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qtkt said:
Yep, you're a shocking mob. I'm here to bash a bible over your heads and convert you to my way of thinking - the ONLY right way. (Actually some of it - and only some - is a little blue for my taste but I happily just scroll past) I love the friendship and camaraderie shown here and while there be some disagreement and some people really speak their mind, nastiness is extremely rare. Luvs you all just how you are and I hope you take me the same way.[DOUBLEPOST=1411448833][/DOUBLEPOST]
Love you too mut.
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Father D is short for Father darling and she is the coolest priest goin around!!!!

Love ya Father d

And Hi Muts hope the Hols are going well!
 
G'day all, didja know it's Bisexual awareness week? At least it is in the US, but this is the kind of week that I'll happily roll with. I celebrated by eating cake and once again considering coming out to my parents, but I'm still too chicken-shit. Sometimes I think I'll be off and married to some girl before they even have a clue...
 
Illabeth said:
G'day all, didja know it's Bisexual awareness week? At least it is in the US, but this is the kind of week that I'll happily roll with. I celebrated by eating cake and once again considering coming out to my parents, but I'm still too chicken-shit. Sometimes I think I'll be off and married to some girl before they even have a clue...
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No, I didn't know that! Hope it gets people talking & thinking. Sorry to hear that you can't be open with your parents, and just be you. I'm not a big talker with my parents, but I am trying my absolute hardest to have an open & honest relationship with both of my kids & break the if I don't talk about it it didn't happen cycle.
 
Illabeth said:
G'day all, didja know it's Bisexual awareness week? At least it is in the US, but this is the kind of week that I'll happily roll with. I celebrated by eating cake and once again considering coming out to my parents, but I'm still too chicken-shit. Sometimes I think I'll be off and married to some girl before they even have a clue...
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See, this breaks my heart. I dream of a day when people can just bring a new beau home and gender isn't even an issue to consider. You'd be more worried that your parents wouldn't like the way she eats with her mouth full or something stupid like that. I pray for a day when no-one has to come out because sexual orientation just doesn't bloody matter. I'm a mum but it hasn't been an issue with my boys as they're both straight. However they know my views and they used to bring their gay mates to me support when they were contemplating coming out to their parents. I don't have much of a "gaydar" (cause I reckon the only valid reason for it to be any of your bloody business is if you are keen on them or them on you - so I don't need to know 'cause I'm off the market) but having said that - as a priest- I have watched people sizing me up to see if they can trust me and building themselves up to coming out to me. I try to make it as easy for them as I can but it makes my blood boil that the problem even exists.
 
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MADONNA said:
That is totally @Trala

@Consuela needs to bring ha glasses

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@Lucas providing entertainment at the reception

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@the Theorist and date

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@Miiiiike enjoying the festivities

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I had fun too

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bonus @el'coopo , @penelopepitstop and @jessy_girl

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hahahahahahaha Gold![DOUBLEPOST=1411452707][/DOUBLEPOST]
qtkt said:
See, this breaks my heart. I dream of a day when people can just bring a new beau home and gender isn't even an issue to consider. You'd be more worried that your parents wouldn't like the way she eats with her mouth full or something stupid like that. I pray for a day when no-one has to come out because sexual orientation just doesn't bloody matter. I'm a mum but it hasn't been an issue with my boys as they're both straight. However they know my views and they used to bring their gay mates to me support when they were contemplating coming out to their parents. I don't have much of a "gaydar" (cause I reckon the only valid reason for it to be any of your bloody business is if you are keen on them or them on you - so I don't need to know 'cause I'm off the market) but having said that - as a priest- I have watched people sizing me up to see if they can trust me and building themselves up to coming out to me. I try to make it as easy for them as I can but it makes my blood boil that the problem even exists.
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Beautifully said Father D :)
 
el'coopo said:
No, I didn't know that! Hope it gets people talking & thinking. Sorry to hear that you can't be open with your parents, and just be you. I'm not a big talker with my parents, but I am trying my absolute hardest to have an open & honest relationship with both of my kids & break the if I don't talk about it it didn't happen cycle.
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I wish I could be more open with my parents, but even since I was a teenager I've never really talked about anything with them, I just don't feel comfortable. They weren't around much when I was little, always working and I don't know, I love them dearly but I'm just so scared that they won't accept it, or think I'm lying or mock me. I think that the biggest fear is that they won't think bisexuality is a real thing, and brush it aside or worse. I kinda tested the waters with my uncle by joking about marrying a girl and he was like "you know what I think about them" and I honestly nearly died inside. He is my favourite Uncle, more like a dad to me and I love him to pieces and my heart kinda shattered that day because I have no idea what will happen if I do end up marrying a girl. It was even worse 'cause I never got the vibe that he was anything less than completely okay with it the idea of it all. All my close friends know, and I've told one of my cousins that I'm very close to (the other live overseas or are really too young) and my sister knows, but not my parents. I know one day I'll be able to tell them, I'm just not ready yet for some of the possible scenarios if they do end up playing out.

The whole situation has certainly affected how I will parent my own children, for sure.
 
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