Drew - she did it with you....

[libliblibby]

...she'll do it too you.

I have to say it, and I wanted it in it's own thread in case you ever read this stuff.

I speak from experience.

Good luck to you, what ever path you choose.

 

[LovelyCoconuts]

Speaking from similar experience, everyone one is different and every situation is different. We don't know the relationship she & her girlfriend had and we don't know the relationship she & Drew had. I am in no way condoning cheating, as it does sting, but I really don't see why so many people that don't know anyone involved care. I'm sure the situation will work itself out for all parties involved.

 

[:pp]

What does Drew really have to offer?... the BB fame will wear off and he might piss off to an oil rig or somewhere inhospitable as he's keen to work in energy. Sure he'll have cash but no celeb partays.

Someone of her personality type will need to trade up if she wants to keep in the limelight.

 

[Sorceress]

...she'll do it too you.

I have to say it, and I wanted it in it's own thread in case you ever read this stuff.

I speak from experience.

Good luck to you, what ever path you choose.

Oh gosh yeah, hell I bet she shacks up with some melb dyke within 3 months...whoever gives her attention.

 

[Dame]

What does Drew really have to offer?... the BB fame will wear off and he might piss off to an oil rig or somewhere inhospitable as he's keen to work in energy. Sure he'll have cash but no celeb partays.

Someone of her personality type will need to trade up if she wants to keep in the limelight.

LOL well if Drew does get shipped off to work in Energy that could get very awkward....

 

[CaspersMum]

...she'll do it too you.

I have to say it, and I wanted it in it's own thread in case you ever read this stuff.

I speak from experience.

Good luck to you, what ever path you choose.

And this is the crux of it right here. Without a second thought she will. Once a cheater always a cheater.

 

[nightingale's eye]

They are well suited. She likes the stupid games and so does he. They both are so wrapped up in their image and coolness. She pursued him, disregarding her gf's feelings and their relationship, he pursued her knowing she had a long term partner watching them.
Perfect for each other.
They have similar ideas on what is right and wrong in relationships so go for it.

 

[aragon]

Once a cheater always a cheater.
I think once you cheat the easier it is to cheat again and again and again - it becomes like an addictive rush.

 

[Tee]

...she'll do it too you.

I have to say it, and I wanted it in it's own thread in case you ever read this stuff.

I speak from experience.

Good luck to you, what ever path you choose.

You don't know that.

People who are in unfulfilled relationships cheat. People in healthy loving relationships stay strong and withstand the test of time. This is not a new concept.

My take is Tully cheated because she was unfulfilled in her partnership with her girlfriend. Sure the right way to end an unhappy relationship is to address your issues, hold off on your lust, break up with the person, wait the appropriate length of mourning time, then whip off your knickers and throw a leg over the tempter and ride them like Sea Biscuit, but in the real world it usually takes the introduction of a third person to shatter and already delicate relationship, like we have seen with Tully, Tahlia and Drew.

I am not saying living through the experience doesn't hurt, I am not saying it is right for someone to be in a relationship and yet be so drawn to another person they can't think straight, I am merely saying it is a normal flawed human response.

Having lived through being the cheater and the cheatee, neither is an experience I would consider pleasant. However it is simply another upsetting life experience for you to reflect and learn from. No one likes intentionally hurting people they care for, but it happens. Life can be complex.

I too speak from experience.

 

[annavm]

LOL well if Drew does get shipped off to work in Energy that could get very awkward....

Why did he go on Big Brother then? Surely not to work in energy with a celeb status. And clearly he doesn't mind the cheating, he even admitted to being a cheater on Monday's episode and in his promo video. So you never know which one of the two of them is gonna cheat first. Btw, did he lie to Boog when he said he hadn't had a girlfriend in ages? I thought he broke up with his gf right before BB, unless 3 months is ages.

 

[littlebear]

Cheers, [MENTION=30612]TraLa[/MENTION]. Yes, some people are repeat offenders. Others just fall for someone else when they shouldn't. She may do it again, but to say she WILL is patently ridiculous. I find the idea of "warning" Drew kind of creepy, honestly. Like there's some weird desire to sabotage them? What is it to us what ends up happening between them? Uch. Done.

 

[babyblueeyes]

You don't know that.

People who are in unfulfilled relationships cheat. People in healthy loving relationships stay strong and withstand the test of time. This is not a new concept.

My take is Tully cheated because she was unfulfilled in her partnership with her girlfriend. Sure the right way to end an unhappy relationship is to address your issues, hold off on your lust, break up with the person, wait the appropriate length of mourning time, then whip off your knickers and throw a leg over the tempter and ride them like Sea Biscuit, but in the real world it usually takes the introduction of a third person to shatter and already delicate relationship, like we have seen with Tully, Tahlia and Drew.

