In that interview, Sam said that their was some allegation that Aisha thought the oil being squirted on her was like Sam was ejaculating on her back... Did I hear that correctly?
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Cat was cheated on
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starstruck
Is Nobbi still in the Kombie?
I believe you are right though, I have been cheated on recently and am still devastated by what has happened. I am lost and depressed and have lost my zest for life. I am a mess and truly hope I can feel happy again soon. I myself would never want to put that pain on another person. I do not understand how Cat could knowingly do this when she understands the pain and embarrassment being cheated on brings. Please never cheat on your loved ones. Talk to them, break up with them, but do not sleep with another person if you are in a committed relationship. If you love them they do not deserve this pain.
Summerz
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Sam was just talking shit. She didn't say anything of that nature
Aisha > Tahan
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Dear Starstruck, thank you for sharing. My heart goes out to you. Hang in there ... no matter how awful the feeling, it does have a shelf life and won't last forever. The heart has a built-in healing mechanism.
Your advice about not cheating is sage. If you absolutely must sleep with another person, have the courage to inform your partner and either break up first or come to an open agreement or understanding.
Secrets and lies serve no other purpose than to create suffering for all involved.
melaniee-jane
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So sorry you had to go through that
. I went through the same thing last year and I can promise you that there is a light at the end of this tunnel! There is no doubt in my mind you will be happy again, it's just bullshit that we go through these things and it takes away a portion of our lives trying to wrap our head around it and move on. I 100% thought I would never move on, and so did my psychologist! But here I am! Just keep on trying, I promise you will get that zest back, and you'll be better than ever! 
In regards to cat, I can't understand how after being in the position of being betrayed that she would EVER be involved in a situation like this. It's pathetic and really does blow my mind
I was thinking, yeah I can see what I did like him, then it gets to the Aisha shut.
'All we did was pore shampoo over her head, grow up.'
So who was being immature there?
Not to mention it was way more extensive, we saw video of her being upset during it. She mentioned being hit on the head.
Who cares if he would have done the same to the next.
'All we did was pore shampoo over her head, grow up.'
So who was being immature there?
Not to mention it was way more extensive, we saw video of her being upset during it. She mentioned being hit on the head.
Who cares if he would have done the same to the next.
Maybe, just maybe, he has a modicum of self respect and isn't going to throw himself into the middle of the soul sucking media circus. How refreshing!!
starstruck
Is Nobbi still in the Kombie?
So sorry you had to go through that
In regards to cat, I can't understand how after being in the position of being betrayed that she would EVER be involved in a situation like this. It's pathetic and really does blow my mind
Thank you both very much for you kind words
I hope the pain goes soon.
pawlini
I've got the power
But if someone was claiming on national television that they were cheated on by you and you knew for a fact it was them cheating wouldn't you want people to know? It's like stab you while you are down.Maybe, just maybe, he has a modicum of self respect and isn't going to throw himself into the middle of the soul sucking media circus. How refreshing!!
Maybe he doesn't want anyone who doesn't already know that he was associated with that trainwreck in the first place?
kappuccino
I need to return some video tapes.
littlebear
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To come out of the house labelled not only a cheater and a "homewrecker," but also as rumoured toe-sex enthusiasts. Good luck to them both. 
kappuccino
I need to return some video tapes.
pawlini
I've got the power
hmm I think someone is trying to discredit Lawson, they don't act like people who have gone that far. For her to say "I still have feelings for you" well you let him eat you out, obviously you have feelings for him. I dont buy it.
Uluwatu
Active Member
I watched my sister go through he same thing. A ten year relationship ending in heartbreak was devastating for her. That was three years ago, she is now bigger, better, stronger and smarter than ever so you will get through this. It says more about the other person than you. Good luck with your recovery
Cat's behaviour does not seem so bizarre to me. I think for women who are cheated on, their life after that event goes one if two ways - they close up and fight on or they go bat shit crazy. I bet the woman that Cat's husband cheated on her with is somewhat like she person she is behaving as on BB. It's like Cat is trying to fulfil this sexy, temptress, goddess type character that we can plainly see is not the real person she is. She has such a gentle, timid nature (despite the boundaries that she's continually crossing) so the vamp character she is portraying just doesn't suit her. It seems forced or contrived.
This probably makes zero sense but I guess what I am trying to say is that it seems like maybe she's becoming the woman that her husband cheated on her with? Perhaps she feels that other Cat (married Cat) is undesirable? She seems very lost to me.
Disclaimer: none of this makes their behaviour ok!
starstruck
Is Nobbi still in the Kombie?
Thanks very muchI watched my sister go through he same thing. A ten year relationship ending in heartbreak was devastating for her. That was three years ago, she is now bigger, better, stronger and smarter than ever so you will get through this. It says more about the other person than you. Good luck with your recovery
Cat's behaviour does not seem so bizarre to me. I think for women who are cheated on, their life after that event goes one if two ways - they close up and fight on or they go bat shit crazy. I bet the woman that Cat's husband cheated on her with is somewhat like she person she is behaving as on BB. It's like Cat is trying to fulfil this sexy, temptress, goddess type character that we can plainly see is not the real person she is. She has such a gentle, timid nature (despite the boundaries that she's continually crossing) so the vamp character she is portraying just doesn't suit her. It seems forced or contrived.
This probably makes zero sense but I guess what I am trying to say is that it seems like maybe she's becoming the woman that her husband cheated on her with? Perhaps she feels that other Cat (married Cat) is undesirable? She seems very lost to me.
Disclaimer: none of this makes their behaviour ok!
Veronica2005
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I don't think Cats ex-husband is aware yet that Cat told Sam/HM's that she was cheated on. I doubt he's watching Luke's interview with Sam?
from Cat's BB bio
On the stigma attached to divorce:
I hate telling people I was only married for a year. You find yourself trying to justify it just to meet people’s expectations. I know what I had and I know why it ended, and it ended for reasons that it had to. I’m not ashamed of it, but telling people can be embarrassing.