R U OK?

[iJake]

Hope you are all doing AOK and R OK xxxxxx

Agreed. I don't really come in this thread because I find it hard to read sad things a lot of the time, but I just went over the last few pages and I just want to give everyone going through any sort of rough time a huge hug. I didn't want to "like" people's posts or do a big round up collection of quotes because it seemed a bit insensitive in a way, but yeah. I hope everyone is doing the best they can. xx

 

[Fiona]

I have always thought that the 'like' button is very inappropriately named at times. You want to acknowledge the post but liking it is not right. Sometimes of course it's spot on and I know we have talked at length about it ages ago. I tend to get in touch via pm if I don't want to like it but let them know I 'get' it but want to say, hey, I'm available to listen if you want to vent, or something along those lines. You know what I mean.

 

[Deleted member 39902]

Agreed. I don't really come in this thread because I find it hard to read sad things a lot of the time, but I just went over the last few pages and I just want to give everyone going through any sort of rough time a huge hug. I didn't want to "like" people's posts or do a big round up collection of quotes because it seemed a bit insensitive in a way, but yeah. I hope everyone is doing the best they can. xx

THIS. I couldn't have said it better.

 

[Fiona]

I'm ok but Dad isn't. He's being admitted this evening, quite unexpectedly quicker than anticipated, for tests and maybe his first bout of chemo for his cancer. We were given to believe that it was a retro peritoneal sarcoma which is a rare and aggressive cancer but it's not as bad, easily treatable, also aggressive as it's grown a lot. Grapefruit size I reckon. It's a form of lymphoma. I start three night shifts tonight so won't see him until the weekend. As I still have a bit of a cold going it's probably a good thing to stay away. My little 81 year old is in for a bit of a slog that will knock him around. He's been through a bit already in the diagnostic stage. Those sides of it drag out, don't they. So, for those of you who care to have a prayer or a few kinds words, it would be greatly appreciated.

 

[Gemini]

I'm ok but Dad isn't. He's being admitted this evening, quite unexpectedly quicker than anticipated, for tests and maybe his first bout of chemo for his cancer. We were given to believe that it was a retro peritoneal sarcoma which is a rare and aggressive cancer but it's not as bad, easily treatable, also aggressive as it's grown a lot. Grapefruit size I reckon. It's a form of lymphoma. I start three night shifts tonight so won't see him until the weekend. As I still have a bit of a cold going it's probably a good thing to stay away. My little 81 year old is in for a bit of a slog that will knock him around. He's been through a bit already in the diagnostic stage. Those sides of it drag out, don't they. So, for those of you who care to have a prayer or a few kinds words, it would be greatly appreciated.

I'm so sorry to hear this. He's in my prayers and I really hope he's okay xo

*hugs*

 

[SeanE]

Home Sick with a cold, having 2 days off work... (Yay?)

 

[Insomniac]

So - someone broke into my house today between the time I left for work and when hubby got home at midday.
They tore out the security screen and bent back the whole window frame - totally effed it up to get in.
Worst of all, into my son's bedroom.
They were after easy things, I imagine they were in a hurry because my dogs would have been going apeshit.
Lucky we don't keep a lot of cash and I don't have a lot of expensive jewellery etc.
It's just vile though them going through all our drawers and tossing things everywhere.
Anyway - took my son's pocket money, he'd saved up nearly $200, my Emporio Armani watch, and my Samsung Tablet . Also, in a jewellery box I had a few American coins that I kept as a memento of the trip to the US I took when I was 11 - last one as a family before my father died. It would have been about $2 worth foreign - what kind of people take that?!
Feels really icky right now, not feeling right in your own house is a horrible feeling.

 

[Insomniac]

I'm ok but Dad isn't. He's being admitted this evening, quite unexpectedly quicker than anticipated, for tests and maybe his first bout of chemo for his cancer. We were given to believe that it was a retro peritoneal sarcoma which is a rare and aggressive cancer but it's not as bad, easily treatable, also aggressive as it's grown a lot. Grapefruit size I reckon. It's a form of lymphoma. I start three night shifts tonight so won't see him until the weekend. As I still have a bit of a cold going it's probably a good thing to stay away. My little 81 year old is in for a bit of a slog that will knock him around. He's been through a bit already in the diagnostic stage. Those sides of it drag out, don't they. So, for those of you who care to have a prayer or a few kinds words, it would be greatly appreciated.

