Jesse .. Both you and your partner will have well-meaning advice coming at you from all directions on all things "baby" ... Let it all flow over you ... Use what you need to and smile and nod for the rest ... Don't get hooked on just one method or book ... Go with what feels right and good for you, your partner and baby ... Your little family unit is paramount
No one has all the answers ...even experts can come unhinged when they themselves end up with a colicky baby and precious little sleep
In the end we all just do our best
You'll be great whether baby sleeps or not ... Grumpy but great