hooleydooley
Well-Known Member
Look, how many of you lot have been cheated on? How many of you have worn those shoes?
I'll share a story ...... around 20 years ago, my ex husband cheated and left me devastated - at the time. Turned out to be the best thing for all involved. Yeah, it was hurtful, yeah, it was soul destroying and most importantly it made me look at why it happened and what I could do to make MY life positive, after the fact.
Needless to say, my Ex and the 'Mistress' are still together and very, very happy together and I am happy for that. We can all talk, if it comes about. I hold no malice. I am glad, because in the end I learned more about myself than I could have ever imagined and they are happy together. Sometimes I wish I was the person that introduced them to each other!
Sometimes, people don't really see what each other really needs in a relationship to make both be happy. I am not saying - hey, it is ok to go with your feelings and go on a fuckarama - BUT I understand the temptation that sometimes life presents to you, especially if you feel you are missing something in the relationship, that is ultimately what is missing in thyself.
I wish all parties involved in this spun out time in their lives, the ability to see that there will be something bigger and better coming their way, for the learning experience is what this all seems to be about ...........
Now - I am going to repost this on every Lawson/Clawson/Cat Thread -LOL!!!!
I'll share a story ...... around 20 years ago, my ex husband cheated and left me devastated - at the time. Turned out to be the best thing for all involved. Yeah, it was hurtful, yeah, it was soul destroying and most importantly it made me look at why it happened and what I could do to make MY life positive, after the fact.
Needless to say, my Ex and the 'Mistress' are still together and very, very happy together and I am happy for that. We can all talk, if it comes about. I hold no malice. I am glad, because in the end I learned more about myself than I could have ever imagined and they are happy together. Sometimes I wish I was the person that introduced them to each other!
Sometimes, people don't really see what each other really needs in a relationship to make both be happy. I am not saying - hey, it is ok to go with your feelings and go on a fuckarama - BUT I understand the temptation that sometimes life presents to you, especially if you feel you are missing something in the relationship, that is ultimately what is missing in thyself.
I wish all parties involved in this spun out time in their lives, the ability to see that there will be something bigger and better coming their way, for the learning experience is what this all seems to be about ...........
Now - I am going to repost this on every Lawson/Clawson/Cat Thread -LOL!!!!