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hooleydooley said:
I never understand why people make what they 'prefer' to be what they look for, as in looks! ...... I feel it is about the soul....... I am sure I am right here, but then again ugly is ugly, but as long as you click and share common interests ..... Go on looks alone - a disappointment.
There are always paper bags ......... and imagination ..... and crayons .....

:bag: :rolleyes:[DOUBLEPOST=1423935438][/DOUBLEPOST]OH, and the Giants in Perth were/are awesome :)
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mutleyp said:
I couldn't agree more, sure initial attraction needs to be there, but overall, people become even more attractive/unattractive on personality, and in the end, thats what propels a relationship
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This is all bullshit.

I can assure you - when you are Tindering or whatever you do, you go straight for looks without knowing the other person. It may sound vain but it is the truth about the matter.
 
JordanS said:
This is all bullshit.

I can assure you - when you are Tindering or whatever you do, you go straight for looks without knowing the other person. It may sound vain but it is the truth about the matter.
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I said initial attraction plays a part, obviously, but if thats all there is it doesn't last, I can promise you that
 
mutleyp said:
I said initial attraction plays a part, obviously, but if thats all there is it doesn't last, I can promise you that
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Well then, we are all set up for failure then? That's to say that the ones we are not initially attracted to may very well provide better relationships than those who we are...
 
JordanS said:
Well then, we are all set up for failure then? That's to say that the ones we are not initially attracted to may very well provide better relationships than those who we are...
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Can I ask your age? Thats not what I said at all, I said initial attraction plays a part, but to base a whole relationship purely on that, is what is doomed for failure
 
JordanS said:
Thanks. It is true though - it has been proven in Psychology. My main basis in theory :D
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Im not going to fight with you about it, as I have said, initial attraction does play a part, no disputing that, Im just saying good luck with that, and I hope you discover what the rest of us are saying
 
JordanS said:
This is all bullshit.

I can assure you - when you are Tindering or whatever you do, you go straight for looks without knowing the other person. It may sound vain but it is the truth about the matter.
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I think I understand where you're coming from. The argument is no different to walking into a bar (for example) regarding judgment of looks and subsequently who someone is or isn't willing to talk to as a result. The point is in getting an initial match (numbers game) and assessing from there.
 
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mutleyp said:
Im not going to fight with you about it, as I have said, initial attraction does play a part, no disputing that, Im just saying good luck with that, and I hope you discover what the rest of us are saying
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What I take from what the rest of you are saying is that you all believe that good looking people have crap personalities, which I am not buying into. Just my view on things.
 
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