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The Bachelorette Australia 2018

davidftw said:
I feel like you are gaslighting this forum, because no one else sees the so-called trolling or personal attacks in this thread, only you. Not liking Ali (or discussing the lower ratings) is not trolling, and saying so is not the personal slight against you that you seem to have made it.
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Thank you for articulating this. Gaslighting is EXACTLY what is going on. I had been trying to work out how to explain it but keep coming up short. The bully and troll is calling everyone else bullies and trolls, it feels l like I am in bizzaro world here.

I have been on the end of name calling and personal attacks for months, but I have bitten my tongue and tried to ignore it because I don't want to give oxygen to the childish behaviour. Today I said ONE thing after being called judgmental and ignorant, because quite frankly I am over it. This place is meant to be fun.

I refuse to be pushed out of the forums or stop posting on this thread just because one poster doesn't like me. There is room for everyone. Just please stop with the personal attacks. Just because you don't use my name doesn't mean I don't know they are directed at me. And stop making stuff up about me. I am not bullying or trolling anyone. If anything it's the other way around.
 
A+ for the fictional story. The only thing missing were fairies and unicorns in your fantasy world.

All lies from you and once you are called out, you deflect and accuse the other person of doing what you have done. Seriously pathetic.
 
Affable said:
A+ for the fictional story. The only thing missing were fairies and unicorns in your fantasy world.

All lies from you and once you are called out, you deflect and accuse the other person of doing what you have done. Seriously pathetic.
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I thought you were leaving.
 
FatPants said:
Thank you for articulating this. Gaslighting is EXACTLY what is going on. I had been trying to work out how to explain it but keep coming up short. The bully and troll is calling everyone else bullies and trolls, it feels l like I am in bizzaro world here.

I have been on the end of name calling and personal attacks for months, but I have bitten my tongue and tried to ignore it because I don't want to give oxygen to the childish behaviour. Today I said ONE thing after being called judgmental and ignorant, because quite frankly I am over it. This place is meant to be fun.

I refuse to be pushed out of the forums or stop posting on this thread just because one poster doesn't like me. There is room for everyone. Just please stop with the personal attacks. Just because you don't use my name doesn't mean I don't know they are directed at me. And stop making stuff up about me. I am not bullying or trolling anyone. If anything it's the other way around.
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Don't worry about him. He keeps accusing others of attacking his character and threatening to leave the forums, only to not go through with it. It seems that he just likes the drama, best to just ignore him.
 
Affable said:
I have a right to defend myself and that is what I am doing.

I seriously have no idea what your problem with me is though. You only reply to my posts if you have something negative to say.
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I have no problem with you personally. I have a problem with people trying to create drama and then throwing a tantrum when they are called out for it.
 
sav0001 said:
Don't worry about him. He keeps accusing others of attacking his character and threatens to leave the forums, only to not go through with it. It seems that he just likes the drama, best to just ignore him.
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Once again. What is your problem with me? I have done nothing to you but you have hated me since Day 1.
 
sav0001 said:
I have no problem with you personally. I have a problem with people trying to create drama and then throwing a tantrum when they are called out for it.
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Are you sure about that? Seems personal and this has been from when I first joined the forum
 
sav0001 said:
Don't worry about him. He keeps accusing others of attacking his character and threatening to leave the forums, only to not go through with it. It seems that he just likes the drama, best to just ignore him.
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Yeah, I normally do but I felt the need to stand up for myself in case people actually believe what he is saying about me.
 
Why does it have to come to this? People should just have fun and post about tv shit, life is too short for forum wars.
I'm not saying everyone has to get along (though I think I manage to get along with everyone with minimum effort), but it should never get personal and no one has to leave the forum or stop posting.
 
Meglos said:
Why does it have to come to this? People should just have fun and post about tv shit, life is too short for forum wars.
I'm not saying everyone has to get along (though I think I manage to get along with everyone with minimum effort), but it should never get personal and no one has to leave the forum or stop posting.
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I did not start this. I made an observation: “I can’t see the thread because ignored people sometimes post”. I then get personally attacked by 2 forum members and get called obsessive and paranoid. I am actually sad at the moment due to the insults I received.
 
Affable said:
I did not start this. I made an observation: “I can’t see the thread because ignored people sometimes post”. I then get personally attacked by 2 forum members and get called obsessive and paranoid. I am actually sad at the moment due to the insults I received.
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Hopefully the genius of Ali will make you feel better.
 
Affable said:
I did not start this. I made an observation: “I can’t see the thread because ignored people sometimes post”. I then get personally attacked by 2 forum members and get called obsessive and paranoid. I am actually sad at the moment due to the insults I received.
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I am sorry that you are upset (no, really, I do consider you a forum friend and it bothers me when you get so clearly upset).
If I could give you any advice it would be not to take forum comments so much to heart, because I'm pretty sure the posters who inadvertently upset you do not hate or dislike you, they were probably just meant as throwaway comments which unfortunately have gone on to upset you. But please don't feel that everyone is against you, I don't think that's the case at all.
 
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