It's not a big deal, you supported Jade last year right? and what did you think her and Ed were doing late at night when the cameras were rolling 24/7?
The difference is their relationship as it unfolded.
Even though it was not shown as sexual on the camera, it's alright off with what we can't see.
As for Aisha, the camera made it clear what she was doing. There is nothing that can justify it.