I am not saying living through the experience doesn't hurt, I am not saying it is right for someone to be in a relationship and yet be so drawn to another person they can't think straight, I am merely saying it is a normal flawed human response.

Having lived through being the cheater and the cheatee, neither is an experience I would consider pleasant. However it is simply another upsetting life experience for you to reflect and learn from. No one likes intentionally hurting people they care for, but it happens. Life can be complex.

I too speak from experience.

Absolutely

not only that but she will never find herself in the same situation again, maybe similar but definitely not the same
How often are we locked away from our reality, how many times would she find herself locked up with someone she's attracted to with no way to see or even speak to her partner, basically trapped in a situation she can't change for weeks possibly months?

 

[Sorceress]

I tend to think she wanted affection and attention from someone and Drew was it, the fact that she so easily changed her mind the minute she was out of the house and actually wanted to stay with Tahlia backs this up.
If she can't get her level of attention or affection she thinks she deserves then she looks elsewhere and justifies it.

There are those of us that learn from our mistakes but there's also the types that do it repeatedly, in every relationship.

 

[:pp]

I tend to think she wanted affection and attention from someone and Drew was it, the fact that she so easily changed her mind the minute she was out of the house and actually wanted to stay with Tahlia backs this up.
If she can't get her level of attention or affection she thinks she deserves then she looks elsewhere and justifies it.

There are those of us that learn from our mistakes but there's also the types that do it repeatedly, in every relationship.

Lack of constancy. It's a borderline trait.

Kinda person that does an each-way bet at the horses

 

[Hekate]

I tend to think she wanted affection and attention from someone and Drew was it, the fact that she so easily changed her mind the minute she was out of the house and actually wanted to stay with Tahlia backs this up.
If she can't get her level of attention or affection she thinks she deserves then she looks elsewhere and justifies it.

There are those of us that learn from our mistakes but there's also the types that do it repeatedly, in every relationship.

"People who need people are the luckiest people in the world ..."

 

[jessy_girl]

Some people are serial cheaters who follow a pattern out of habit.

Some people are the type to never be unfaithful.

Then there are people who happen to be committed to one person and they meet another, and it results in cheating. They might end up with the second person and never cheat on them. Maybe they are the person they are meant to be with, and fulfil them more.

Who knows which type Tully is? Certainly none of us.

Its true that the greatest indicator of future behaviour is past behaviour, but I don't believe once a cheater always a cheater at all.

 

[Dame]

Why did he go on Big Brother then? Surely not to work in energy with a celeb status. And clearly he doesn't mind the cheating, he even admitted to being a cheater on Monday's episode and in his promo video. So you never know which one of the two of them is gonna cheat first. Btw, did he lie to Boog when he said he hadn't had a girlfriend in ages? I thought he broke up with his gf right before BB, unless 3 months is ages.

I made what I thought was a tongue in cheek reply to p's comment. As in it could be awkward for Drew to run into people close to Tahlia who work in the same field! Energy is widespread so the chances are low but you never know. It was a joke!!

 

[Miiiiike]

Once a cheater, does not mean always a cheater.
I could go into more detail, with examples and such, but no ones mind is going to be changed by what they read here anyway.

 

[BBfan-]

You don't know that.

People who are in unfulfilled relationships cheat. People in healthy loving relationships stay strong and withstand the test of time. This is not a new concept.

My take is Tully cheated because she was unfulfilled in her partnership with her girlfriend. Sure the right way to end an unhappy relationship is to address your issues, hold off on your lust, break up with the person, wait the appropriate length of mourning time, then whip off your knickers and throw a leg over the tempter and ride them like Sea Biscuit, but in the real world it usually takes the introduction of a third person to shatter and already delicate relationship, like we have seen with Tully, Tahlia and Drew.

I am not saying living through the experience doesn't hurt, I am not saying it is right for someone to be in a relationship and yet be so drawn to another person they can't think straight, I am merely saying it is a normal flawed human response.

Having lived through being the cheater and the cheatee, neither is an experience I would consider pleasant. However it is simply another upsetting life experience for you to reflect and learn from. No one likes intentionally hurting people they care for, but it happens. Life can be complex.

I too speak from experience.

Yep, we already know that Tully&Tahlia wasn't going to last. While in the house, Tully made several references to having problems in her relationship, needing to find someone else to marry, being able to see herself married to a man, etc. They probably should have broken up beforehand but whatever.

 

[Sorceress]

Yep, we already know that Tully&Tahlia wasn't going to last. While in the house, Tully made several references to having problems in her relationship, needing to find someone else to marry, being able to see herself married to a man, etc. They probably should have broken up beforehand but whatever.

Then why did she want to reconcile with Tahlia when she was evicted?