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Drew - she did it with you....

Miiiiike said:
Once a cheater, does not mean always a cheater.
I could go into more detail, with examples and such, but no ones mind is going to be changed by what they read here anyway.
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I agree with you, there's many reasons why cheating happens
Someone said before that she cheated basically because she craves attention... I don't know her personally so have no idea, but i think people who cheat for that reason will most likely do it again
Only Tully really knows why it happened and what she was thinking and feeling, but she did admit to 'emotional cheating' which says to me theres more to it
 
BBfan- said:
We don't know that she really did. She might have just not wanted to say "we're definitely over".
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I think that's playing it down a fair bit.
Like I said back before I think she needs a lot of attention and affection and she sought that out from Drew in the house, in fact she's said as much.
Back to reality on the outside.
 
Sorceress said:
Then why did she want to reconcile with Tahlia when she was evicted?
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Did she try to?

Sorry, I'm not questioning you... I've heard her say she spoke to her and i read a news report that she spoke to her but took no notice of weather she said she tried to work things out

I do believe it's possible to have feelings for 2 people at the same time, but I'd like to think that i would be the type of person to let both of them go until i figured out my own feelings.....i thought tully might do that, but doesn't look like it
 
Sorceress said:
I think that's playing it down a fair bit.
Like I said back before I think she needs a lot of attention and affection and she sought that out from Drew in the house, in fact she's said as much.
Back to reality on the outside.
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Well yeah, of course she would have wanted to talk to Tahlia about what was going to happen with them, but that doesn't mean she necessarily wanted to get back with her. Outside the house, she still has her friends for attention and affection, and it's not like she's going to have trouble finding a gf/bf if she doesn't want to wait for Drew to get evicted.
 
Sorceress said:
Then why did she want to reconcile with Tahlia when she was evicted?
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It is not uncommon once you have broken the relationship to have a last minute panic and want it back.

The prospect of being single again can sometimes feel terrifying initially. That is why so many stay in fucked up relationships.
 
babyblueeyes said:
Did she try to?
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Yes she did, she wanted to reconcile with her.
TraLa said:
It is not uncommon once you have broken the relationship to have a last minute panic and want it back.

The prospect of being single again can sometimes feel terrifying initially. That is why so many stay in fucked up relationships.
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I'd agree with this, which is why I think Tahlia tweeted what she did.
 
Dame said:
LOL well if Drew does get shipped off to work in Energy that could get very awkward....
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Haha, I keep imaging Tully in a small dusty mining town wearing the dress she wore last night, love or hate her, that is a funny image
 
Well, I for one think that they will be together and actually eventually have kids, that's what I think.
 
I actually think Drew is more fickle than she is, I'd give them a week or 2 before they start fighting and it'll all go downhill from there
 
Peverell said:
I actually think Drew is more fickle than she is, I'd give them a week or 2 before they start fighting and it'll all go downhill from there
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Totally. Everyone talks about how fucked up Tully is, but to use Tim's analogy, I think drew is certainly paying extra for the amount of baggage he's carrying. He seems terrified of not being tied to someone to me. The fact that he's been in relationship after relationship and rarely been single since a teenager raises alarm bells for me...especially since we've seen him attach himself from person to person in the house.
 
TraLa said:
You don't know that.

People who are in unfulfilled relationships cheat. People in healthy loving relationships stay strong and withstand the test of time. This is not a new concept.

I think the chances that Tully is capable of being one half of a healthy, loving relationship is unlikely without some sort of intervention. Yes, a lot of people cheat, but how many would do so knowing their partner was watching every second of it unfold on their TV every night? That takes a special breed of insensitive - regardless of the fulfillment of your relationship prior to going in.
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I think Drew's moral compass is set firmly facing 'groin north'.. so I don't think it'll take very long for him to move on either, just saying.
 
Insomniac said:
I think Drew's moral compass is set firmly facing 'groin north'.. so I don't think it'll take very long for him to move on either, just saying.
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It's funny you say that. I still remember the first time I started to turn off Drew. It was when he first started getting close to Tully and he was talking to her over the half-way house fence. He was talking about the girls in the house and saying he needed one of them for affection, like a "disposable girlfriend" I think he called it. He was going through all the girls, saying he wouldn't get it from Heidi and Mikkayla because they were in relationships, he said Tahan was "vile" so he didn't want it from her, Jade was into Ed, etc. The whole thing just made me seriously question how he saw women. Kinda like, "I only want them around if they can do what I need from them (affection)". He eventually he got that from Tully. So I do have to wonder if things will be the same on the outside when he no longer needs that affection from her.
 
None of us know what Tahlia was up to while Tully was in the house.
(Although Her #single girls come'at'me/come'eat'me tweets were quite telling)
It wasn't Televised
Twitter/Social Media break-ups are a sure sign that the "relationship" wasn't the most supportive, compassionate, loving, long-term relationship anyway.....
 
Gemini said:
It's funny you say that. I still remember the first time I started to turn off Drew. It was when he first started getting close to Tully and he was talking to her over the half-way house fence. He was talking about the girls in the house and saying he needed one of them for affection, like a "disposable girlfriend" I think he called it. He was going through all the girls, saying he wouldn't get it from Heidi and Mikkayla because they were in relationships, he said Tahan was "vile" so he didn't want it from her, Jade was into Ed, etc. The whole thing just made me seriously question how he saw women. Kinda like, "I only want them around if they can do what I need from them (affection)". He eventually he got that from Tully. So I do have to wonder if things will be the same on the outside when he no longer needs that affection from her.
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I was definitely turned off when he said that too but I gave it some thought and I give him credit for admitting it. A lot of people are like that (always need to be with someone) but don't know it's abnormal. He seems pretty self aware. I think if he was a 'real user he would know it and wouldn't be so honest about some things. Users try to hide it I would assume. Can't know how Drew is like for sure but he seems decent most of the time. It will be interesting to see if this will last.
 
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