I hope your dad is doing okay, wishing all the best for him. Keep your chin up x

 

[Columbo]

So - someone broke into my house today between the time I left for work and when hubby got home at midday.
They tore out the security screen and bent back the whole window frame - totally effed it up to get in.
Worst of all, into my son's bedroom.
They were after easy things, I imagine they were in a hurry because my dogs would have been going apeshit.
Lucky we don't keep a lot of cash and I don't have a lot of expensive jewellery etc.
It's just vile though them going through all our drawers and tossing things everywhere.
Anyway - took my son's pocket money, he'd saved up nearly $200, my Emporio Armani watch, and my Samsung Tablet . Also, in a jewellery box I had a few American coins that I kept as a memento of the trip to the US I took when I was 11 - last one as a family before my father died. It would have been about $2 worth foreign - what kind of people take that?!
Feels really icky right now, not feeling right in your own house is a horrible feeling.

I am so sorry that happened to you and your family, @Insomniac. Only a complete and utter vermin with no regard for other people would break into someone's home and steal stuff.

 

[hooleydooley]

So - someone broke into my house today between the time I left for work and when hubby got home at midday.
They tore out the security screen and bent back the whole window frame - totally effed it up to get in.
Worst of all, into my son's bedroom.
They were after easy things, I imagine they were in a hurry because my dogs would have been going apeshit.
Lucky we don't keep a lot of cash and I don't have a lot of expensive jewellery etc.
It's just vile though them going through all our drawers and tossing things everywhere.
Anyway - took my son's pocket money, he'd saved up nearly $200, my Emporio Armani watch, and my Samsung Tablet . Also, in a jewellery box I had a few American coins that I kept as a memento of the trip to the US I took when I was 11 - last one as a family before my father died. It would have been about $2 worth foreign - what kind of people take that?!
Feels really icky right now, not feeling right in your own house is a horrible feeling.

That TOTALLY Sucks - fricking scumbags!!!!! I always get pissed off when I hear stuff like this! CUT OFF THEIR HANDS!!!!!!!!

 

[Fiona]

I hope your dad is doing okay, wishing all the best for him. Keep your chin up x

Thankyou. He had his chemo on Monday. I've heard that it went well. I'll see him today. Yes, it's not at all a nice feeling to know that your home, your sanctum has been violated. Apart from the US coins, things can be replaced and no-one got hurt. Hoping that all feels back to normal soon.

 

[jessy_girl]

Sorry to hear @Insomniac - definitely you're lucky it wasn't worse but I can imagine it's such an awful feeling having your security compromised. What's the deal with police or insurance here? Can they do much to help you?

Thinking of you @Khun Khun - all the best for Monday and the months ahead.

 

[Tuxie]

So - someone broke into my house today between the time I left for work and when hubby got home at midday.
They tore out the security screen and bent back the whole window frame - totally effed it up to get in.
Worst of all, into my son's bedroom.
They were after easy things, I imagine they were in a hurry because my dogs would have been going apeshit.
Lucky we don't keep a lot of cash and I don't have a lot of expensive jewellery etc.
It's just vile though them going through all our drawers and tossing things everywhere.
Anyway - took my son's pocket money, he'd saved up nearly $200, my Emporio Armani watch, and my Samsung Tablet . Also, in a jewellery box I had a few American coins that I kept as a memento of the trip to the US I took when I was 11 - last one as a family before my father died. It would have been about $2 worth foreign - what kind of people take that?!
Feels really icky right now, not feeling right in your own house is a horrible feeling.

I'm so sorry to hear we had the same thing happen a while back, they trashed all mums drawers I guess looking for jewellery/money? Their bad luck mum only buys the costume stuff. It does make you feel icky being at home, I found it creepy to be home by myself for a while. We ended up getting window lock things and shoving planks of wood in the door frames when we were out.

 

[Insomniac]

Sorry to hear @Insomniac - definitely you're lucky it wasn't worse but I can imagine it's such an awful feeling having your security compromised. What's the deal with police or insurance here? Can they do much to help you?

Thinking of you @Khun Khun - all the best for Monday and the months ahead.

Police came, there were only smudges, no fingerprints.
We're insured, so everything will be covered including repair of the window, but there's still a $500 excess so we're still out of pocket. If it wasn't for the fact they ruined the window frame I wouldn't have even gone through insurance.

 

[Insomniac]

I'm so sorry to hear we had the same thing happen a while back, they trashed all mums drawers I guess looking for jewellery/money? Their bad luck mum only buys the costume stuff. It does make you feel icky being at home, I found it creepy to be home by myself for a while. We ended up getting window lock things and shoving planks of wood in the door frames when we were out.

