Morninghows the holiday??? I hope you relaxed and your balls are not so blue!
A) such a straight man answer
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Hello you!
In the hope I might fall into that group, I just want to say, yours was the only welcoming PM I received when I first joined up here. Each time I would log in I would have to contend with the angry barrage of "who are you?!" PM's from the paranoid, who had convinced themselves I was some newly invented disgruntled exposter.
If I had a dollar for every post of mine which was reported, I could buy the interweb, take over this site and make myself your leader! By my second year here, I think Tim was sick of spanking me, I however enjoyed our special one on one spanky time, and came to expect it. It was like our own 50 Shades of Grey... without the finger banging.
In those early days I was banned more than Instantalent!!!! The regulars fucking hated me! Thankfully the fact I have come to hate them right back, has brought a sense of balance to the situation.
I am so happy that you and so many others enjoy Mutleys thread and feel comfortable lazing around in here. It is my easily my favourite, and in it I have found true friendships, so lucky me!
Im so glad some of the "older" posters think that, as @Trala said us newbies got a lot of paranoia PM's and snubbing when first joined, Im not sure why or what had happened, but its people like you and @el'coopo who and the others that kept me here, didnt make us feel like a nuisance like walking into a party late interrupting the flow with our newer dance moves, I remember even when I started this thread, I got lots of flack from the oldies saying there was already a similar thread "Today I..." but was never made feel welcome enough to post in there, and the tone was much different, thankfully the powers that be allowed this thread to remain open so us "misfits" could have our own little party where old and new could join in and take the conversation where ever it may go, usually suggestively or even non suggestively sexual, always a giggle, and most of us have our own little bond, even if its as a sparring partner, wouldn't have it any other way, and Im lucky to have picked up some good friends along the way
I am ashamed. I have been active on this forum forever so certainly around at the time you are talking about. I had a group of friends too (most rarely here any more but in touch other ways). Perhaps some of them are these members you are talking about. I think I was oblivious of this behaviour but am sorry that it happened. It's fine to have friends here - great in fact. But this isn't anyone's exclusive place (except perhaps Tim
Despite the beliefs of some, we were not into exclusivity afaic.I must have been on "holidays" from here when this happened to coops. (sorry CoopsI don't think it was any of "us" qt...I think it may have been "them"
) Along with Auntie Blue and fatherD and many other oldschoolers, that behaviour is well known. I have even heard some express contempt for the bb season with all the "blow ins" invading "their" space.... insane.
Tough one Muts.........acceptance, compassion, loyalty, empathy, and lots of other things ending in "Y"
Desperation is never an attractive quality, babe.
