They need to familiarise themselves with the concept of donating money and then maybe have a nice unhealthy dose of chemo, so they can understand the difference between fighting the illness in paid or unfamiliar accommodation verse being able to recover in your own home. Side note: just because you donate, doesn't necessarily give you the right to an opinion as to how your donated money is spent.Sick family member with community fundraising. They've decided to fly home between chemo. Discussions about it being a waste of money. And it's not one of those self righteous 'I've donated so I can have an opinion' , cos they haven't donated.
But what annoys me is I've been invited to the Mardi gras with my friend and I said no because I don't want to become gossip fodder for these people.
What on earth does you going to Mardi gras have to do with anything?
You need to simplify your life. I have a golden rule, if I don't care about you, I don't give a fuck what you think about anything.