We had security screens - only thing was the window was just closed, it wasn't key locked. Considering the damage they did I think if people want to get in they will. Sorry to hear that you were broken into too - there are always people wanting something for nothing! [DOUBLEPOST=1432081165][/DOUBLEPOST]

That TOTALLY Sucks - fricking scumbags!!!!! I always get pissed off when I hear stuff like this! CUT OFF THEIR HANDS!!!!!!!!

The thought of cutting their hands off makes me feel strangely better right now.

 

[Sweetgeek]

@Khun Khun, i hope all goes well for your dad x

 

[Mr Stickyfingers]

I'm ok but Dad isn't. He's being admitted this evening, quite unexpectedly quicker than anticipated, for tests and maybe his first bout of chemo for his cancer. We were given to believe that it was a retro peritoneal sarcoma which is a rare and aggressive cancer but it's not as bad, easily treatable, also aggressive as it's grown a lot. Grapefruit size I reckon. It's a form of lymphoma. I start three night shifts tonight so won't see him until the weekend. As I still have a bit of a cold going it's probably a good thing to stay away. My little 81 year old is in for a bit of a slog that will knock him around. He's been through a bit already in the diagnostic stage. Those sides of it drag out, don't they. So, for those of you who care to have a prayer or a few kinds words, it would be greatly appreciated.

...oh wow Khun Khun... my heart feels for both you and your dad... I sure hope that things work out for the better for your dad... try not to let it get you down about it though... he will need you to be the positive one through this... stay strong my friend... cheers.

 

[Mr Stickyfingers]

So - someone broke into my house today between the time I left for work and when hubby got home at midday.
They tore out the security screen and bent back the whole window frame - totally effed it up to get in.
Worst of all, into my son's bedroom.
They were after easy things, I imagine they were in a hurry because my dogs would have been going apeshit.
Lucky we don't keep a lot of cash and I don't have a lot of expensive jewellery etc.
It's just vile though them going through all our drawers and tossing things everywhere.
Anyway - took my son's pocket money, he'd saved up nearly $200, my Emporio Armani watch, and my Samsung Tablet . Also, in a jewellery box I had a few American coins that I kept as a memento of the trip to the US I took when I was 11 - last one as a family before my father died. It would have been about $2 worth foreign - what kind of people take that?!
Feels really icky right now, not feeling right in your own house is a horrible feeling.

...oh that really sucks Insomniac!... that's a terrible thing to happen to someone... just a little bit of advice to everyone if you catch the mongrel in your house and you bash him unconscious... drag him outside onto the nature strip in the front of your house while he is still unconscious and then ring the cops to report that some hoons just bashed up a guy and that he may need some assistance... that way you can't be charged for it... he's not really going to tell them that it was you is he?... if he does he's admitting to the crime isn't he?... (I was once told this by a friend of mine that is a cop)...

...feeling icky about it in your own house is a horrible feeling but try not to let it get to you though otherwise it will do your head in... I bet that your son is really pissed off the poor thing... I feel for you all... cheers.

 

[Fiona]

AS

...oh wow Khun Khun... my heart feels for both you and your dad... I sure hope that things work out for the better for your dad... try not to let it get you down about it though... he will need you to be the positive one through this... stay strong my friend... cheers.

Thankyou. Everything is going well. Not a lot of nausea and certainly no vomiting. That may happen in future cycles. No idea of course. His hair will start falling out soon but as he's going bald it's not going to be a worry. He wants a beret. Most pretentious head gear ever I reckon. I'm the one keeping on at him to take his meds. Poor man and here's him thinking that my sister is the bossy one. She's been quite ill with her Crohn's for a few days so hasn't been to see him. Not out of the woods yet, but all's looking good so far.

 

[Oswin]

AS
Thankyou. Everything is going well. Not a lot of nausea and certainly no vomiting. That may happen in future cycles. No idea of course. His hair will start falling out soon but as he's going bald it's not going to be a worry. He wants a beret. Most pretentious head gear ever I reckon. I'm the one keeping on at him to take his meds. Poor man and here's him thinking that my sister is the bossy one. She's been quite ill with her Crohn's for a few days so hasn't been to see him. Not out of the woods yet, but all's looking good so far.

I’m so sorry that you and the family are going through this. It’s good to hear that it’s going well though. Family it just so precious, and I do hope things turn out for the best.

Can I just say though…I love that he wants a beret! Making the most of it, and definitely a sign of humour coming through (you go, dad).

Look after yourself too, @Khun Khun . It’s not easy, and I’m sending positive well-wishes your way. x