You should have put your plate of food in front of your baby just for another reaction haha. Or better yet, pretend you had given her some chocolate sauce. My grandmothers basic rule was if my child was looking at me eating and showed signs of wanting to eat the way we were, then it was not too early. There is no such thing. Some children will walk at 9 months, others at 18 months. Every child has their own speed and readiness, why people bother to comment drives me up the wall. Shut up and don't say anything at all. It's even more annoying when some people don't even know what it is like to have children and comment *rolls eyesOh boy! I'm apparently "guilty" of the same thing too. At about 3-4 months my daughter started watching us eat so I started to give her bits of our food and since she handled it fine and liked it I just kept doing it. My partner's mother went crazy at me (in the middle of a restaurant!) when she saw me doing it one day though. I just thought seriously?! It's not like I just chucked her a piece of steak and left her to her own devices...they were more bite dissolvable type foods anyway and she was supervised.
All kids are different and if you made the right call for yours (which it's obvious you did!) then who are people to judge?! That whole "lazy parenting" thing doesn't even make sense. I think it would be much more lazy to just leave them on baby foods and purees knowing that they were struggling with reflux instead of trying to find an alternative.
Exactly right about the lazy parenting concept btw