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Housemate #5 TULLY!

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BBfan- said:
I don't even know what it is about her but I'm actually in love with her.
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X3. I think she’s fascinating! I don’t think I’ve ever had so many mixed feelings about anyone. She’s such a complex character with all her delusions and manipulations, yet she has this energy that’s captivating. However, I hate that she cheated and the way it all unfolded, as well as how she goes about it now like it’s not a big deal at all. If she didn’t cheat, she could have easily outlasted other boring housemates and gotten closer to the final. She was one of the biggest contributors to the house, but that Drully shit was getting out of hand and was pretty uncomfortable to watch. They became so consumed with one another that it just became boring.
 
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Miiiiike said:
It will be very interesting to see how it all unfolds, wether Tully ends up back with Tahlia, waits for Drew or ends up alone.
I just hope in the end that she is happy.

Tully is a heart breaker, there is no doubt about it, I think she would be a very difficult girl to tame, maybe that's what is so attractive about her.
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Tully does not require "taming", she requires therapy. Taming?? Spoken as only a male of the species could.
 
psykologist said:
Tully does not require "taming", she requires therapy. Taming?? Spoken as only a male of the species could.
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We have all been given the opportunity to focus on happy positive things (I.e we are free from her in the house) I don't understand why people still bother posting about her. Let's focus on those still in the game and let her threads die out

Side note: I agree with your viewpoint Psykologist
 
psykologist said:
Tully does not require "taming", she requires therapy. Taming?? Spoken as only a male of the species could.
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She is a free spirit. That does not require therapy.

Taming was probably the wrong word, but I'm sure a time will come when she is more ready to settle, though thats for her to decide when, not a therapist.
 
Miiiiike said:
She is a free spirit. That does not require therapy.

Taming was probably the wrong word, but I'm sure a time will come when she is more ready to settle, though thats for her to decide when, not a therapist.
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I guess we'll just have to disagree on that point since her behaviour indicates that she need some help to deal with why she is so needy, emotionally manipulative, & self-absorbed, why she so frequently feels victimized, & why she always blames things on others - that's not being a free spirit.

My main point, however, was your use of the word "tame". I just found it to be interesting & amusing & so obviously from a man. No woman I know would ever think of using that word (ask your wife what she thinks) . So did you "tame" your wife or did she tame you?
 
psykologist said:
My main point, however, was your use of the word "tame". I just found it to be interesting & amusing & so obviously from a man. No woman I know would ever think of using that word (ask your wife what she thinks) . So did you "tame" your wife or did she tame you?
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Tully is a lot like an emotional teenager in the way she acts, that is quite immature. I believe a time will come when she will "mature" and become a more "tame" version of herself. And yes I do feel that being with a more grounded and mature partner that that process would be sped up.

It's not just Tully, anyone, male or female.

Think about the 25-30 year old single people you know, then think of the 25-30 year old married or long term relationship people you know. Is one group not at least slightly more mature/tame/less wild than the other?

As for me and my wife, I'm 28, she's 26. I'm certain I'm a more matured version of myself (as a result of being with her), compared with if I had never met her. I would say the same about her. And yeah, I'd say it to her, as well as how I feel about Tully, she knows.
 
Chump said:
We have all been given the opportunity to focus on happy positive things (I.e we are free from her in the house) I don't understand why people still bother posting about her. Let's focus on those still in the game and let her threads die out

Side note: I agree with your viewpoint Psykologist
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I don't understand why you still bother posting about us posting about Tully and why I bother posting about you posting about us posting about Tully.
 
Sorceress said:
But you can't be in love with someone and not be attracted to them.
The fact that you want to make out with her indicates your attraction somewhat.
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Romantic love? You'd be right.

But I'm not attracted to my parents and brother but I love them passionately in a different kind of love.
 
Sorceress said:
But you can't be in love with someone and not be attracted to them.
The fact that you want to make out with her indicates your attraction somewhat.
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No,I just like making out with people haha. I have more desire to make out with Tully than some random person because I love her, but that's more of a psychological thing that I'd rather get into detail with privately. But I can give you an example: I think Tahan is gorgeous too but I'm not particularly interested in making out with her.
 
BBfan- said:
No,I just like making out with people haha. I have more desire to make out with Tully than some random person because I love her, but that's more of a psychological thing that I'd rather get into detail with privately. But I can give you an example: I think Tahan is gorgeous too but I'm not particularly interested in making out with her.
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Hmmm.
Yeah I'm the same with Tahan but that's because I don't pick up any gay in her, there's a spectrum and I think Tahan is on the über hetero side.
Tully is very....err bi.
Maybe you're infatuated? I don't think that has to have a sexual element.
 
Sorceress said:
Hmmm.
Yeah I'm the same with Tahan but that's because I don't pick up any gay in her, there's a spectrum and I think Tahan is on the über hetero side.
Tully is very....err bi.
Maybe you're infatuated? I don't think that has to have a sexual element.
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I think I really do love her though. I just don't have any sexual feelings towards anyone.
 
BBfan- said:
I think I really do love her though. I just don't have any sexual feelings towards anyone.
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Well nobody can discount your dedication to her.
And I feel like that sometimes, asexual people are very interesting.
I tend to the think Ben's pretty asexual too.
 
Sorceress said:
Well nobody can discount your dedication to her.
And I feel like that sometimes, asexual people are very interesting.
I tend to the think Ben's pretty asexual too.
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I don't think Ben is asexual. He's commented on the men's bodies lots of times. It's just that there are no other gay men (except Nathan now), so Ben couldn't really express his gay-ness.
 
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