping in to say hi. Hope you're all well, etc

I'm excellent. I hope you are well.

 

[David's beard]

I'm excellent. I hope you are well.

I'm very well, thank you

 

[mutleyp]

Thanks, guys. I appreciate it. I'm always very trusting and honest, and willing to help people, and though in this case it hasn't worked out, I don't have any desire to change. It's not a character flaw. Taking advantage of someone for no real discernible reason is a huge flaw, and anyone encouraging that sort of behaviour are flawed themselves.

But yes, I agree with you @shadow2, and @JordanS. Time to move on hopefully breathe some quality of life back into this thread.

Dont change! You are perfect the way you are

 

[Columbo]

I'm very well, thank you

That is good Bet you are glad not to see anymore save laura hashtags on twitter, lol.

 

[David's beard]

That is good Bet you are glad not to see anymore save laura hashtags on twitter, lol.

Are you confusing me with someone else? Most people do haha. Who is Laura?

 

[Affable]

Thanks for staying civil, @iJake . I do hope the others remain civil too.

Drama shouldn't be on the forum - if you have a problem, take it to PM I say

 

[Columbo]

Are you confusing me with someone else? Most people do haha. Who is Laura?

oh yes, sorry. I confused you with @davidftw. all these david usernames get me confused.

 

[Inigo Montoya]

I don't even know what is going on. I am the one that trala and ijake hate and they seem to distrust me so much they have come up with some stupid theory about how there are mulipule people running this account. That is the only behind the scene stuff that I am aware of. And if the post I made tagging those 2 is singling people out.... That is so bloody stupid. I made that post because of ijakes profile message.... I did not start this. I am the one who has had people make up shit about me. I've done my best to stay clear of the people who don't like me... But if people are to make profile posts like ijake, I would rather just air all this bad blood, move on and go back to staying away from the people dislike me. Still have no clue on what I've done. But hey some people will just never get along....

 

[David's beard]

oh yes, sorry. I confused you with @davidftw. all these david usernames get me confused.

Everyone gets us confused Say hi to her for me, next time you talk to her

 

[Columbo]

Everyone gets us confused Say hi to her for me, next time you talk to her

I will, but I don't think I have seen her posting much recently.

 

[Affable]

I don't even know what is going on. I am the one that trala and ijake hate and they seem to distrust me so much they have come up with some stupid theory about how there are mulipule people running this account. That is the only behind the scene stuff that I am aware of. And if the post I made tagging those 2 is singling people out.... That is so bloody stupid. I made that post because of ijakes profile message.... I did not start this. I am the one who has had people make up shit about me. I've done my best to stay clear of the people who don't like me... But if people are to make profile posts like ijake, I would rather just air all this bad blood, move on and go back to staying away from the people dislike me. Still have no clue on what I've done. But hey some people will just never get along....

I don't blame you either. If someone posted something about me too, I would of reacted in the same way.

I just wish instead of the bickering and bitching by people on this forum, it could of all been solved in private.