Housemate #5 TULLY!

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Mrs Butterface said:
I just don't get how after reading this anyone could still be saying to vote for Tully. Tully haters maybe because they want to see her continue to dig a hole but surely not anyone who claims to be a fan or find her entertaining? It's just so selfish to me.
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some vague opinions of some event that might have happened and might be shown are reason to vote her out ???
 
Just saw the promo for tonights ep promising something explosive. Ooooh sounds promising!
 
fivecougars said:
I don't know why we're even arguing about this ..... 1) Tully has CHOSEN to hook up with Drew (and therefore cheat on her partner on national TV) (and dont give me any crap about "they havent had sex yet") because thats the only thing they havent done together yet, 2) Tahlia has CHOSEN as a result to part ways with Tully (and kudos for her for doing it in a very respectful manner, for which she should hold her head high, especially as Tully didn't show her any respect when she hooked up with Drew)

Keep in mind that Tahlia never signed up for BB!

So there's nothing to argue about ... Tully has chosen to cheat, her (ex)-gf has chosen to part ways as a result ...

ps. Drew is just as guilty as Tully though, he knows the story but is still pursuing, and that is completely disrespectful to Tully's gf.... not that she seems to care tho :(
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I'm sure Tahlia was hurt and that is understandable, she has moved on stating she is single so that damage is done that ship has sailed. The truth is that Tully and Drew are in love so let them love each other. Wish Tahlia well, hope she finds true love. Let life go on for all involved.
 
chads said:
Besides losing her other friends too?
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I would never stop being friends with someone because they cheated. I would tell them what I think of course and try to help her.
My friends or me are not perfect, but there is more to us than those faults.
 
TullyLovesDrew said:
I'm sure Tahlia was hurt and that is understandable, she has moved on stating she is single so that damage is done that ship has sailed. The truth is that Tully and Drew are in love so let them love each other. Wish Tahlia well, hope she finds true love. Let life go on for all involved.
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Well said
 
white_tulips said:
Yes but its the friends who are having to put up with hateful Twitter messages daily. I can completely understand her friend taking this stand.
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do they have to read the messages ? also, why do all of these nit wits have to jump on the hate Tully bandwagon she chose to be with a new partner, it was messy but it's done water over the dam, get over it people, stop spewing hate at Tully and her friends
 
white_tulips said:
Yes but its the friends who are having to put up with hateful Twitter messages daily. I can completely understand her friend taking this stand.
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Oh, abso-bloody-lutely! I understand that part for sure. What I was arguing is that if Tully still wants to be in the house, it's fine for her fans to keep voting for her even if some of her friends think it would be best for her to be evicted now.
 
crimmy said:
that's very cynical of you Chads ... and a little unfair to say that to BBfan who tries very hard to be reasonable ... she isn't a 'die-hard, one-eyed, never-going-to-listen-to-any-criticism' type of fan

also one doesn't need to experience something personally in order to empathise & understand the hurt involved

the thing none of us really know is exactly what shape the broken relationship was in when she entered the house ... NOT that that in any way excuses the situation ... but it might help to understand in some part WHY ... or HOW ...

also the power of a relationship built up when you are in the company of the other person 24/7 from the start should not be ignored in this ...it must take their focus off the outside world and bring it sharply into their little microcosm the BB house ... allowing them to in some part forget the outside for a while ...

I don't think what is going on can be realistically compared to life outside of the house ... the basic fact that they are unable to have contact with anyone outside is what has made this so bad

would you have seen this relationship in a better light if Tully had picked up the phone, called the ex and dumped her before moving into the relationship? or would you have still found reason to criticise her for hurting the ex?

no matter how it was dealt with the ex was / is going to get hurt. Nothing prevents that.

But at least the ex has stated life goes on. she didn't murder anyone. move on <or words to that effect - I'm not going to waste half an hour trying to find her tweets to quote verbatim - we know the essence of them by now so well - she's very hurt, she wants to move on, she doesn't want people hating on Tully>
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You can call me cynical if you like but my intention was not to criticize BBfan, even though I've been criticized the whole time on this forum. Many people compare being cheated on to when someone they love dies. How can you possbily know the feeling if you haven't experienced it.

I think that is way out of line to start questioning Tully's relationship with Tahlia as if it would make the cheating more acceptable. I've seen that a lot in here. I think that's unacceptable and disrespectful towards Tahlia.

Crude dumping by phone is better than cheating. It's at least honest and both know where they are at. It does not make me see Drew and Tully in positive light. Honestly I think Drew is disgusting person. I see through his good looks for what he really is. He is laughing about the whole cheating thing. That's only my opinion though.
 
there's a lot about this whole thing that confuses me, but one thing I do know for sure is that Tahlia can hold her head up high for how she's gone about this ... she never signed up for this, and she's basically been at the middle of a relationship dumping on national TV ... a LOT of ppl would not handle that well at all, but I am amazed at the strength and humility that Tahlia has displayed on social media, I take my hat off to her and raise her a glass of champagne. I don't know what she saw in Tully, but i know what Tully saw in Tahlia!
 
Punky Brewster said:
Just saw the promo for tonights ep promising something explosive. Ooooh sounds promising!
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Did you see it on TV? (Not online) They normally upload the promos to youtube but the latest one is still yesterday's one about Ben (which ended up as being nothing exciting that I can recall from the episode?).
 
BBfan- said:
I was using your logic and came to that conclusion.

I have a stupid crush on Tully that won't go away, but luckily it hasn't clouded my judgment so much that I can't see her faults. I just don't think they're as bad as people make them out to be.
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But her cheating is way worse than many here make out it to be.
 
Reaper said:
Did you see it on TV? (Not online) They normally upload the promos to youtube but the latest one is still yesterday's one about Ben (which ended up as being nothing exciting that I can recall from the episode?).
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Yep on Ch9
 
fivecougars said:
Keep in mind that Tahlia never signed up for BB!

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not that it really matters but I did read in the forums today that both Tully and Tahlia applied for BB ... the poster seemed to then think that BB owed Tahlia a duty of care also because of that ... <not saying that is what I think> but it may give you something to think about ... Tahlia was more than aware of BB and what it entails
She is also very aware of social media and the impact it has on people's lives and uses it herself to get her message out - and its obviously a huge part of Tully's life

so she's a woman of experience in that and knows how to cope with it - Tully has not left her out to dry in a foreign land ...

I totally agree she deserves much kudos for the way she's handled an extremely difficult and painful situation

btw - I usually avoid saying 'Tahlia this" "Tahlia that" as she has removed herself from the relationship and I don't like dragging her name forward anymore than it has to be - out of respect for her ... so when I only refer to her as the ex I'm not meaning to be disrespectful or belittle her in any way shape or form ...
 
TullyLovesDrew said:
I'm sure Tahlia was hurt and that is understandable, she has moved on stating she is single so that damage is done that ship has sailed. The truth is that Tully and Drew are in love so let them love each other. Wish Tahlia well, hope she finds true love. Let life go on for all involved.
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You really think she has moved on already? Just like that. Err I mean just like Tully...
 
chads said:
But her cheating is way worse than many here make out it to be.
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It's bad and disrespectful and selfish. She made a mistake by doing it on tv. But what else is there to say about it? What's done is done and everyone will move on with their lives. I don't think she's a bad person. She's human and she made a mistake.
 
interesting insight, cheers crimmzy :)

it's so awkward tho, the whole Drew'n'Tully'n'Tahlia thing... its really not the sort of thing that should be played out on national TV! (but it is intriguing so I'll keep watching haha)

if it was me tho i'd just wanna go and hide under a rock for the next thousand years
 
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