It was just someone elses 'hater' comment that i had issue with because i don't hate any person, but i don't totally love them either. I enjoyed the show and this forum and have stuck around because of that but i'm not really invested in any of them.. All good xx
Thanks for the scans!
haha! So true. This one made me laugh too:
Many of us bought into it. I sure as hell did too and that's a scary thought if I ponder it too long. But at least you can say you started to question what we were being shown after hearing what other HMs had to say about her because I didn't even cotton on to that until Tim said what he did. I always just chalked it up to either the others only being in the house for a short period of time or not seeing everything we did or them playing nice. Actually I think her reaction to Tahan when she came back in to suck Drew's face off also made me stop for a minute because I wasn't aware that they were particularly close all in the house so I was like where the f did that come from?! And I hope this isn't misinterpreted by anyone but I was happy to hear that she had suffered so much in the house about her cheating. Not because I wanted her to be in pain but because one thing that kept bothering me about her, even now, is that when she first got out she used the excuse of how you're living in a bubble in the house and that didn't jive with me. I don't care if you're stuck in a cave in Afghanistan... if you're cheating, you're cheating and unless you're a sociopath, then you damn well know you are and it should be bothering you on some level even if you're enjoying it. So at least now that's been answered for me.
and it's usually those closest to you that cop it...That is where our similarities end though.benfrombrisbane
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My final Peter Alexander outfit! This is the first onesie I've ever owned! I felt like a kid again ��
Wow, thank you for this! This is really insightful about both her and yourself and it really helps to explain why most of the HMs and their friends/families/partners all appear to feel the same way about her. I almost feel like I should go back and rewatch BB now from the beginning with a fresh perspective on her behaviour as I just couldn't comprehend her while she was in the house at all. Thanks again Jo!my take on tully.
She gets along well with people and is very caring and considerate, but when she is feeling hurt (and she feels hurt easily) or feeling something strongly then it is all about her. I am very much the same. I worry about others, can be heartbroken over someone elses pain, can be really strong at times, but as soon as something happens that hurts me (happens easily and often) or i don't understand something, then i am overwhelmed and usually react badly, and i can't see past my own feelings in those moments. That is when i can be cutting towards someone else and I don't even realise i'm doing it or the effect it has on those around me.
So i'm sure the housemates loved her because when she wasn't being self absorbed by her own emotions, she probably was very empathetic and caring and fun. In other words, when she is good, she is very very good but when she is bad, she is horrid.
that's just the way i see it.
BAHAHAHAAAAA I didn't even notice that! Oh gosh I'm dying now.
