I wasn't going to post this because its not really my place to say but its a bit mean to talk about your pm's in the public forum without the other person's consent
Well, it really was never my intention to post about it publicly, hence the first post where I was saying something like I wish there was a place to gossip about people. It was only after everyone seemed eager to hear it that I spoke about it... and even then I was quite reluctant to say anything too explicit, as you will see from the way I wrote that post.
But I do agree, and I feel a bit bad, but eh, there's nothing I can do about that now.