First and foremost, no one can make you feel or look dumb without you first giving your consent. And in my opinion, Skye certainly didn't give her consent. In fact I feel she stood her ground and used her words well to express how she was feeling.
I think it bothered me that you seem to choose not to make Skye the victor in this situation. As an outsider looking in, I feel she handled the situation and handled it well given her age and life experience. You seem to choose to see her as a broken little bird with ADHD, who needs protecting. Skye proved last night she can look after herself.
After last nights show, and seeing this new layer to Skye, I personally like her more.