Benjamin HM 2012 - Officially joins Behind Big Brother.

I think it would be best to take the discussion between Estelle and I offline and get back to discussing things which ARE interesting. I am going to continue with Scoopla and get you all involved. I think each week we will get a BBB question involved and make us all have a voice. It's not self promotion. It is simply a passion and a job. Something I want each and everyone one of you to be included with. Let's find out where live updates have gone and ask the good questions. With the guys when they get evicted. I am sorry Estelle was so badly affected. But there is a point where we move on. She may have been better in another series but the one we know is all that we will ever know. So I want to move fwd positively and effectively. Estelle move fwd answering fun questions and have a good time on here. Don't get bogged down in the things we can not change.
 
Poona said:
Ben, two more questions have come to me if you don't mind answering.

Looking back over your time in the house apart from winning is there something that you look back on as being a favourite above all others? Whether it be something that happened on a particular day, or a certain task you did or whatever.

Also out of everyone that left the house, was their one whose departure rocked you the most and you wish had got to stay longer?
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I loved the task that had everyone involved - where we won or succeeded. End of of house 2 or the cake fight. Back at the start when we were all there were the best moments.
 
Benjamin2012HM said:
I think it would be best to take the discussion between Estelle and I offline and get back to discussing things which ARE interesting. I am going to continue with Scoopla and get you all involved. I think each week we will get a BBB question involved and make us all have a voice. It's not self promotion. It is simply a passion and a job. Something I want each and everyone one of you to be included with. Let's find out where live updates have gone and ask the good questions. With the guys when they get evicted. I am sorry Estelle was so badly affected. But there is a point where we move on. She may have been better in another series but the one we know is all that we will ever know. So I want to move fwd positively and effectively. Estelle move fwd answering fun questions and have a good time on here. Don't get bogged down in the things we can not change.
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You were VERY HAPPY to discuss Estelle until she got here and put you under the microscope and put the record straight. She has proven you a LIAR.

You're going back to discussing things that are interesting? That's interesting because the only thing really interesting about you was your vile, behaviour in the house. Without that what's there to talk about?

"She may have been better in another series but the one we know is all that we will ever know." Passive aggressive and bitchy much? You would have been better off TV ALTOGETHER! No one needs to be subjected to seeing you bully people on TV ever again.
 
Estelle.Landy said:
Yes, I can be described as a very passionate person in reference to particular topics. The times you would hear me speak up in the house and have something to say was mostly to do with any of the following topics:
Racist jokes, sexism, homophobia, talk of cruelty to animals and general bitching and nastiness.

There was a particular dinner table conversation that was completely aimed at me to try and attack my views about some previous racist jokes that were said...

The same dinner table convo went on to talk about the necessity for gossip or not.. How I didn't find it tolerable - on any platform.

The others argued that I had no sense of humour and was trying to be difficult by clear stating that I didn't think there was EVER, EVER a platform where jokes that were based at the expense of others, were funny.
- This then alienated me because I was different to the so called "general consensus ".....

Maybe I would have done better as a contestant.. But I was not ever there to win and there's only so much noise one person can make on their own... I was strong and I was resilient. But one person can only take so much tireless standing up on their own..

It's not all doom and gloom, just addressing the Qu.
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Just as I suspected. That bullying filth was worse than Alex wanted everybody in Australia to find out. Pathetic.
 
Tuttle said:
Therapy can be helpful I've heard.
2 years, let go.
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Stop everyone picking on @TALENTstanner and claiming he has mental problems. He just has a different point of view to you and I can understand exactly how he feels about Ben. And it's a Big Brother forum after all where fans will become passionate. It is a popularity contest where we vote on personalities.

Just because it's been 2 years doesn't mean the feelings and upset have changed. Estelle still has the pain. It was a very unpleasant season. You might say it's just a TV show but this was about real human beings and their actions. They are not just some TV character who doesn't exist anymore when the show is done.
 
TALENTstanner said:
You were VERY HAPPY to discuss Estelle until she got here and put you under the microscope and put the record straight. She has proven you a LIAR.

You're going back to discussing things that are interesting? That's interesting because the only thing really interesting about you was your vile, behaviour in the house. Without that what's there to talk about?

"She may have been better in another series but the one we know is all that we will ever know." Passive aggressive and bitchy much? You would have been better off TV ALTOGETHER! No one needs to be subjected to seeing you bully people on TV ever again.
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Seriously get out from under the bridge and seek some professional help.
 
Thank you for that post. I can only see 'Tuttle's' posts when someone quotes him because i have had him blocked for days. He signed up to this forum, not to talk to Ben, but to troll me. I think it might be Ben's partner or someone that knows him. The irony that he is accusing ME of being the troll.

I'm also really dissappointed that these grown adults are telling me to go seek help for going against bullies and bullying when i've already been to counselling for years for mental scars left on me after being bullied at school.
 
Don't call people filth please. It's not a nice thing for anybody to hear.

I seriously think I must've been watching an alternate version of bb2012 by the way people are carrying on. I thought it was a great season!?! Lol

Hey Ben.. Thanks for coming on here :) looking forward to finding out what the hell they were thinking by not doing live updates!! It's not too late BB!!!
 
Lucas said:
Stop everyone picking on @TALENTstanner and claiming he has mental problems. He just has a different point of view to you and I can understand exactly how he feels about Ben. And it's a Big Brother forum after all where fans will become passionate. It is a popularity contest where we vote on personalities.

Just because it's been 2 years doesn't mean the feelings and upset have changed. Estelle still has the pain. It was a very unpleasant season. You might say it's just a TV show but this was about real human beings and their actions. They are not just some TV character who doesn't exist anymore when the show is done.
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But you can do your bitching in Estelle's thread now. If you and that other poster keep on and on in this one it just lets everyone else know that you are the bullies.
See, I'm trying to be helpful to both of you. :)[DOUBLEPOST=1410955358][/DOUBLEPOST]
 
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Estelle.Landy said:
Yes, I can be described as a very passionate person in reference to particular topics. The times you would hear me speak up in the house and have something to say was mostly to do with any of the following topics:
Racist jokes, sexism, homophobia, talk of cruelty to animals and general bitching and nastiness.

There was a particular dinner table conversation that was completely aimed at me to try and attack my views about some previous racist jokes that were said...

The same dinner table convo went on to talk about the necessity for gossip or not.. How I didn't find it tolerable - on any platform.

The others argued that I had no sense of humour and was trying to be difficult by clear stating that I didn't think there was EVER, EVER a platform where jokes that were based at the expense of others, were funny.
- This then alienated me because I was different to the so called "general consensus ".....

Maybe I would have done better as a contestant.. But I was not ever there to win and there's only so much noise one person can make on their own... I was strong and I was resilient. But one person can only take so much tireless standing up on their own..

It's not all doom and gloom, just addressing the Qu.
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Thank you for answering my question. I hope that the (seemingly) ongoing issues can be laid to rest some day.
 
TALENTstanner said:
Thank you for that post. I can only see 'Tuttle's' posts when someone quotes him because i have had him blocked for days. He signed up to this forum, not to talk to Ben, but to troll me. I think it might be Ben's partner or someone that knows him. The irony that he is accusing ME of being the troll.

I'm also really dissappointed that these grown adults are telling me to go seek help for going against bullies and bullying when i've already been to counselling for years for mental scars left on me after being bullied at school.
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See, mentioning that you've blocked me just proves what a passive aggressive bully you are. I wouldn't bother telling anyone who annoyed me enough to block them that I have.
 
Tuttle said:
But you can do your bitching in Estelle's thread now. If you and that other poster keep on and on in this one it just lets everyone else know that you are the bullies.
See, I'm trying to be helpful to both of you. :)
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Lucas said:
Stop everyone picking on @TALENTstanner and claiming he has mental problems. He just has a different point of view to you and I can understand exactly how he feels about Ben. And it's a Big Brother forum after all where fans will become passionate. It is a popularity contest where we vote on personalities.

Just because it's been 2 years doesn't mean the feelings and upset have changed. Estelle still has the pain. It was a very unpleasant season. You might say it's just a TV show but this was about real human beings and their actions. They are not just some TV character who doesn't exist anymore when the show is done.
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No cause he is doing what he is complaining about, he is a hypocritical troll that needs to seek help.
 
Benjamin2012HM said:
I loved the task that had everyone involved - where we won or succeeded. End of of house 2 or the cake fight. Back at the start when we were all there were the best moments.
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Ah yes! The great cake fight. That really was a highlight. Someone even fell over. Forget who it was though.
 
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